Congratulate me!!

[Blackjellybean27]

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Yeah, naabot na jud sa point when i've had enough...

those who are familiar with my story (char, murag maalala na segment hehehe), surrender nako!!
i'm finally moving out within the month, probably end of the month and moving on to a new chapter again. so yeah i'm adding this to my resume, another failed relationship... and no i am not losing hope, i know somewhere out there is a man who deserves my love and care and who will truly love me... before even if huna hunaon lang nako, mag cge ko hilak thinking na mag buwag na mi, karon i'm not crying anymore!

and yes, it's not him who called it quits. it's me, despite the fact that we have a one month old baby boy. i don't have to be afraid of being alone dba?

i'm tired of always reaching out, making ways to make this work, always explaining things, constantly being stepped on...

i'm still here though, but my mind is made up. i'm a person who takes a long time to make decisions and fend for herself, but when i do.... it's usually 100% sure.

and if you're reading this: YOU'LL NEVER EVER EVER FIND ANOTHER WOMAN LIKE ME. yeah dghan dira women you'll eventually get into a relationship with, who'll care for you, maybe love you a bit...but don't think you'll ever find another one who will do the things i did. and yes i can say it with conviction. there's no doubt i still love you, but i have to love myself too... so goodbye...

[butong101]

i know this is not easy but im proud of you
take it slow, someday things will go your way..

[yvonne6]

girl, first step rana. yes, congratulations for taking the courage. good things will eventually happen to you. i focus na lang imong mind sa imong baby. i know naa jud na time ma depress ka, but pray for strength, you will get over it. ayaw kabalaka, dili ra ikaw ang ga ihap ug failed relationships, daghan ta. hehe. and its only a proof nga dili ta ingon ana ka desperate kay ni move out man ta sa dysfunctional na relationship. daghan pa kaau ang mag mahal nimo, i guarantee that. enjoy life with your little angel. butangi na jud na ug period ang imong relationship with that man. murag taas2 na jud na imong pag antos

[bodacious_babe]

Yeah, naabot na jud sa point when i've had enough...

those who are familiar with my story (char, murag maalala na segment hehehe), surrender nako!!
i'm finally moving out within the month, probably end of the month and moving on to a new chapter again. so yeah i'm adding this to my resume, another failed relationship... and no i am not losing hope, i know somewhere out there is a man who deserves my love and care and who will truly love me... before even if huna hunaon lang nako, mag cge ko hilak thinking na mag buwag na mi, karon i'm not crying anymore!

and yes, it's not him who called it quits. it's me, despite the fact that we have a one month old baby boy. i don't have to be afraid of being alone dba?

i'm tired of always reaching out, making ways to make this work, always explaining things, constantly being stepped on...

i'm still here though, but my mind is made up. i'm a person who takes a long time to make decisions and fend for herself, but when i do.... it's usually 100% sure.

and if you're reading this: YOU'LL NEVER EVER EVER FIND ANOTHER WOMAN LIKE ME. yeah dghan dira women you'll eventually get into a relationship with, who'll care for you, maybe love you a bit...but don't think you'll ever find another one who will do the things i did. and yes i can say it with conviction. there's no doubt i still love you, but i have to love myself too... so goodbye...

First off: if this is you on your avatar sis, you are one helluva hottie! You remind me of Jennifer Woodhouse (a singer from the US).. pretty kaayo mo..

Secondly, I emulate you for your courage. You are a strong person for moving on despite the fact that you have a son with the man you were (and probably still are) in love with.

Moving on is the toughest thing to do, but if it's got to be done, we need to do it.

And you're right, he will never Never NEVER find another you.

Godspeed to you and i will pray that someday soon, you will cross paths with the One who will love you the way you deserve to be loved! God bless.....

.... and congratulations!


P.S.: If ok na ko, naa ko reto nimo ha.. One amazing guy.. bahala na nya mo to try and make it work out

[dropdeadgorgeous]

congratulations girl! that's the spirit!
bright life ahead for you and your little angel..

[hallerz]

Girl Power!!! Congrats!!! It's his lost, not yours... It may not be that easy to go through that process...but in time, everything will fall into its right places.

[tikLish]

congrats sis..finaLLy..aw nanganak na diay ka?hehe..congrats sa baby boy..u'r baby boy's enough na..xa nana pinaka-impt nga laki sa imo life..hehe..godbLess

[Blackjellybean27]

@butong - thanks! mahuman na jud intawn kalbaryo nako hehe

@yvonne - i took the initiative from you... cge nako balik2x mga advice nimo girl... thanks kaau, i needed to hear that from someone who is one strong woman.

@bodacious babe - yes that's me, it's a glamour shot and ask nlng butong or anjerika or hanamari or SD if i look like that in real life. hehe. basin photogenic lang bah. and yes i hope someday the right man will come along. i've had two major failed relationships and i'm not bitter towards men. so yeah, someday when i'm ready

@dropdeadgorgeous and hallerz - thank you girls! that only means i can join singles EB for sure na single na jud ko hahahaha

@ticklish - yes ma'am hehe. i gave birth last aug 1 and aside from my dad he'll be the most impt man in my life, thanks!

[butong101]

@bodacious babe - yes that's me, it's a glamour shot and ask nlng butong or anjerika or hanamari or SD if i look like that in real life. hehe. basin photogenic lang bah. and yes i hope someday the right man will come along. i've had two major failed relationships and i'm not bitter towards men. so yeah, someday when i'm ready

meaning you had major major problem in your life sis.. wahehehehehehe

[Blackjellybean27]

i guess the last straw was when he asked if pwd mi ni baby mag sleep sa other room last friday night k mu anhi ang mga kids niya. for the first time in our relationship, nangaway jud ko ug bonggang bongga. thats when naka think ko, na buang na cguro sya. i can give way to his kids but i will definitely not allow MY SON to sleep in the other room. i'm sorry to say pero nag kick in jud ang mommy's instinct ko. i can allow him to step on me, but i will NEVER ALLOW him to take my son's right to sleep in our room.