need advice.. is it jealousy? or not?

[babyshar]

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hmm..been there... muhilom ra sad ko kay o.p. naman. alangan man gud mag apil apil kay wala man ka kahibaw unsa ilang giistoryahan kay wala man ka ato. lain jud ang feelings kay sige man ug talk. just tell your bf about your feelings.

yah, hilom mu lng.. nd kabantay nlng na ako bf.. until my mood turns into darker face nd unexplainable attitude.. hai..

[lovelygirl]

here's da story..

my boyfriend is 7yrs with his ex. since 4thyr hyskul uyab n cla. ngkauyab mi ako bf last year.. i know love au ko s ako bf but the problem is everytime ma mention ang name s girl n ex s ako bf di nku malikayan masakitan especially magmention iyang barkada about s past nla paghyskul. xmpre mgkta kta mn cla s iyang mga clasmyt before nya kyugon mn ko, nya ilang ibalik ila mga past memries so ako "OP", not da sense n pabay.an ko s ako uyab bt bcoz wa ko maistorya mao d nlng ko mutingog. "it hurts" pud esp pgmention s usa nya ka barkada n ana, if muari c .. (da ex of my bf) kuygn n2 outing ky lingaw sd to, wa to libog. kinda feeling n di nku maintindihan y dey need to mention such a name in front nku. i know d malikayan mgstorya cla about s girl but s prob is di sd nku malikayan masakitan.tao lng po ako.. db?

kani sd..

we are looking s photo album s pix s ako uyab with his younger sister, accidentally nakita nku ang pix s ex s ako uyab. then there my heart starts to pump faster! i feel like ngpalpitate ko nd i wanna cry, thinking nga y should i see some pix s ex nya? i dont really know wat to do.. then i slowly close da photo album then went to my room nd start to cry..

and da other thing pd,

ang ex s ako bf, g.idol s iyang cousin. i dont really know wat to do, everytime ma mention ang name s gurl... i tried to pretend not to be hurt but its getting worst! i feel like i dont exist!

please guys.. i need your comments.. advices..
what should i do?
i dont want to feel this way..
wer always fighting w/ my bf everytime that thing exist!

am i acting weird? or what?
i dont really know what to do, pls help..

I understand your feelings...I think you should talk your bf about how you feel para e likay naka nya sa mga awkward moments na ma mention ang iyang ex ug ma warningan na nya iyang mga friends..lisod kaayo na girl ky d man gud ikaw ang nauna sa iyang life..so mura kag e compare ana sa iyang past..dugay napud bya sila so na close na pag ayo ang ex sa barkada ug family sa imong bf karun...

[classicrock]

daghanag adviser ahh..hehe.

[chitchatchix]

here's da story..

my boyfriend is 7yrs with his ex. since 4thyr hyskul uyab n cla. ngkauyab mi ako bf last year.. i know love au ko s ako bf but the problem is everytime ma mention ang name s girl n ex s ako bf di nku malikayan masakitan especially magmention iyang barkada about s past nla paghyskul. xmpre mgkta kta mn cla s iyang mga clasmyt before nya kyugon mn ko, nya ilang ibalik ila mga past memries so ako "OP", not da sense n pabay.an ko s ako uyab bt bcoz wa ko maistorya mao d nlng ko mutingog. "it hurts" pud esp pgmention s usa nya ka barkada n ana, if muari c .. (da ex of my bf) kuygn n2 outing ky lingaw sd to, wa to libog. kinda feeling n di nku maintindihan y dey need to mention such a name in front nku. i know d malikayan mgstorya cla about s girl but s prob is di sd nku malikayan masakitan.tao lng po ako.. db?

kani sd..

we are looking s photo album s pix s ako uyab with his younger sister, accidentally nakita nku ang pix s ex s ako uyab. then there my heart starts to pump faster! i feel like ngpalpitate ko nd i wanna cry, thinking nga y should i see some pix s ex nya? i dont really know wat to do.. then i slowly close da photo album then went to my room nd start to cry..

and da other thing pd,

ang ex s ako bf, g.idol s iyang cousin. i dont really know wat to do, everytime ma mention ang name s gurl... i tried to pretend not to be hurt but its getting worst! i feel like i dont exist!

please guys.. i need your comments.. advices..
what should i do?
i dont want to feel this way..
wer always fighting w/ my bf everytime that thing exist!

am i acting weird? or what?
i dont really know what to do, pls help..

i guess what you are feeling is quite normal.. as much as possible., ayaw gyd i-compare imong self sa iyang ex.. kay mao na naka sakit if imong i-compare..

welcome the idea that you are not his 1st..and neither is he to you.. ryt?

ala naman gyud kay mabuhat ana kay apil naman gyud na sa iyang past.. sulod pikas dunggan.. lapos pud sa pikas.. ayaw padala..kay ikaw mag sakit ana..

[sushikandi]

Dili man jud ma likayan TS. What you do is just be yourself, don't think about the ex. Kay wala baya na nang hilabot ninyo, nagpa dala raka sa imung emotion. Syempre, dili nimu ma likayan nga maka kita kas mga pictures kay 7 yrs baya cla. And ang high school friends nila TS kay nagmention rato kay syempre classmates baya cla. Alang man dili nila pa kuyogon ang ex kay tungod naa ka. Huna hunaa lang TS, nga kana cla naa na daan before paka na abot.

Ako lang maka tambag nimu is, ayaw pa dala sa imung emotion. Anyway, mana bitaw to naka move on na imung uyab niya mao nay importante. Dili na angay ukayon ang kaghapon kay ikaw ray mag sakit. Dapat focus ka sa karon and dont force yourself to them. Eventually you'll get along with them.

[tauren_chieftain]

lage, i try.. but it didn't work out! i know love ko s ako bf but i cant pretend da fact dat im hurt!

try to ignore kaha,..kung kaya ba...

f aq ang guy, naa ko remedy ana....mao na ana ko nga ask/tell ur bf, im sure love ka niya naa na siyay way ana.................................

[jewel_anne10]

yah, hilom mu lng.. nd kabantay nlng na ako bf.. until my mood turns into darker face nd unexplainable attitude.. hai..

hahaha! ako pod ingon ana. i guess mao jud na ang feeling basta magstart na ilang conversation about exes. hay naku...

[babyshar]

I understand your feelings...I think you should talk your bf about how you feel para e likay naka nya sa mga awkward moments na ma mention ang iyang ex ug ma warningan na nya iyang mga friends..lisod kaayo na girl ky d man gud ikaw ang nauna sa iyang life..so mura kag e compare ana sa iyang past..dugay napud bya sila so na close na pag ayo ang ex sa barkada ug family sa imong bf karun...

yah, tnx.. i know im not da first.. but il do anything to be his last.. wooh!
obsolutely! i bet some can compare his ex to me.. i think sooo..

[babyshar]

daghanag adviser ahh..hehe.

LOL dghn mu lng, but im serious.. jst need someone who can give me enuf advices..

[babyshar]

i guess what you are feeling is quite normal.. as much as possible., ayaw gyd i-compare imong self sa iyang ex.. kay mao na naka sakit if imong i-compare..

welcome the idea that you are not his 1st..and neither is he to you.. ryt?

ala naman gyud kay mabuhat ana kay apil naman gyud na sa iyang past.. sulod pikas dunggan.. lapos pud sa pikas.. ayaw padala..kay ikaw mag sakit ana..

lage, mao btw ako buhaton.. pro dli di pwd d nlng cla mgtalk about it f nku? coz lahi mn jd s feeling.. too awkward jd..