need advice.. is it jealousy? or not?

[babyshar]

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if you trust your bf, you have nothing to worry.
d jud nah nimo malikayan nga ing ana sis..
past is past, you can't do anything about it.
spend your time thinking about now (nga kamo na), and the future (keep the fire burning para d ka mahimog x sa imo bf now)...

talk about it sa imo bf, if he loves you, he will understand.
then both of you come up with a win-win solution.

my bf can understand, but da thing is.. after nmu talk, balik n sd .. dnt know!

[babyshar]

----d mana ma likayan nga ma mention ang name sa X, clasm8 man gud sila saona unya xmpre eg naa mga gatherings unya mga clasm8 ra pd ang mga kuyog d jud malikayan nga ma mention jud..
kahibaw manko ma hasulan mo mga hing-ana pero mag anad2x nalang jud ka ana..
geh lang gud ikaw bitaw luv sa imu uyab.. sa gud ka.. hehehe..

yah, i know.. but d ba pwd d nlng cla mgtalk about in ana f nku? cuz lahi jd.. dats my point. i tried to do things n d ko masakitan but mao lng jpn.. esp n sd ko nkt an s pc s ako auyb ang pix nya s usa nya ka EX kissing with each other! do u think i should let it pass?! kaw dw kono in ana my tabo nmu.. wat would u do?

[cesski]

ingna imu uyab about how you feel. mao man sad ako gibuhat. nya ako sad siya giingnan na maglikay na sa iya ex kay lisod nang naay moments na mag "muling ibalik" unya sila.

there are times na magselos gihapon ko kay iya family makahisgot sad asta iya barkada kay classmate man sila before pud. i try to play it cool even if it bugs me a little. sabot na lang sad ko kay syempre classmate sad gud.

but always remember na ikaw ang naa niya karon. if he wanted to get back with his ex, he could've but he's still with you right? after nimu mastoryaan imu uyab, i'm sure ma-warningan nasad niya iya barkada to keep it zipped whenever you're around.

kasuway sad ko after namu istorya, nibalik rasad gihapon ug storya ug kuyog niya. mao to ako gitagaan ug ultimatum ako uyab. ako jud siya gipapili kung kinsa iya ipalabi. karon, wa najud nuon silay text2x ug kita2x.

[babyshar]

paet sad ng ingun ana geng..kinda insensitive ang mga taw around you.

what do you mean po? hus sensitive? me? or da people around me?

[darkraven]

my bf can understand, but da thing is.. after nmu talk, balik n sd .. dnt know!

accept the fact nalang nga dili ikaw ang first gf sa imo bf now..
no matter what you'll do, he still have a connection with being a hiskul classmate..
jz cherish the moment nga kamo karon.
don't spend the time thinking about the his x...mao btaw gitawag nag x kay ni agi na...
deadma lang gud if his frends will talk about her. as long dili imo bf nag initiate sa topic about her.

[babyshar]

ingna imu uyab about how you feel. mao man sad ako gibuhat. nya ako sad siya giingnan na maglikay na sa iya ex kay lisod nang naay moments na mag "muling ibalik" unya sila.

there are times na magselos gihapon ko kay iya family makahisgot sad asta iya barkada kay classmate man sila before pud. i try to play it cool even if it bugs me a little. sabot na lang sad ko kay syempre classmate sad gud.

but always remember na ikaw ang naa niya karon. if he wanted to get back with his ex, he could've but he's still with you right? after nimu mastoryaan imu uyab, i'm sure ma-warningan nasad niya iya barkada to keep it zipped whenever you're around.

ok! thats a good idea po! tnx, yah.. as in! i dnt really know wat to do po, i tried to talk to him in a way n nganung in ani.. in ana.. but i haven't talk to him yet about my point. matsalam po ha? its just that lahi tanan esp naay comparison.. s past nya ug krn..

[jewel_anne10]

here's da story..

my boyfriend is 7yrs with his ex. since 4thyr hyskul uyab n cla. ngkauyab mi ako bf last year.. i know love au ko s ako bf but the problem is everytime ma mention ang name s girl n ex s ako bf di nku malikayan masakitan especially magmention iyang barkada about s past nla paghyskul. xmpre mgkta kta mn cla s iyang mga clasmyt before nya kyugon mn ko, nya ilang ibalik ila mga past memries so ako "OP", not da sense n pabay.an ko s ako uyab bt bcoz wa ko maistorya mao d nlng ko mutingog. "it hurts" pud esp pgmention s usa nya ka barkada n ana, if muari c .. (da ex of my bf) kuygn n2 outing ky lingaw sd to, wa to libog. kinda feeling n di nku maintindihan y dey need to mention such a name in front nku. i know d malikayan mgstorya cla about s girl but s prob is di sd nku malikayan masakitan.tao lng po ako.. db?

Sis, you're not alone. tsk tsk... dili man mawala ang memories nila kay naa silay past pero kanang sigeg hisgot about sa iyang ex... aw.. banatan mo ng joke! "sigeg balik balik oist!". karon sakitan pa ka but kadugayan ma okay ra na. ikaw naman ang present so ayaw na pagselos oist.

[babyshar]

accept the fact nalang nga dili ikaw ang first gf sa imo bf now..
no matter what you'll do, he still have a connection with being a hiskul classmate..
jz cherish the moment nga kamo karon.
don't spend the time thinking about the his x...mao btaw gitawag nag x kay ni agi na...
deadma lang gud if his frends will talk about her. as long dili imo bf nag initiate sa topic about her.

yap!yap! deadma btw but i really cant pretend na im ok, im fine.. wyl talking his berks about his ex.

[babyshar]

Sis, you're not alone. tsk tsk... dili man mawala ang memories nila kay naa silay past pero kanang sigeg hisgot about sa iyang ex... aw.. banatan mo ng joke! "sigeg balik balik oist!". karon sakitan pa ka but kadugayan ma okay ra na. ikaw naman ang present so ayaw na pagselos oist.

yah, i know im da present but.. lain jd ang feelings sis if mu talk cla about his ex like.. "sige kygn sd to n2 c ... ky wa sd to libog!" prang ngpaparinig?! dnt know wui! kapoy blk blk! mao all i did is keep my mouth shout nd be silent..

[jewel_anne10]

yah, i know im da present but.. lain jd ang feelings sis if mu talk cla about his ex like.. "sige kygn sd to n2 c ... ky wa sd to libog!" prang ngpaparinig?! dnt know wui! kapoy blk blk! mao all i did is keep my mouth shout nd be silent..

hmm..been there... muhilom ra sad ko kay o.p. naman. alangan man gud mag apil apil kay wala man ka kahibaw unsa ilang giistoryahan kay wala man ka ato. lain jud ang feelings kay sige man ug talk. just tell your bf about your feelings.