I need help?

[pajuu]

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I'm a newbie here, I have no idea what I'm doing. haha. Anyway, I just need a little advice, I guess.

Hmm, Its about a guy I like, and when I say like, it means Like like..
(It's sooo awkward for me to write this down, have never tried this before XD)
As I was saying, This guy has been my crush since summer. I wanted to express my feelings towards him, but I thought NO 'cause maybe he would change his "pagtan.aw" nko (lol. you know XD). I think he only sees me as a sister. So, I decided to ignore my feelings for him. It's been 3 months now, And it's been bothering me a lot. I'm in pain, so much pain now. Everyday the pain grows, and my feelings for him grows. It hurts a lot. I really want to tell him about what I really feel for him just so I can get it over with and get if off my chest, but I think I'm not courageous enough.

What do I do?
Please help?

[andersonl]

1st thing to check is to see how he sees you now.
Try to put urself in his shoes, try to look at "you" and see if u see a good person or a potential possessive psycho. no offense. if u see a good person, good. nobody likes sum1 who keeps annoying/bugging him every minute.

so for now, establish a good friendship, start slow, never too fast. when ur with him, just be urself, dont act extra different. get to know him, let him get to know you, and get closer. but if di jud cya nimo, di man jud ta maka pugos diba? remember dat u are just 1 of the billions of girls in this world.
and to the contrary, he is just one of the billions of guys in this world. there's bound to be sum1 else out there whos gona take ur breath away or make ur heart stop for a moment everytime u see him.

lastly, get ready lng to accept positive or negative conclusions..if its positive, then have a happy life.
if its negative, LEARN from it and grow, dnt neglect it.

[vahnhelsing]

never mind the pain your the one creating it... if you want, learn to risk and let him know.. the pain might subside or may get worse.... take the risk so that you will know. only the man you takes the risk will be free.... fly and be free..

[Klave]

Before jumping the gun, try to get a few more hints first, ask him who he likes.
Ask him the types of girl he likes, does he think he is ready for a relationship, and any other questions about love.

If you think he treats you like a sister then use this wisely, ask him all those questions that you seem curious about. Be the curious little sister he always wanted, well don't forget to be cute and sweet about it. Treat him like the oh so respectable and wise big brother he deserves to be.

Then come back here with the data you have gathered. So the point is don't be all shy about it, just try and talk to him about anything. If the guy isn't an intellectual, whatever questions you ask him, he won't think you are stupid, and will try his best in answering them.

[pajuu]

1st thing to check is to see how he sees you now.
Try to put urself in his shoes, try to look at "you" and see if u see a good person or a potential possessive psycho. no offense. if u see a good person, good. nobody likes sum1 who keeps annoying/bugging him every minute.

so for now, establish a good friendship, start slow, never too fast. when ur with him, just be urself, dont act extra different. get to know him, let him get to know you, and get closer. but if di jud cya nimo, di man jud ta maka pugos diba? remember dat u are just 1 out of a billions girls in this world.
and to the contrary, he is just one of the billions guys in this world. there's bound to be sum1 else out there whos gona take ur breath away or makes ur heart stop for a moment everytime u see him.

lastly, get ready lng to accept positive or negative conclusions..if its positive, then have a happy life.
if its negative, LEARN from it and grow, dnt neglect it.

I am totally not a possessive psycho. Haha.
Hmm, we don't even communicate that much,
As i said, I'm ignoring my feelings for him, so that means I sort of don't talk to him a lot now.
I get shy.
Not to be feeler or something, but I think we're kind of close.
Even though he's always busy and all.. whenever he goes online and to tell you he goes online like once a week, i mean not really once a week.. but we chat once a week and that's our only contact, He would really ask me "how have i been, how was my day, that he misses me, that do i have something to share to him, how am i feeling, etc" And if he really just treats me a sister, because he is like 3 years older than me, Better to accept it nalang, dba? and lagi, D jud na ma pugos. Hehee. I don't expect anything man sad, Maybe i will get disappointed lang. So yeah.. thanks, btw.

[GOSPELofROCH]

hhmmm...better ask him out, friendly date lng sa good, getting to know each other and when its time for you to say whats inside go for it.

[pajuu]

hhmmm...better ask him out, friendly date lng sa good, getting to know each other and when its time for you to say whats inside go for it.

Woah. I can't do that. I'm a coy girl, you know
he asked me sauna though if I wanted to hangout with him
and his friends, i think. But maan, like.. a month ago.
Maybe he already changed his mind or something :\

[andersonl]

but we chat once a week and that's our only contact, He would really ask me "how have i been, how was my day, that he misses me, that do i have something to share to him, how am i feeling, etc" And if he really just treats me a sister, because he is like 3 years older than me, Better to accept it nalang, dba? and lagi, D jud na ma pugos. Hehee. I don't expect anything man sad, Maybe i will get disappointed lang. So yeah.. thanks, btw.

oh? nya tig laag mo? sounds like interested lagi cya nimo da, hehe

[saitohkiyohiru]

FInd other friends...hang out and have fun, once you do that, you'll forget about him...DIversion diversion diversion...

[GOSPELofROCH]

Woah. I can't do that. I'm a coy girl, you know
he asked me sauna though if I wanted to hangout with him
and his friends, i think. But maan, like.. a month ago.
Maybe he already changed his mind or something :\

will you just sit there and wait for the moon to come down?
if you think you are too afraid, then you will suffer for the rest of you life, regretting things you've never done, when in fact all it take is just one step forward.

"Opportunities won't just go away, the other person took it!"