getting a guy just for financial security has its perks and downs.. ok.. he may be well financially well-off to support you.. emotionally he may be matured to handle life's challenges.. love.. well he has that as well... but amidst all of these.. it is STILL NOT and WILL not guarantee that your future is bright and secured. Some Guys can sometimes go down the road of getting a mistress or kabz.. when an opportunity would knock on their doors.. even if they love their wife.. they still like to entertain other 'meat' for the sake of being bored with family and the perks and excitement of getting a newly FRESH MEAT...