i think he's married..

[tamse]

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CASE CLOSED!

---the guy admits he's married.... and i decided not to see him again...


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First post is below:


i am seeing this guy for months now...

not a date...di sad kami... we just see each other and go out...

as he treats me the way i love to be treated (kay maayo man jd ning mga laki mangilatis aha ang gilok sa bae) i was starting to fall to him... and actually i told him "hey.. i think i should not see you anymore.. or maybe dont be too sweet to me coz i am falling in love to you" ... and he told me "hold on to that feeling, i wanna catch up coz i see some sparkle between us" ...

we only see each other about once a month.. it would be a miracle if it would go twice a month.. we just chat or he calls me (not knowing his new number or office number) and when we see each other it is usually monday-saturday..never on a sunday. i never met any friends or family of his nor he is to me.

and as i continue seeing him.. that feeling have develop more and more. my friends eve see me bloom the day after i meet him.. and so last time i wanna tell him something but i am just too scared to say it, coz i never say it with feelings, i never said it and mean it... and one day, before i left i kissed his cheek and said "love you" and i stand up and then he said "love you too"... and then i left..

as days pass by.. i was asking myself, if he loves me then why he didnt follow up on me? i mean, he didnt check on me the day after, or even days after... if he love me, then he cant wait to see me again, right? and its been weeks now and i havent heard anything from him.. so i ask God a sign asking Him "is he married?" and the sign says "yes" ... i look up the internet if how i can tell that a guy is married, top 10 signs that is, 9 of 10 is yes...

referring to this :How to tell if a man is married | eHow.com

why 9? coz i dont know about the #6 never tried that on him

i know some of you will say "why not ask him?".. i asked him several times he always say "NO"
so what do you think? is he married? did he lied?

[teoding]

this may sound desperate but i think this will be the solution. if both of you live in the same city or town, follow him secretly after you parted ways. thus, he may unknowingly lead you to his house where all the answers you've been dying to know lies.

[mybuuz]

why not also try to ask his schedule (as if curious but not serious), if you're lucky then show up on the venue by surprise. anyway, nobody knows you except him. if he's there with friends or family then he will acknowledge and greet you. if not, he'll pretend as if you're not there or trying to get rid of you.

if he's not there, his lying. you'll know for sure the next story....

[Blackjellybean27]

sounds familiar hehe. 99% he's married or he has a long time gf. i have a friend who has a married bf. the bf and the wife are not together naman and he's with my friend na. but she started snooping around his cellphone and saw some messages to another girl and well, of course my friend felt bad. but she felt sorry for the girl na gi ilad sa bf niya, because ang girl nag tuo pod na unattached ang guy. and based sa text messages murag the girl is falling for him na..
hala noh, at least my friend knows her bf is married. what if sya to ang girl na gi ilad lang sa bf nya? eeeeks!
hala sis, better find out soon or snoop around. lisod if you fall for him deeply

[Attempt-Fight-Gear]

ka klaro ana nga MARRIED. he ONLY said "i love u too" para dle ka malain. and he is still struggling
TO CHEAT OR NOT TO CHEAT.

[tamse]

hello guys.. thanks for the suggestions ... i dont like being lied to so today .. just few minutes ago he message me and i asked him "is it safe to love you?"... he said "no..i am married"

he said he love me because he do but he's married...

right now he wanna pursue a relationship with me but i never ever dreamed to be a man's other woman..

i am disgusted by the thought or the idea of being one or even someone is being one...


but i am so puzzled right now that the love and the situation is fighting.. or is it more better to say, my heart and my brain is fighting...

i need to get a drink or something


by the way .. he's my first love

[analog man]

oi, ayaw inom2X oi. puno2X lang ka problema nimo.
pamper yourself, adto ug spa
then buy a pair of nice shoes or sandals
dress
eat
feel good

[jazmin]

ayaw na ana niya tamse woie. walay ayu. i hate married men and their god-damned sins. my father's sin, included. period. Ayaw pa ilad, girl.

Once you let the devil's apple in... it's hard to get it out. so while it's still in your tongue, spit it out!

Remember, not all SWEET things are good for your body.

[tamse]

oi, ayaw inom2X oi. puno2X lang ka problema nimo.
pamper yourself, adto ug spa
then buy a pair of nice shoes or sandals
dress
eat
feel good

yeah... i know.. but i am not that girly that loves those things so much... id rather go for the adrenaline ...

thanks anyway......


mods...it's ok for this thread to be close... thanks

[jazmin]

Nindot lagi na cya awayon ay... I hate excessive liars jud nga maka sakit na og tao.

I'm not saying that I'm not a liar, i've lied a million times but not to the extent na ma sakitan ang uban tao. If it involves other people, better spit it out nalang. Guys like these don't deserve women who are loyal and truthful to them.

Ayaw na jud tamse!!! If makakita ko ana niya tawhana, maka tilaw unya na og bunal sa ako payong!!!