to leave or not to leave? plz advice..

[Mr Deed]

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i think thats the right move.. if he loves you, he will look for you when you are gone. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Hope for the best but expect the worst.. Goodluck!

[I-lab-Iero]

No you're not,
I think accidentally it was offered on the wrong person,
sometimes love does not sellect, directly it choses.

[Saga]

umm i kinda like ur comment lol... im a discreet type of person...im not igat as what u think.. and i never knew about the gf when it started...later na ko nkabaw...

sa diha pa daan nga sitwasyon.. klaro na kaau unsa nga laki...
but i'm amazed pilit pa gihapon ka niya even though gi ilad ka niya at the beginning

may i ask.. when u first started this type of relationship.... was it just a fubu for you or it was more than that for you??

take this advice from me, lets just say im familiar with this fubu thing .... he loves her and she likes you.... from time to time he wants to "use" you.... for him you are not a gf material but pang lingaw2x ra if he is bored... of course he is happy... he is getting what he wants from you... actually it makes him feel proud and boost his ego because bisan naa na xa uyab he is still able to seduce you and then get away with it even if ikaw kahibalo na nga naa jud xa uyab which is a common friend ra pud...

rule of thumb sa mga fubu2x... don't do it with a friend and don't do it always.. i mean once a month or twice at the most hehe.... and when u meet don't do fancy date or something special... just a simple night out or get to business right away hehe... if you follow this then you avoid getting involve emotionally.... mostly, girls jud ang mo fold pag una... ma in love daun... for girls s3x is also an emotional pleasure for guys it can be emotional but mostly its more about physical...

[jomzkie23]

u deserve sum1 much better miga..

[krikri123]

sa diha pa daan nga sitwasyon.. klaro na kaau unsa nga laki...
but i'm amazed pilit pa gihapon ka niya even though gi ilad ka niya at the beginning

may i ask.. when u first started this type of relationship.... was it just a fubu for you or it was more than that for you??

take this advice from me, lets just say im familiar with this fubu thing .... he loves her and she likes you.... from time to time he wants to "use" you.... for him you are not a gf material but pang lingaw2x ra if he is bored... of course he is happy... he is getting what he wants from you... actually it makes him feel proud and boost his ego because bisan naa na xa uyab he is still able to seduce you and then get away with it even if ikaw kahibalo na nga naa jud xa uyab which is a common friend ra pud...

rule of thumb sa mga fubu2x... don't do it with a friend and don't do it always.. i mean once a month or twice at the most hehe.... and when u meet don't do fancy date or something special... just a simple night out or get to business right away hehe... if you follow this then you avoid getting involve emotionally.... mostly, girls jud ang mo fold pag una... ma in love daun... for girls s3x is also an emotional pleasure for guys it can be emotional but mostly its more about physical...

im not good with relationships man gud, i just wanna be single by choice then he came along..ambot ngano to oi bsta niclick lng mi duha so we started the fubu thing and me not knowing bout the other girl.. so it was just a game for me..but now it seems na i played the wrong game.. pildi jud ko ani and bsag unsaon nako nga dli mgpaalkansi, alkansi jud ko... so we talked bout us yun nga ingon xa nga he doesnt want me to leave him..
i agree with the "use" thing... he gets what he wants from me and he is happy...and i found out na boring ang girl so dili kau nya kuyogon sa mga lakaw..kami pirmi..like whenever he has gimiks with his friends i come along..i see his gf as an enemy hehe...not a friend.. whenever magkuyog mi 3 d man jud malikayan plastikan ra jud ang mahimo nako.. ug lisod jud magpretend...
im not a gf material i knew that before pa...in fact karon pako kasuway na ako ang 3rd party.. im used to being the first girl not the second.so im really confused..
i like ur rules...and its true na *** for us women is an emotional feeling but for men mostly its just physical... para ingnun maayong laki sila hehehe...

[krikri123]

u deserve sum1 much better miga..

yes thanks migo..
i know i deserve someone jud..

[Saga]

im not good with relationships man gud, i just wanna be single by choice then he came along..ambot ngano to oi bsta niclick lng mi duha so we started the fubu thing and me not knowing bout the other girl.. so it was just a game for me..but now it seems na i played the wrong game.. pildi jud ko ani and bsag unsaon nako nga dli mgpaalkansi, alkansi jud ko... so we talked bout us yun nga ingon xa nga he doesnt want me to leave him..
i agree with the "use" thing... he gets what he wants from me and he is happy...and i found out na boring ang girl so dili kau nya kuyogon sa mga lakaw..kami pirmi..like whenever he has gimiks with his friends i come along..i see his gf as an enemy hehe...not a friend.. whenever magkuyog mi 3 d man jud malikayan plastikan ra jud ang mahimo nako.. ug lisod jud magpretend...
im not a gf material i knew that before pa...in fact karon pako kasuway na ako ang 3rd party.. im used to being the first girl not the second.so im really confused..
i like ur rules...and its true na *** for us women is an emotional feeling but for men mostly its just physical... para ingnun maayong laki sila hehehe...

if you are willing to take a risk, here is what you can do..

likayi sya for a month or two.. walay kita, wlay text, no hellos or hi...
this will measure what you are for him.. kung para niya fubu lang jud nothing more at first mangita sya nimo pero madugay he will give up and look for other girls... pero kung persistent kaau sya to the point nga he will insist nga magkita mo ug manguatana ngano likay2xc ka niya.. tell him with all honestly how you feel about him. tell him that it was a mistake but it's too late for regrets and the only option is to move forward. before it goes deeper and get's more complicated (mabuntis ka) the relationship should end unless he is willing to make it official which means she has to leave her and choose you.

this will end 3 ways... ma undang inyoha fubu, mag uyab mo or atikan ra ka niya ug balik ra mo sa current situation ninyo hehehe...

[J ª n J ª n 9]

girl, i would suggest you to leave... in time you will find someone who will treat you better and will love you for what you are and not for other reasons...

[masakiton]

is it becoz im fun and i satisfy him or

sa gi ingon ni dr love nga lisod mangita ug babae nga tanga nga mo sugot nga duha sila

[facuztha]

do the right thing, then it will make you feel much better... (from experience)