Toughest Decision. Need help!

[Genocide]

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Guys! naa nako thread about what happened namo sako uyab.
na 2 years kapin mi then nag buwagan kog kalit then naa na dayon
siyay uyab. karon nahibaw-an na nako na while ga work cya kato
diayng laki nag sigi na diay ug diskarti hantud nagka sila. Dali-a rajud
na basura samo 2 years and 3 months ui. Sigi jud kog hangyo niya na
mag balik mi pero dili najud cya gusto nako kay love na daw to niya ang
laki na ka workmate niya kay boutan daw and gi trato jud daw cya ug
tarong. ahaka sakita ui. nya mao to nag himo mi ug deal. na friends with
benefits daw mi kay basig mao niy way na ma balik iya feelings nako.
iya bago uyab karon is ga work sa hilton and taga upon. then ako uyab
is taga labangon ra. silingan rami kay amo unahan ra. nag deal mi na
Friends with benifits mi like Every Afternoon mag dungan gihapon mi ug
Lunch then every hapon kong naa lugar kay hatud nako cya uli.
then sa iya pud uyab na bago kay once aweek ra daw kono sila magka
kita txt2 or tawag2 sila pirmi. saman jud ni? mo stay japon ko na maskin
uyab sila? nya e take advantage ang friends with benifts? or mo likay
nalang jud ko like dili nako magpa kita then as in wala najud ba.
ni ask manko niya if naa bakoy chance then ni ana cya na gamayyyyy...
nalang jud daw kono kaayo.pero everytime magkuyug mi mao2 raman
japon like maka kiss2 ra japon ko. hug or unsa pana diha. pero mag sakit
lang jud ko everytime nag kuyug mi nya manawag tong laki nya ako naras
kilig maminaw nila na caring au ba mora gali kog ma insulto kay 2 years mi
kapin nya buwagan ko nya after 3 days naa dayon uyab. nya naa toy one
time na nanawag ang katong laki nya ni singit ko sa phone sako ex ni shagit
ko na ampingi bai ha.. nasuko ako ex kay basig daw kasaban cya and nag wori
cya. naka ingon gud ko "ahh! wory ka niya? kay ikaw nag wory ka nako gi
buwagan ko nimo nya pulihan dayon ko nimo??!?!" .. hahays. wala jud ko
kahibaw na karon. kasagaran tambag sako mga migo kay mo advantage daw
kono ko sa amo deal kay pabor daw kono kaayo ko kay kada adlaw dungan
ug kaon and magka kita2 ra dayon mi kay dool rag balay then sila kay layu.
then naa pajud chance na makuha nako balik ang feelings niya para nako na
nawala na. hadlok manpud ko kong mo stop najud ko gud like dili nako
pakita kay basin nya imbis katong gamay na feelings nanabilin kay mawala najud
hinoon. naa sa mind nako is e suliton or ipa survive and gamay nanabilin ba.
pero mahiubos lang jud ko kay like priority najud niya iya uyab ba. ana gud ko
wala jud ka nasayup sa imo gipili? na sugton na nimong lakiha na na 3 weeks
pamo nagka ila? mao to ana cya na nalove na daw niya. hahays.
nya ako sha gi ask if naa paba kaha koy chance na mabalik. ana cya na
sa pagka karon dili pa daw cya ready nako. hahays.
so saman jud ni mga guys? asa manjud ko? mo stay ko and gamiton ang friends with
benifits then e learn ako self na dili ko masakitan na uyab sila or sweet sila? total
pabor btaw ko kay ang pamilya sa girl dili man ganahan sa laki nya ari nako pabor
man sila nako so makasud2 rakos ila or bisita. or mo undang nalang jud ko nya
huwaton ang panahon if balikan ko niya kong mag buwag sila? ambot lang pud
kaha if inig buwag nila wala napud cyay feelings nako.

pleasssssssee reply mga guys kay nig monday namo e final.

[farmboy]

mo stay ko and gamiton ang friends with
benifits then e learn ako self na dili ko masakitan na uyab sila or sweet sila?

if u will do this bro, it will be too selfish on ur part..imo ra kalipay imo giapas ana.

or mo undang nalang jud ko nya
huwaton ang panahon if balikan ko niya kong mag buwag sila? ambot lang pud
kaha if inig buwag nila wala napud cyay feelings nako.

if she chooses the other guy over you...i know sakit na bro, but you can not force urself on her anymore kung mao na iya ganahan. you will have to accept that decision. give her freedom to choose kung asa sya mas happy. kung kamo gyud...she will come back to you. two years of loving is a terrible hurt...waste of emotions gyud...sakit but it is happening.

[blairvargas]

bro... if i were you i'd stay away na... i know you love her BUT you should also think about yourself.. its like you and his new bf are sharing her with each other which is not nice bro... you are just making it more and more complicated for yourself and your ex... when you see each other on monday have her choose na lang bro you or the other dude... if its not you then let go bro... i know its hard.. but life must go on... i also just broke up dude.. and it was just a few hours ago... thats why im in the relationship section now.... we were also together for 4 years and it was just our anniversary last monday... anyway bro to whatever decision you will make be sure to think about what will happen after your decision if both of you will be happy or not... Good Luck bro..

[jennilexshop]

if i were you i'd stay away na..

[joan624]

get over it.
she got over you a long time ago.
bisag muingon cyag naay gamaaaayyyyy di nana mao
ikaw ray luoy kng padugayon pa nmo
bisag muingon imong mga amigo nga advantage nimo, wa sila kbaw sa tinuod nga imong nafeel..
lahi ra ilang nasabtan.. abi nilag malipay ka sa benefits ra..

pero kng nahan ka, tingali while searching sa ka, padayuna lng nu char2x..
kng ganahan ka ha ug kaya pa nmo..
i-WEAN lng imong self nya..
gradually, slowly, mahitabo ra jd na nga makalet go na gyud ka completely

[aozora]

You've gone overboard this time. My advice, leave her and move on, you've made too many mistakes already. It will just hurt your cause if you continue pushing her. Bow.


for the sake of continuity, here's the original thread of TS:
https://www.istorya.net/forums/love-i...-confused.html

[madina]

hmmmm although naa kay chance og naa sa imo ang advantage murag dili jud na sya ka guarantee nga mgkabalik moh. Murag bit by bit bro gidugmok sa imong uyab ang imong pagkataw. If I were you bro mo stay away na and move on to another chapter nlang jud. Murag ra kag gisayon sayon sa imong gf bro. Murag sa huna-huna sa imo gf bro kay "aw ok ra diay niya na naako uyab lain kay di man jud sya mobiya"....Bro leave her nlang jud and buhata ang sakto nga someday mka sulti na imong gf nga mas deserving paka kaysa atong usa......sakita palamdungon but its the truth and that's life

[akosabni]

its time to move on, dili na mo uyab, friends with benefit na karon ang status ninyo ... honor your deal
ug maka kita na ka ika.puli, pwede na ninyo i.change na lang ug ... friends na lang or ex na g'yud

gud.luck, ma'ayo unta maka.kita pareho ka understanding sa imong gf

also, ma.ayo unta ma merge ni ...

for the sake of continuity, here's the original thread of TS:
https://www.istorya.net/forums/love-i...-confused.html

[silverado]

we all know break ups are painful. in the meantime bro take what is offered to you but don't take advantage and ayaw dungan ug kaon, kuyog, hatud etc pirmi, slowly you will learn to forget her. she will and can observe the difference.

GO OUT, MEET NEW FRIENDS, EXPLORE YOUR WORLD. the world has so much to offer.

goodluck bro.

[tukmol888]

waaaaaaahhh.. gahia nimo yoh... waaaahhh...... idola!!!