HELP! I want my things return to me but my ex-GF wont!

[ohohoy]

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TS once na mahatag na na nimo ayaw nah bawia kay imoha na gud nang gihatag, dba? gawas kung imoha ra gipa hulaman kana siya ang pwede nimo bawion? lain kaayo nang imoha ghatag pagtapos imoha bawion..

[mr. manoy]

ayaw nalang to hilabti ang mga butang nga naa niya karon...sagdii nalang to cya...don't waste your time on a person who can't value your worth and show you that very heavy word called "appreciation".

@cptn_star: lisud kaau move on bro.. naka think man gud ko akong mga things which i gave my best
effort to her.. palit ko bisag mahal para niya.. nag tihik ko sa akong self so i can buy things for her..
all i want is my things return to me.. so i can burn n erase wats my mistake..

[mr. manoy]

TS:

You said "gave" I think you know what it means. You cannot claim that it is still yours, after all you have given it to your uyab already. The moment you gave your things, it automatically became hers not yours- GET IT! Even if she never appreciates or likes it. The thing is you GAVE it to your uyab. Nobody forces you to give it to your uyab.

Also if that is your attitude that every time you break up with your uyab and it didn't end well. You want to get the things you've given. If you keep this behavior of yours, I suggest do not enter into a relationship, or never give your girlfriend any thing.

You need to grow up, seriously.. WOW!! If I am the girl why would I return the things to you. It is already mine. You haven't heard of the saying, "It is better to give than to receive." Give it some thought, then move on. Stop crying like a little girl.

@colby: not everytime... ONLY this time, I know I need to grow up but shes even more immature..
who cant appreciate own uyab gft.. lain tao grabe kaau appreciate.. cge salamat.. hatagan flower.
dmu sulti thank you, mu suko pajud.. hatag lain butang.. reklamu pud... better give to a liar?
just a simple request: return everything n dats all, no more no less.. im NOT crying like a little girl.
im just expressing my anger.. u cant judge me on dat.. but stil, thank you for your advise even
u use insulting word to me.. i dont mind.. i just want advise from all of you..

[mr. manoy]

funny thing is that shes still got feelings for her ex-crush (which is now priest)... never say die~ LOL

[cptn_star]

ayaw na lagi usiki imong panahon sa taw nga di kahibaw mohatag og importansya. ana ra na ka.simple. khbaw ko lisod ang pagmove on kay ako personally kasuway ko ana but the fact the you're finding it hard to move on sa usa ka uyab nga ingana, you should re-think things cguro.

[mr. manoy]

@Cptn_star: I know its sound stubborn but dumot lang jud kaau ko niya.. hapit nalang ko heart attack sauna.. super kalagot.. i just want to burn all the da*n things lang jud para mas kalma ko...

[dubioz]

You're kidding, right? You gave it to her, it's all HERS!

Move on.

now all I want is everything I GAVE her, I demand her to return
everything back to me.

[mr. manoy]

You're kidding, right? You gave it to her, it's all HERS!

Move on.

No kidding cause shes a liar.. maau lang reklamu.. dats y call me stubborn or watever.. it doesnt matter

[Sand Man]

One way to settle this. Go to her house. Talk to her in her own home in her own sala and tell her you want your stuff back.

The good thing about this is that if she's not there you can talk to her parents/bros/sis. That puts more pressure on her and will force her to return your stuff.

NOTE: This is all assuming you are a well-accepted uyab in their panimalay/family.

By the way, since you are all hell-bent on getting back your stuff (which we all find to be very unusual), this has peaked our curiosity and we are all in agreement to requesting you to list down the items you gave her here.

[yhokz101]

ayaw na kuhaa to ang imong mga gamit na gihatag nimo didto niya.. let it go, maka remind rka about ana nya. sagda-e ra to ang mga gamit... move on.