Laki sa palo, matino?

[herp_doctor]

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I believe in corporal punishment, as that's what my parents did to me when i went wrong before, paired with psychological sermons. It made me what i am now; disciplined.

But like what my parents did, i also believe in doing so as a last resort & as moderate as possible. Not to the extend that it's considered BEATING or worst BEASTING the child to death.

I give corporal punishment to my kids. But only if it's the last and only option i have left to instill discipline on them. And make them understand,, as well as remember that what they did was wrong & shouldn't they do it again.

Affections should also be given soon afterwards to comfort the child and assure the bond of the parent -/- kid.

[AbsoluteWilkins]

sometimes we just can't punish our children brutally because if we do that im sure we will be in jail coz that's child abuse.... if we want to discipline them, just spank him/her lightly and try also to avoid to spank them imo ra kasab-an ba

[messy_babycate]

mas bunalan mas mabadlongon... i am a living witness to this... sige ko bun-og sa ako mom before. gamay lang sayup piti dayun... it came to a point nga bisag gidapog ko wala ra ko ni-react. ni-ask siya in-ana na ba ko ka maldita..nitubag ko no... na-immune na lang ko nga it doesn't hurt anymore bisag unsa kasakit. it felt like wala na lang...

[messy_babycate]

since then dili na ko mahadlok masayop coz I'm sure even if I'll get beaten, it won't hurt anymore...or atleast not as much as how she wants me to be hurt...

[jake_smack11]

ok ra basta moderate lang...yaw sad ng murag patyon nalang ang bata...
i grew up being beaten kung makasa ko...but i find it effective as means of discipline because of wat i am
now...

[stealthghost]

mga kaila nako nga Pastor...

ila method is, bunalan ang anak, human storyaan og pasabton nganu gibunalan niya iya anak unya inig human mag ampo sila..

I think mas maayo nga storyaan pud ang anak dili ra kay pataka og bunal.

IMHO, naa man jud ta'y inner wild attitudes, wala'y "MATINO" nga tao..
some nga gibunalan kay ma-traumatize or mo-balos nuon inig sila na pud ang naa'y control.

naay bag ong balaod ron, presohon ang ginikanan kung bunalan ang anak.


dili na d i ta ka desiplina sa atong anak?

gahi raba og ulo ang mga bata karon, labi ng sige gipainom gatas sa baka, usahay manungay na gani ang bata.

: para nako pwede ra bunalan, pero dili lang palab anan, at least naay gikahadlokan ang bata. Para makabalo sila og asay sayop og dili.


kamo? para ninyu..tsaman?

IMHO, dapat RESPECT sa parents ang naa sa mga bata, dili ang kahadlok.. kay kung mahadlok ang mga bata, traumatized na sila..

[richiel25]

ok ra basta moderate lang...yaw sad ng murag patyon nalang ang bata...
i grew up being beaten kung makasa ko...but i find it effective as means of discipline because of wat i am
now...

being beaten?... maypa ka.. nindot imong views ana.. ang uban pa ana, napariwa na.. that's good.

[pongsansoy]

Ako its ok to hit your kids to make them understand why they were hit. It is important that it is explained afterwards though.
Ako i had my share of spanks and i grew up fairly ok because my parents never forgot to tell me why and what i should do next time.
I have Teacher friends in US who have told me that there is a great disparity between Asian and American kids in terms of discipline in schools. It can be observed that Asian kids do better in their studies than American kids and most of my friends reasoning is because of the difference of discipline at home between American kids and Asians.
Asian kids have a certain degree of fear of failure brought about by fear of their parents. In in time it changes they no longer fear failure because of their parents might get disappointed but they fear to fail because they don’t want to disappoint themselves.
American kids now a days are not fearful of anything because their parents never disciplined them properly. If they fail to do something, they're sent to their rooms and its impact was more material than lesson learning as they were just depriving the luxury they used to enjoy which they eventually get again.
Hitting as a punishment might be suitable however hitting a kid is not enough, the kid should be made to understand the reasons why they were hit, communication should not be lost. My parents before hit me when I do something wrong but they explained it to me well and they even were more hurt about it than I am which made me more committed to do a better judgment the next time around. And it should never be over done, a single slap or two should be enough to make us remember that moment. Hitting a kid near death will only make the kid fear the pain not the mistake.

[cptn_star]

what does the government want parents to do? pa.push up-on ang mga bata kng makasala?

[jake_smack11]

being beaten?... maypa ka.. nindot imong views ana.. ang uban pa ana, napariwa na.. that's good.

basta moderate lang bro ok ra na...kung ma approve jud na ang law about ana daghan jud mapariwara
kay mogara na ang mga bata...