Why?

[scorpio_89]

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I don't understand why some people love to judge and insult other people for making mistakes. Do they think they are perfect? have no flaws? no mistakes? They act as if they are higher than God. HE doesn't even judge.

[kit_cebu]

:facepalm mode:

[scorpio_89]

What's with the facepalm?

[I-lab-Iero]

Defense mechanism manifested through offense,
they wanted to show superiority, cloaking how inferior they are.
Nobody is absolute, we are flawed since the beginning we are brought to this world.

[scorpio_89]

Defense mechanism manifested through offense,
they wanted to show superiority, cloaking how inferior they are.
Nobody is absolute, we are flawed since the beginning we are brought to this world.

I am inferior but I don't tend to insult others for making mistakes. Well siguro maka judge ko, di man pud na maiwasan, it's human nature pero not in the sense na grabe jud na makasakit nakog taw tungod sa akong gipanabi. I make a lot of mistakes so kinsa man ko para mo judge diba?

[I-lab-Iero]

I am inferior but I don't tend to insult others for making mistakes. In a sense na makasakit tag taw tungod sa atong gipanabi. Murag mauwaw ko mo judge oie, kinsa gud ta para mo judge, diba?

Yes, but do they have the right to do so,
It's a fallacy and a great blunder for anyone who commit such,
it's an offense against pride and chastity and somehow
if a fellow human being wishes to offend you, then you also
have all the means to fought back and preserve yourself.
Afterall she/he is just a human being like you.

[scorpio_89]

Yes, but do they have the right to do so,
It's a fallacy and a great blunder for anyone who commit such,
it's an offense against pride and chastity and somehow
if a fellow human being wishes to offend you, then you also
have all the means to fought back and preserve yourself.
Afterall she/he is just a human being like you.

Yeah, I know what you mean.. siguro it's their worst flaw. Thankful lang ko nga di ko in-ana pagkataw.

[Sand Man]

I don't understand why some people love to judge and insult other people for making mistakes. Do they think they are perfect? have no flaws? no mistakes? They act as if they are higher than God. HE doesn't even judge.

First of all, why would 'they' matter so much to you? You have your own life to run and it's not tied to their opinions. You are wasting valuable energy giving so much thought to 'them' when all they do is talk shit behind your back. Sakto ang giingon ni I-lab-Iero, they feel miserable with their own selves and they try to compensate by putting others down.

Whatever you decide to do in your life, whether it results in failure or success, will be your own responsibility and how you deal with it. Ang importante lang is ug unsay consequences sa imong actions you need to own up to it. This becomes especially hard in times na palpak -- pero that is a part of life. Don't be afraid of failures -- they are there to make you strong. You will experience a lot of palpak as you navigate thru life. The important thing is that you learn from the mistakes, and make sure you do not do it again. Doing this will make you a more wise, stronger and resilient person inside.

You are the master of your own fate. Remember that.

[sandman2c]

According to the Personality Plus by Florence Littauer
This kind of people are belong to the MELANCHOLY-CHOLERIC personality. this people are naturality perfectionist and born leaders who tend to express bad words in their disappointment toward others. So its natural for them.

Nice book. i will recommend it to everybody esp if you wanted to know your ownself.

thanks

[scorpio_89]

First of all, why would 'they' matter so much to you? You have your own life to run and it's not tied to their opinions. You are wasting valuable energy giving so much thought to 'them' when all they do is talk shit behind your back. Sakto ang giingon ni I-lab-Iero, they feel miserable with their own selves and they try to compensate by putting others down.

Whatever you decide to do in your life, whether it results in failure or success, will be your own responsibility and how you deal with it. Ang importante lang is ug unsay consequences sa imong actions you need to own up to it. This becomes especially hard in times na palpak -- pero that is a part of life. Don't be afraid of failures -- they are there to make you strong. You will experience a lot of palpak as you navigate thru life. The important thing is that you learn from the mistakes, and make sure you do not do it again. Doing this will make you a more wise, stronger and resilient person inside.

You are the master of your own fate. Remember that.

Well, akong auntie maoy akong gibasabot ani akong post.. but I know daghan taw nga pareha sa kong auntie. My fam, lola and auntie live under the same roof. So murag lisud jud kaayo akong situation, kay pirmi mi magkita.

Don't tell me hangtud diri sa forum, di ko pwede mo vent. Wala na ba ko'y right nga mo vent? I'm not the type of person na mo-open up. I just keep my feelings to myself. Di ko ganahan pud mo react kay di ko ganahan ug gubot. So thankful ko nga naay forum. Thankful ko sa internet, cause it gives me a chance to be myself. I'm aware of my mistakes. So I don't blame them at all. Why would I blame them? nga ako ma'y gahimo sa akong kinabuhi. I'm not that kind of person. Actually, I hate myself for making a lot of mistakes. I hate myself for not being the person they want me to be. I honestly think I don't deserve to be loved. Yeah that's how I despise myself! And I'm only human, masakitan pud ko kun insultuhon ko labi na wa tay laban kay auntie lage nato. But yeah I agree with you na ang ilang criticisms maoy maka pa strong nako... so yeah, in spite of the pain that they have caused me, dapat thankful pud ko sa ilahang mga saway.