I'm in love with my man but I can't have him and now comes the worst part of it...

[dearlabe]

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sis, question pod ko...

are you sure about his health status or teminal na jud cya? kay basin alibi lang pod ni niya

It's not an alibi sir. He's sickness is rare. But he is not in coma or anything as tragic as that. He is actually doing fine. It's just that doctor's see his case lang tingali nga dli nagyud ma cure tingali. I am not also medically informed about it. But it is something serious.

[dearlabe]

first of all, imong title says "my man".. how can you claim him to be yours nga he has a marriage contract to someone else? you know what you're doing is not right.. i wonder why you didn't cut it off the moment you knew nga he is married.. you want to be a homewrecker?

sorry but as you can see, biased na ko daan sa imong situation.. you say complicated imong situation, but it's you who made it that way.. you nurtured a relationship that isn't supposed to be..

karon unsa namay ganahan nimo mahitabo? for you to be able to spend the remaining time with him? i think mas better if you stay away.. haven't you thought of the possibilities if you continue your relationship with him? let's say makafind out iyang family about ninyo.. magkagubot sila, then obviously this is a very bad time for that to happen (well, not that there is ever a good time for that).. do you think "your man" would be happy lying in his death bed knowing nga iyang family is in chaos? or even if they don't find out at all, do you think he'd die a peaceful death knowing that he has wronged his wife and children so badly?

On the soul-level he is, I can call, my man.

The situation, his life, and ours is really complicated. How I wish I could just lay it all out here with utmost anonymity but then I can't. Yes, you are very right. Magkagubot gyud if and when we come out in the moment. That's why I am at a distance lang.

And only he can tell us if he'd die a peaceful death, only he.

[CoLorBluE]

I also do not know "why" Mrs. Blue...

paminaw nlng sa mga tabang pud sa atong mga sis and bro dri TS.. i myself feared that things like this might come to test my marriage... dli pud cguro nko kaya nga taksilan ko sko husband. Taas taas pa rba mi og laktuson sko bana.

Think of the feeling sa asawa nga inyo gitaksilan TS. In love pud na ang asawa sa husband kay in the first place nagpakasal gud na ang girl sa laki dba?

Move on na TS... You are a big girl nmn, u know the right thing to do

[moklo]

It's not an alibi sir. He's sickness is rare. But he is not in coma or anything as tragic as that. He is actually doing fine. It's just that doctor's see his case lang tingali nga dli nagyud ma cure tingali. I am not also medically informed about it. But it is something serious.

Aw, ok rman diay ni TS, mao ni giingon nga "The Call", mga signs ni cya ts aron undangon na ninyo ang inyong dili maaung binuhatan kai kung dili na ninyo undangon mas labaw pa ana ang mahitabo..

[dearlabe]

TS, buhata ang sakto, karon kai dilikado nman diay ni iya life mas maayu d nlang jud ka mo duol niya ug balik mas maau imo nlang na ihatag sa iya pamilya ang nahibilin sa iya life aron makabawi sad cya sa iyang mga sala.

Selfish as I may sound but what about me? us? Should I just leave him dying without me doing anything and leave everything else to regrets, what ifs, and should have beens?

He has spend most of his life with his family. But was he happy all those years with them? If only it was easy to spread all that I know.

[unique]

It's not an alibi sir. He's sickness is rare. But he is not in coma or anything as tragic as that. He is actually doing fine. It's just that doctor's see his case lang tingali nga dli nagyud ma cure tingali. I am not also medically informed about it. But it is something serious.

ahh ok... i thought lang nga basin iya lang pod nang reason to get out of this situation.

[dearlabe]

paminaw nlng sa mga tabang pud sa atong mga sis and bro dri TS.. i myself feared that things like this might come to test my marriage... dli pud cguro nko kaya nga taksilan ko sko husband. Taas taas pa rba mi og laktuson sko bana.

Think of the feeling sa asawa nga inyo gitaksilan TS. In love pud na ang asawa sa husband kay in the first place nagpakasal gud na ang girl sa laki dba?

Move on na TS... You are a big girl nmn, u know the right thing to do

There's another complicated reason why he married her too. I am sorry , this is getting more and more complicated for the simple lives of most istoryans.

And YES, I am reading all these comments by heart too, thanks.

[moklo]

Selfish as I may sound but what about me? us? Should I just leave him dying without me doing anything and leave everything else to regrets, what ifs, and should have beens?

He has spend most of his life with his family. But was he happy all those years with them? If only it was easy to spread all that I know.

Kasabot ko nimo TS naa lng ka sa kaguol karon pero kung maka recover nka mawala rna tanan.

TS, una ka maghunahuna sa imo kaugalingon hunahunaa sad ang iya asawa, ikaw baya ang nag samok samok sa ilang kinabuhi try to put yourself sa lugar sa asawa ug maka pangutana baka ug unsaon nlang ko.

[reginakrys]

you're implying nga their marriage is a mistake? that the family they've built together is a mistake? maybe it would be better if you share more of your story with us, maybe it would help us grasp more accurately the situation you are in..

may i ask pud what condition he has? and, have you asked him what he wants to do with the remaining time he has?

[dearlabe]

Kasabot ko nimo TS naa lng ka sa kaguol karon pero kung maka recover nka mawala rna tanan.

TS, una ka maghunahuna sa imo kaugalingon hunahunaa sad ang iya asawa, ikaw baya ang nag samok samok sa ilang kinabuhi try to put yourself sa lugar sa asawa ug maka pangutana baka ug unsaon nlang ko.

I wish he could just say things here so that I would not sound so bias and so self-serving.