Is it right to fight your BF over family?

[Zxianne^Ice85]

a level of reason should be maintained in any relationship. A partner who initiates to improve himself for the sake of his/her partners acceptance is a rare and commendable trait. That is a person worth to be defended. If you are flooded with emotion then you will be blind to the things that your family has seen in your partner. The burden should fall upon your partner. Stop your defense for a awhile and see how your bf is taking the ire from your family. From his response, you will know whether you are right or wrong. Be emotional but always maintain a level of reason, the open mind that can assess the situation. Can you see things from their point of view? or are you demanding them to see yours?

Yes, i can see their point of views and that is why i was more eager to fight for my love, my happiness because i don't see it as fair. I mean this is my life and i am old enough to choose what is best for me.

I don't like someone will control me on what should i do. I have my own mind and i knew what is wrong and right. Hope everything will be OK for my family and i am still praying for that.

Thanks guys for all your thoughts.

[SilentAngel]

aja! fight for it if u know that it's worth fighting for.

[Soul Doctor]

Hi Guys,


Is it right to fight your Bf over your family? My family was angry with me because they don't like my relationship with my bf right now. But for me it's all worth it to fight my love for my Bf over my brother and sister.

Post your ideas guys! I'm looking forward to read some of your ideas. I know it will help me.

Thanks guys,

No.
Sometimes you think your boyfriend is worth fighting for,
but it is not.
And you think he will be there for you in times of trouble?
he will not.

Mabuntis ka?
bye, bye ka na lang!

Masakit ka, siyay mobayad sa hospital bills?
I dont think so.

When you are young hormones control your brain.
That is why I discourage young people to enter into relationships at that stage.

Wait a few years more
and you will laugh at your self
remembering how stupid you were
to fight for someone
you do not really know.

[Zxianne^Ice85]

No.
Sometimes you think your boyfriend is worth fighting for,
but it is not.
And you think he will be there for you in times of trouble?
he will not.

Mabuntis ka?
bye, bye ka na lang!

Masakit ka, siyay mobayad sa hospital bills?
I dont think so.

When you are young hormones control your brain.
That is why I discourage young people to enter into relationships at that stage.

Wait a few years more
and you will laugh at your self
remembering how stupid you were
to fight for someone
you do not really know.

mao nay gi ingon bro na lahi lahi jud ang perception sa tao..if feel sakto then go....

[emow]

mao nay gi ingon bro na lahi lahi jud ang perception sa tao..if feel sakto then go....

whether your decision is right or wrong will depend on what will happen in the future, only time will tell. In defense of your bf, always leave a leeway for your family. If you are empowered by this relationship, then go with it. But let me tell you, in the act of defending, sometimes we defend our pride more than what we are defending. You might be severing precious bonds with your family, but if you are willing to accept the consequences then go with it. That would be a sign of maturity on your part, but whether you're right or wrong still remains to be seen.