Adopted Child...

[lovelygirl]

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Sagdi lang sis,not all people don't have and are not capable in giving full acceptance in their hearts,it might not that be that what you expect it to be but still God place and put you to what it is best and good for you so that you'll grow into a person of what and who you are right now.. i have an adopted niece,she's been with us since she's 2 weeks old and now she's 5 yrs. old na but without a doubt we love and pampered her like our own esp. her dad and mom.... pero she already knows that she's adopted kay gihanay2yan man ug istorya sa ako sister(her mom) its better nga kahibaw cya ug sayo2 kaysa maunhan sa lain tawo.

this is what she says always..."Wala man ko nigawas sa tummy sa ako mommy kay gikan man ko sa iya heart".....

ka nice gud ...atleast ge pangga sya...akong mom raman gud ang ga pangga naku..akong dad, murag hate jud ko nya...ang mga relatives pa lain ug tinagdan naku..

[emow]

It's so sad the way some people treat adopted relatives. I have two cousins who were adopted by another family. They were treated right but there seems to be a gap between a real family than adopted ones. My mother always shed tears everytime she recounts their adoption, and it really broke her heart why her sister should give her 2 children away. In a different point of view, being adopted is sometimes more meaningful than natural born children. Why? I believe the adopted ones are PURPOSELY CHOSEN by someone, a conscious decision of a mother/father to accept you to be a part of their/his/her lives/life. That's why i don't think any less of people who were adopted. Every person has the right to be loved.

[lovelygirl]

It's so sad the way some people treat adopted relatives. I have two cousins who were adopted by another family. They were treated right but there seems to be a gap between a real family than adopted ones. My mother always shed tears everytime she recounts their adoption, and it really broke her heart why her sister should give her 2 children away. In a different point of view, being adopted is sometimes more meaningful than natural born children. Why? I believe the adopted ones are PURPOSELY CHOSEN by someone, a conscious decision of a mother/father to accept you to be a part of their/his/her lives/life. That's why i don't think any less of people who were adopted. Every person has the right to be loved.

yeah...kaluoy sad gepa adopt ang duha nya ka anak oi..

[juleskiboi]

ok ra nang adopted as long as you are treated like you are really really their own flesh and blood...but naa tyms jd nga makita ang bias sa parents/relatives sa blood nila vs. adopted family member...

[lovelygirl]

ok ra nang adopted as long as you are treated like you are really really their own flesh and blood...but naa tyms jd nga makita ang bias sa parents/relatives sa blood nila vs. adopted family member...

bitaw..naa jud bias oi..ky moabot akong tita gekan gawas..iyang e hatag naku sanina ra..pero sa mga ig-agaw naku..sanina nga daghan ug daghan pa jud dulaan..ako wala...

[sexyjelly]

naay uban adopted mag gara2x....

[tagaisla]

we had this katabang sa balay nga gpa-angkan, she was so young. she told my mama nga ipa adopt ang baby.. pg anak nya kami ang ga atiman sa baby ky dli man jud cya nahan mg tan-aw sa iya anak, she even tried to kill him w/ a pillow.. so my mama decided to give up the baby sa DSWD, we checked out the place in Mabolo, i saw those little children nga gpang bilin looy kaau as in maguol ka mg huna-huna nganong gpasagdan cla sa ila mga parents. i decided nga ipaglaban nko ang baby sa amu katabang dli ko gusto ma-apil cya didto sa uban bata nga naghulat nga naay mo adopt nila.. i convinced my stepdad to keep the baby ky wla man sd cla anak ni mama.. i beg my mama nga dli lang ihatag ang baby sa DSWD.. to make the story short the baby boy is now 10years old.. we love him soooooo much.. pero wla jud cya kabalo until now nga adopted cya ky dli man mi gusto nga masakitan cya.. ang life sa ako mama ug stepdad ng tuyok ra jud sa baby and im proud to say he is one of my inspirations in life.. I will always be thankful to the biological mother because she gave us the most wonderful gift in our lives my baby brother

[Blackjellybean27]

unsaon naku pag talk sa akong dad nga patay naman sya...only child sad ko..same rata...Patay naman silang duha..pag graduate naku high school namatay akong mom..akong dad last year 4th year college ko...

ay.. i didn't know you lost both parents na. sorry bout that.
guess it'll really be hard to know now what your adoptive father was thinking, k he's dead naman.. hahay..

although my mom is a lil mean to me sometimes, i didn't really feel na out of place ko. my mama is really like that lang jud. mean gani sya k papa noh. heheheh. so it's really her personality. as for my papa, hay grabe the sacrifices he went through for me! it's as if i am his own daughter. super thankful jud ko for a papa like that. i don't think he even thinks about the fact that i am not his. mao na sometimes my mama would be jealous, k he will defend me anytime (no matter how wrong i am). mag away jud cla ni mama 'cause of me...

i can't imagine a life without my father... if not for him, i would be a dysfunctional person.

as for you sis, it's good you did well in school and did your best. k usahay man gud adoptive children will make rebelde especially if d nice ila dad or mom.. don't worry you might not be rewarded now, but you will be rewarded later in life...

[gcc4426]

i can finally define what freedom is since naglahi nako. karon lipay na kayo ko

being an adopted child, i always feel i do not have the rights ghapon bsag they treatd me as their own family membr. mindset na nako nga magtarong gyd ko ky gsagop gud ko, pressure kau sa?
mao nang magbantay ko pirmi sa ko lihok ky i know if naay mga conflicts mu come up gyd na ang issue nga ampon ko.

its like im not living bfore, really. then a time came when i can no longer endure it. nibuto ko. led me to rebellion, bisyo. didnt finish studies. i was asked what was my problem, i told them i jst want to live normally. i was fortunate nga some of them undrstand what i mean, even to the extent nga ni apologize cla. pero othrs misjudge me ghapon. i wouldnt care less sd sa uban ky wa sd cla kaila nko personally...eheh

[kami no ko]

ngano kaha nang uban diha no? salig lang nga mayor ang niadopt nila, manaugdaog man ug mga pobre? wa jud ko nakabalita nga nakig engkwentro anak ni gullas, anak ni osmeña, ang kana hinuong mga tricycle driver, security guard dili na motrabaho kay gihunting sa adopted sa mayor. magbuhat pa na siya ug kaayuhan sa katilingban. daghan pa malipay.