Flirting and Cheating

[splendid moonlight]

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If you flirt but know in your heart and mind that you will never do anything with this person even if he/she shows interest, then it's not cheating for me. But I think only a few - and only mostly girls - can flirt and know in their heart and mind that it's nothing. Most boys can't do that. When a boy flirts, he has an ulterior motive, and he will bite when given the chance, even when he doesn't think the girl is attractive enough. Some of them need not flirt to cheat. When a girl comes up to a boy and says "drop your pants," he will oblige. When they say dili sila mo balibad ug grasya (this one is coming from their own mouths), dili gyud na sila mo balibad ug grasya - whether or not they were the ones who initiated it.

So for me, flirting is not cheating per se, it's the motive behind it.

[Blackjellybean27]

flirting is not yet cheating, but most of the time it'll lead to cheating. so avoid flirting nalng dba?

[rku_funky]

bitaw nganu sad kaha ng magkuyog ang flirting ug cheating sah.... igsoon man tali ni sila..... cgro dili na ma tawag nga cheating kung makig flirt ka sa uban kung wakay uyab... pero naa gyud na kanunay ang flirting bisan unsaon....

Pre pwede maka flirt nimo bisag kadali lang.... peeew! ahehehe

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

pwede ni e like? heheheheh

according to linogzkie...

cheating - is a science art and business of raising both plants and animals for the economic use of humans, while...

flirting - is a biological form of agriculture in which a small area of land is intensively cultivated by using natures own ingredients to rebuild and then maintain the soils productivity.

OT:
whew! watta a comparison...

OnT:
well, flirting for me is nothing but normal...i mean, let us not be hypocrite, we all flirt...but what is important is that we know our limitations...flirting is the act of making someone notice u or catching someone's attention or seducing someone bcoz u find that someone interesting...but for christ sake, if u are already committed, let the flirting stop coz it will only lead to cheating...and wen u cheat, everything becomes complicated...giving u tons of headaches...

[genzu73]

bitaw nganu sad kaha ng magkuyog ang flirting ug cheating sah.... igsoon man tali ni sila..... cgro dili na ma tawag nga cheating kung makig flirt ka sa uban kung wakay uyab... pero naa gyud na kanunay ang flirting bisan unsaon....

Pre pwede maka flirt nimo bisag kadali lang.... peeew! ahehehe

OT: brad, naa naman ka gf. mag selos nya imo gf naq. ahehe.. kiskis nalang ta kuku.

OnT: flirting is okay unless if your not yet committed to someone. but for me, flirting is not yet considered as cheating.

[bastywarts]

i flirt with my gf ALOT..nakabasa ko sa yahoo na flirting with your partner is a good thing for your relationship..

pero if lahi na nga taw,then your somewhat committed already,esp if minyu nah,palayu nalang intawn uy..ohhhhhhhhhh tuksooooo layuaaannn mo akooooooooooooooooo

[iMAX]

flirting is just admiring the wonderful creatures that surrounds you while cheating is try to acquire or tasting other creatures.. lolz... hehehe...

yup tired it flirting...

[dangelndisguise]

Once you commit yourself to one person either by marriage or bf/gf, then flirting is out the window......

I don't think flirting is cheating per se...disrespectful, yes...cheating, no. However, flirting can be a precursor of events to come... (cheating) lol

Having a good time with another person is not flirting. Flirting has a definite purpose: to start an intimate relation with that person. If your bf/gf does not have that purpose, he is not flirting. He is having a good time and he is making other persons feel good about themselves.

o agree on this sir..

i can actually flirt mn coz im single so dili ko kacheat

unay q sa akong thread.

for me flirting is considered as cheating. but a much less sinner than cheating. while cheating is something like you already have contact with, like you two already had kiss, meet ups or even ***.

so ikaw sir d diay ka pwd maflirtan? single pa mn ko? so d ko ka flirt nimo ky cheating mn kaha na

[sandy_sandy]

wht i do if my gf cheated on me,,i really loved her so much

[genzu73]

so ikaw sir d diay ka pwd maflirtan? single pa mn ko? so d ko ka flirt nimo ky cheating mn kaha na

naks! hehe.. there is no need to ask permission when flirting. haha! joke.

OnT: flirting is okay if you are not committed because that wont lead to cheating. We can only call ourselves cheating if we are still committed to someone.