My Destination of life..

[bodacious_babe]

I think the reason why posting topics (no matter how painful or hard they may be) is very helpful to the readers is because we never really know who needs the advice until they stumble across the thread. TS, just the fact that you brought up whatever it is that you are struggling with, already means that you are making a difference and that you are important. Kay kung wala ka ni post ani, wala sad mi realizations and our fellow istoryans would not have been able to post their own wisdom and insight on the matter. Daghan ko na learn just by visiting your thread.

" bro, first to practice this simple principle in life:

be the reason for the smile on someone's lips
rather than be the cause of a tear in someone's eyes...

practice that each day...and u will find ur direction lageh.

and this one:

Thoughts are Things...

do not think nga there is sumting wrong with u..or else that will really materialize. trust me...thoughts are things!

Learn everything there is to learn in this life.... learn to smile, learn to laugh, learn to scream and LEARN TO LIVE BETTER....

Life is beautiful dude... Yeah, it gets difficult sometimes..... and boring na xa usahay.... BUT IT's BEAUTIFUL! it needs effort lang jud para manotice ni nato.. "

if only for these lines na enlighten ko, or the hundreds of people who will be reading this, then nakatabang naka sa uban taw. So, always count your blessings each and every day maski unsa ka gamay... the friendships, your good health , the ability to care and love, the air you breathe (which a lot of people take for granted) .. start with the little things.. then you'll gradually fell better.. not immediately but at least little by little.. But whatever task you start out on, be very sure to finish what you started. That's one of the morale boosters that actually works.


GOD bless you! Life is Beautiful! And we have eternity to look forward to!

[heisenberg69]

be the reason for the smile on someone's lips
rather than be the cause of a tear in someone's eyes...

i really love reading your advice... a nice line....yeah life is very BEAUTIFUL... choose to live better not BITTER

[Githyanki]

you do make so much sense!!infact, im jealous at your situation..knowing that you have overcome all that..i know its the hardest thing to do..learn to love your life and find your meaning of existence..10 years ago i used to think of life is just a life..nothing more..i just do whatever i like..not knowing after i graduate highschool..i realized that i have missed 50% of existence and meaning of my life.....

Well, actually, I just figured this out a few years back so I haven't really overcome everything yet. I'm still in the process of finding myself. I was really just the same as you before. But I had to really look at myself one time. And I wasn't happy at what I saw. I went through a lot just to get where I am now. But, believe me, it's possible..

TS, things change and life goes on. We have to keep moving forward, opening new doors, doing new things, and find our own place in this world. But you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.. Have courage.. And face yourself.. As Henry David Thoreau said, "men are born to succeed, not fail."

TS, we are always here for you. But, you need to realize that for things to change, it has to come from within you. It has to start with you believing that you can. And, I know that you can too!

[johnC]

It's always normal to dream,
there is that fine line between reality and fantasy,
you can always aspire and try to reach something, but in the end
it is as always be defined by your capacity to reach.
Sad to say we do have our own limitations in possessing what we ought to have.

ngano datg.as kau inyo mga post kapoy basa ..

ako ma sulti ra TS ..find meaning to your life and you will be happy

hala! nahan ko ani... but I'm not really good at this noh? I was once like that too... M young btw so i guess normal ra to xa... but before, I also didn't know what to do with my life. wla ko kbalo unsa akong gnhan... tanan nlang jud OK sa ako... and this attitude made me a passive person. like unsa nlang iingon sa akong family and friends na this should be done-that should done, OK ra kaau sa ako tanan coz, like you, i felt wlay direction ang akong life and it sucks, you know? at 20, 2 years ago, I was diagnosed with cancer. [sometimes man jud no kung naa ka sa situation na lisud, makareflect ka sa imung life]... i wasn't scared actually... i embraced it instead! And then all I was thinking is WHAT IF mamatay ko, fulfilled na ba kaha ko sa akong life? or naa ba kaha koy memories na ibilin sa akong family and friends. And since then, i realized na wala! wala jud! I was always a puppet... A puppet of my family and a puppet of my ideals... And so i've decided that when I'm through with this cancer thingy, I'm gonna do all the things that I wanna do in my life... Learn everything there is to learn in this life.... learn to smile, learn to laugh, learn to scream and LEARN TO LIVE BETTER.... so since then, since i have always wanted to learn spanish, gatuon tuon pud ko ug spanish ui and fortunately, through my blog, where I usually write about my thoughts and significant events of my life, I've met some people who are also fliuent in spanish and they helped me learn. And then few months after my chemo, I went to work again [it was funny though coz my hair was sooooooo short pa back then, like murag boycut and my co-workers thought that i was a tomboy or something, HAHAHAHA!], and then after 3 months of working, I finally knew what I've wanted and needed..... It's with me all along...... Now I'm in law school.... and I'm happy... I'm happy that I have made people happy, I've shared my learnings from my experiences and I have touched other people's lives.....

Life is beautiful dude... Yeah, it gets difficult sometimes..... and boring na xa usahay.... BUT IT's BEAUTIFUL! it needs effort lang jud para manotice ni nato..

Don't feel rejected ui... All of us here loves you.... so live life to the FOOLEST.....aw.... FULLEST d i... ^_^

Have a Happy LIFE! ^_^

I think the reason why posting topics (no matter how painful or hard they may be) is very helpful to the readers is because we never really know who needs the advice until they stumble across the thread. TS, just the fact that you brought up whatever it is that you are struggling with, already means that you are making a difference and that you are important. Kay kung wala ka ni post ani, wala sad mi realizations and our fellow istoryans would not have been able to post their own wisdom and insight on the matter. Daghan ko na learn just by visiting your thread.

" bro, first to practice this simple principle in life:

be the reason for the smile on someone's lips
rather than be the cause of a tear in someone's eyes...

practice that each day...and u will find ur direction lageh.

and this one:

Thoughts are Things...

do not think nga there is sumting wrong with u..or else that will really materialize. trust me...thoughts are things!

Learn everything there is to learn in this life.... learn to smile, learn to laugh, learn to scream and LEARN TO LIVE BETTER....

Life is beautiful dude... Yeah, it gets difficult sometimes..... and boring na xa usahay.... BUT IT's BEAUTIFUL! it needs effort lang jud para manotice ni nato.. "

if only for these lines na enlighten ko, or the hundreds of people who will be reading this, then nakatabang naka sa uban taw. So, always count your blessings each and every day maski unsa ka gamay... the friendships, your good health , the ability to care and love, the air you breathe (which a lot of people take for granted) .. start with the little things.. then you'll gradually fell better.. not immediately but at least little by little.. But whatever task you start out on, be very sure to finish what you started. That's one of the morale boosters that actually works.


GOD bless you! Life is Beautiful! And we have eternity to look forward to!

i really love reading your advice... a nice line....yeah life is very BEAUTIFUL... choose to live better not BITTER

Well, actually, I just figured this out a few years back so I haven't really overcome everything yet. I'm still in the process of finding myself. I was really just the same as you before. But I had to really look at myself one time. And I wasn't happy at what I saw. I went through a lot just to get where I am now. But, believe me, it's possible..

TS, things change and life goes on. We have to keep moving forward, opening new doors, doing new things, and find our own place in this world. But you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.. Have courage.. And face yourself.. As Henry David Thoreau said, "men are born to succeed, not fail."

TS, we are always here for you. But, you need to realize that for things to change, it has to come from within you. It has to start with you believing that you can. And, I know that you can too!

thanx to all for taking time and understanding my situation, im happy that i have helped some people becoz of my thread..maybe this will be the start of my path in true life..i hope so thou..i found all you replies interesting and been thinking so deep and trying how to apply it to myself..i wish i could overcome this..this is i think the most toughest quest in my life..for a person like mo who easily gets down,hurt or easily dragged by the situation..im kind of a loner and serious type kind of guy,in schools i dnt work as a group..i like to do projects on my own..i cnt trust my surrounding for i myself can achieve it..its like..i behave to be just as one person for i think im always right..it started when i start to feel inferiority towards a person..dont want to detail it..but its hard for me to approach someone and let them know what i am really..im always pretending..scared to be cast away again and again..thats y now i think i missed almost half of my life back then..i dont know what i missed..but one sure thing im looking for..i think its LOVE..i think im starting to get lonely for what i was acting the past years until now..

[miramax]

Sad to say we do have our own limitations in possessing what we ought to have.

Sad but true...

@walker,
Yes, I strongly agree with you bro, I always believe that "bringing joy to others even the simplest form of joy, will make makes life worthwhile".
On the contrary, it will also bring sorrow to myself at times, coz like what sir T had mentioned on his post , that there are times in our lives that we want to give the best to our loved ones bcos we know it'll bring a SMILe to their faces; joy to their hearts, but then ...we tend to try our level best, but sometimes "our best wasn't that good enuf".hahhayz.

[Jaggernought]

Perhaps you are unique, normally unique.

[Klave]

OFF TOPIC:

I love CLANNAD as well, if you only watched the movie, you should watch the series as well, at the same time end your suffering.

You might like these titles as well. AIR, Rumbling Hearts, Fate/Stay Night, Mai Otome, Ichigo 100% (Manga).

On Topic:

I used to be like you when I was younger and you shouldn't worry about it, its just a phase.
More or less, everyone has a time when you will be thrown into the real world.
Right now, whatever your circumstances are, you seem to be out of it.

Refering to the anime (CLANNAD), I hope you are not simply equating anime = fantasy.
There might be a surreal feeling about it especially the specific situations the characters are in.
But the emotions they are portraying and the emotion they conjure from the audience are real.
It is up to us on how we deal with these emotions and what we want to do with it.
I always believe that the strength of one's emotions is the strength of their soul.

So while you are being confused about what to do with your life, always remember the things you've learned and felt are real and will apply to real life as well. In a way, you have felt what its like to have regrets and hopefully you will do your best not to make your own regrets. Talents and skills can only get you so far, it is through your conviction and resolve that you are able to overcome all your obstacles.

[johnC]

Perhaps you are unique, normally unique.

really?hope so..but i hope my uniqueness will be accepted..will try my best..ty

OFF TOPIC:

I love CLANNAD as well, if you only watched the movie, you should watch the series as well, at the same time end your suffering.

You might like these titles as well. AIR, Rumbling Hearts, Fate/Stay Night, Mai Otome, Ichigo 100% (Manga).

On Topic:

I used to be like you when I was younger and you shouldn't worry about it, its just a phase.
More or less, everyone has a time when you will be thrown into the real world.
Right now, whatever your circumstances are, you seem to be out of it.

Refering to the anime (CLANNAD), I hope you are not simply equating anime = fantasy.
There might be a surreal feeling about it especially the specific situations the characters are in.
But the emotions they are portraying and the emotion they conjure from the audience are real.
It is up to us on how we deal with these emotions and what we want to do with it.
I always believe that the strength of one's emotions is the strength of their soul.

So while you are being confused about what to do with your life, always remember the things you've learned and felt are real and will apply to real life as well. In a way, you have felt what its like to have regrets and hopefully you will do your best not to make your own regrets. Talents and skills can only get you so far, it is through your conviction and resolve that you are able to overcome all your obstacles.

so you watch clannad to..well i kinda like it but didnt finish it after her(you know)..dnt wana feel more bout it..try school days..im currently watching it ryt now..

your lucky that you are young when u think or feel like this..but im a bit older now..but will try to reflect on what you said..ty


@miramax
ty sa advice..will put that in mind and hopefuly someday i will use it..