i choose to let go, than fool myself

[edliZjOhn]

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If you can remember the last post that I have iStoryans, Ive been asking you guys what to do..Coz my bf asked my permission for him to re communicate to his "ex"gf daw. To have closure and to clear up whatever it is they have. I did give him the time and understand everything just to have him with me. I never even know unsa na ang status sa ilang pag talk and pag kuyog2 sa girl. Then one day, he told me...What if imo kung makit.an nga magkuyog mi. Unsa imo reaction?..I was shocked? Why? Unsa diay nahitabo? He said he can't really let go of the girl coz dili daw sya ganhan nga sya ang moingon nga dili na mo work ang relationship.

Ok cge!Let it be, If that would be the best solution nga imong nakita well then do it. He even asked for an apology kay kuno maikog daw sya nako and he doesn't want me to get hurt. But if you check it out? Sakit na man jud sya...As in! dulot sa bukog, but akong gi huna2 lang jud ato...is that basta ako lang japon sya and he would stay, here with me. A night came I was having a walk outside, I really saw him with the girl though dili sila sweet2 but sakit sya...Ako na lang giagi ug lakaw nga walay face reaction mau gani kay naa ko kuyog...

The next day, usab na jud ang tanan, until niingon na jud sya nga maglisod na jud siya ug samot kay he doesn't want to loose me or the girl..Galibog na sad ko, unsa man ni? Kana ganing feeling nga murag unsa diay duwa ani? muari siya nako kung naa ko ug adto sya sa girl kung muanha ang girl?....Confused kaayo ko ato nga time, and I even tried to ask myself nganong ok ra kaayo nako nga mag pakabuta bungol sa mga nahitabo...Nagpakabuang jud ko..I cant even scold him, coz I don't want loose him...I start the day crying and ended it crying as well...Lisora lagi, labi na ug makadungog ka ug lain laing storya sa mga taw..Insulto kaayo sa akoa ba, pero sige ra jud ko nang sige..

BUt then, I came to realize that I think I deserve more than this. I know I would get hurt, I would cry and get hurt...But, bahala na lang guro...bahala na lang...at least Ive learned from the worst mistake I ever done in my life...ang pinaka sakit nga butang...I dreamed of having him forever in my life...I planned my life together with him...Guys, do you think its just right that I let goOr do you think that it would be better if I fight for it

[shaant-dive]

I admire your patience and maturity when it comes to relationship sis, you're amazingly understanding in everyway, I wish I can have someone like you. anyway, you have done your part as a girlfriend and as a rational human being, however, you should not punish yourself by staying in that kind of situation over and over again. You don't deserve that and I think your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, if he trully loves you, he would be in pain watching or just even knowing you're hurt. you made the right decision.

[classicrock]

nahh mayg siya ray laki sa kalibutan gud.. unsa mana iyang style duha2x ug uyab.. d mada..

[joan624]

sakto ra nga ikaw nlng nibuhi oi
sakit2x rakag samot kng padugayon pa
ikaw mn ang pinaka-alkanse ato nga situation
ang laki naay duha, maro2x kaau
ang usa ka girl naa ang laki nga gagukod ug di ka-let go
to think ex na gud to cya sa laki pro di kabuhi ang laki niya bisag naa na ka..
tarung ba na?
kaw, kinsa may nigukod nimo?

[raboy50]

Di lang to sya ka sulti nimo nga nahigugma pa sya sa iyang ex-gf kay ensulto kaayo sa imong part. Dawata nalang ang tinood nga dili sya para nimo, move on kay basin makit-an ra nimo ang lalaki nga para jud imo nga tinud-anay nagmahal nimo.

[miakka070]

haiz..sis..i sooooooooooo understand u... but kng ako lang mas gnhan ko mo let go kah THOUGH if ako naa jud u shoe DLI POD KOH..but ikw lng let go kai maau nalng naai ma hapi gamai sa laing tao aftr ngpakatanga sa laki ksa dghan nta nga stucked sa miserable nga situation nga mpadaun jpon mski kita na kaaus pattern that its going nowhere. Ani rgud..if love wont work for me atleast for others it wud.

and swerte ras laki ah.. tell him this: YOU CAN'T HAVE THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS!

[ayki]

ouuch. i'm sorry to hear that. like you, i was hoping he would make the right decisions and get closure from his "ex".. pero i guess he's too much of a COWARD. you don't deserve a coward. you made the right decision to let him go.. ayaw pag antos ana niya oi because he is not worth it. he is an "eenie meenie miney mo" lover.
i know it will hurt you.. pero at least naay end anang imong pag hurt.. if you stay with him.. mosamot lang na everyday.. walay katapusan, you're just punishing yourself.

[rickflag]

good decision miss, although i can relate how it hurts but you made a brave move. you're really one good girlfriend that any sane guy would want so i know you can find someone better than him soon.

[dragonbird]

i wished i cud be like you.. though broken u still manage to stand up. what u did is just right.. ayaw na pag antos sa relationship nga ingon ana walay segurado..sagdie lang..sa tnang kasakit nga imong naagian, himoan ra ka ni GOD sumday ug perfect and love story..reward nana xa sa imong pagkamaayo...

[KASAAC]

the guy is not worth fighting for TS, let go of him and find someone new...