i think it depende ra jud na sa unsa na type imong paents. naa man uban na open-minded nya naa pud uban na dili nalang jud pwede mo explain.

My parents think of every explanation as talking back. they would let me explain then after moingon dayon na tubag2x na ko.

as much as possible dili nalang jud ka motingog. mao sad na ingon sa among teacher who's a mother to 3 kids. even if pangutan-on ka, ayaw lang jud ug tubag. she said a parent would always see it as being rude even if ga answer ra ka sa ilang pangutana.

nindot jud na open ang communication between parents and child. masuya ko sa uban na close au. sa amoa we were always taught to keep our mouths shut so aloof kaayo mi sa among parents.