Help me on this pls..wat would u do?

[Girl4Rent]

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Scenario:

Almost two years in a relationship,and all the while the girl thought the guy was so loyal,faithful to her..so in love..truly,madly deeply.....when the girl knew the guy,he said that he was furious with his ex and would never want to communicate or see her again..even blocked her sa fs..(fs pa uso before hehe)

but then the girl just discovered something,right now at this very moment.. she saw countless emails and replies of her guy communicating and seeing his ex on the early part of their relationship..like gi-two time ba.. but the dates on the email was way back on the first 6 months of the girl and guy officially being a couple.. messages of love were sent, plans to see each other,being together and of course doing "it".

Right now,the girl and guy are almost two years and so much in love and sure jud ang girl na walay lain,even planned on getting married...until she unearthed those emails..

Question:

If ur the girl,makigbuwag baka sa guy at present knowing it happened dugay na but mura lang kag gihimung tanga without u knowing it?

Imu ba awayon ang guy and ungkaton ngano nakigkita pa xa atong ex katong nagkakamo na?

Or would u just be silent like nothing happend,and still trust, live like uv never loved before knowing what uv discovered?

I need answers pls..thanks..

[annerhexian]

will it please u more if u just shut ur mouth and do nothing..
will it be fine to be silent in term u discover these things that cud led tow a misunderstanding situation?

in every relationship u enter..
Communication will be the best of things to do.

I dont want to juDge ur bf neither the situation of communicating his ex.
but the notion u read it.. the notion u see it.. and all the while he did it behind ur back
then trust is already broken and tarterred to pieces..

so talk about things out. u two, sort things out before nything else

and after the heart to heart talk..
then least u can do is think and decide whats the best thing u will do..


talk before u jump into a misleading conclusion..
instinct will tell u..
just have a keen observation dear
and u will be just fine..

[butong101]

My two cents worth opinion sis,

1. normally basta bag-o pa ang break up mg communicate pa gyud nah from time to time and part na ang mga sabot2x nga magkita ug mag make love especially if they were doing it in their time na sila pa.. normal ra gyud kaayo na nga na uyab namo pero cge japon sila commu, of course during the early stage sa inyo relationship.. kun hantod karon, aw lahi nana..
2. Kato na incident, trial to sa inyong relationship since bag-o pa man sd mo ato. Since ni last naman mo two years and even planning to get married maybe na lampasan na to ninyo nga trial.
3. Kun wala na ngpadayon ang exchange of messages until now why give a big fuss out of it? Na lampasan na to ninyo duha, without you knowing it, but with you unconsciously & indirectly helping your bf. You were part of the solution then when you showed your worth to him.
4. Talk about it. Talk to him and tell him that you already knew. But if your planning to make away to him, maybe ayaw nlang ********* for now.. unya na kun healed naka sa ana nga issue. Kun wala ka na hurt ana then karn ang right time para inyo nah storyaan pero kun hurt paka give yourself some space to breath.. Prehas ra gd nah sa anger management, kun ng lagot ka you will be asked to count 1 – 100 para mo kalma ka, so ana ra sd na..hehe

chill..ú

[butong101]

I dont want to juDge ur bf neither the situation of communicating his ex.
but the notion u read it.. the notion u see it.. and all the while he did it behind ur back
then trust is already broken and tarterred to pieces..

Im sorry bro, but I beg to disagree.. communicating with the ex during the early stage of a new relationship is almost always normal. For me, we can not judge that as breach of trust already. We just cannot deny the fact that once in their lives they were together.. beautifully together..ú



chill..ú

[Girl4Rent]

Im sorry bro, but I beg to disagree.. communicating with the ex during the early stage of a new relationship is almost always normal. For me, we can not judge that as breach of trust already. We just cannot deny the fact that once in their lives they were together.. beautifully together..ú



chill..ú

the mere question is, what he told the girl was that he was furious with the ex and would never want to communicate or see her again...
the girl believed it until now...what she has discovered is totally ironic with the way he was acting and saying...

[Girl4Rent]

i mean,its one big piece of a lie isnt it?

[Peenut]

the mere question is, what he told the girl was that he was furious with the ex and would never want to communicate or see her again...

Tsk3x.. that's it.

[fejazir]

...those emails were part of the past...since bag-o pa cla ato cguro kato na tym he had not completely forgotten his feelings for his ex...pero karon, he has completely given his heart to the current girl...that's what matters the most. In time, he will tell the current gf about ato,,pero dli pa lang cguro cya ready...everything will come in their due time...ang importante, the current gf na ang world sa guy kron, all that matter is them and how they are right now, the past is just clutters.

[annerhexian]

Im sorry bro, but I beg to disagree.. communicating with the ex during the early stage of a new relationship is almost always normal. For me, we can not judge that as breach of trust already. We just cannot deny the fact that once in their lives they were together.. beautifully together..ú



chill..ú

ah i see... wala mn gd ko ka agi ana..
but maybe normal sad na.. not sure jud

bsta talk talk talk jud ang best way jud intawn

[butong101]

...those emails were part of the past...since bag-o pa cla ato cguro kato na tym he had not completely forgotten his feelings for his ex...pero karon, he has completely given his heart to the current girl...that's what matters the most. In time, he will tell the current gf about ato,,pero dli pa lang cguro cya ready...everything will come in their due time...ang importante, the current gf na ang world sa guy kron, all that matter is them and how they are right now, the past is just clutters.

very well said..

@TS, ikaw ang present gf? murag galagot pa man ka..hehe ayaw lang usa i-confront mong uyab oi.. come to think of it, alangan man sd nanguyab siya nimo unya ingnon ka nahan pa kaau xa sa iya ex.. xiempre mo ingon jd ang laki na dili na siya nahan makakita nor makicommunicate.. The fact that na abot namo two years is enough evidence that he loves you, maybe not that sooner but now.. ehehe..ú chill..ú ayaw serious kaayo.. two years pa gani mo minyo2x man sd dayon.hehehe