I did the 1st confession to a GUY then I let go.

[abewtifulmind]

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ka awkward ana girl oi. what if ang lalaki dili mao ang iyang na feel nimo. para lang nako ha, no matter unsa ka ka inlove sa lalaki, we girls really have to wait for men to do the first move. ang matabo man gud kung kita ang manguyab sa lalaki, basig mabinuangan lang ta. kahibalo naka nga ubos na kaau ang pagtanaw sa mga lalaki nato karon, mao na kinahanglan ta mag maintain ug level nga maski gamay, ma respetuan sad ta sa lalaki. for all u know, basi gani mao na ang reason nga murag wala gyud ka niya seryosoha, because ikaw ang ni express una. ako gani bf, ni ingon siya, kung nakissan taka nga d pa taka gf, di na taka panguyaban. i asked y man, ingon siya, di siya nahan gf nga cheap. thats accdg to him ha.

ngeeekz..... depende man pud sa lalaki kung unsa cya mo tan-aw og situation.. para nako... kung na kiss-san nako ang babaye unya d pa nako gf..... if nahan jud ko sa babaye... manguyab ko oi... pareho ra bitaw na imong kiss sa mabdos una.. human kasal.. pareho rapud na sa kiss una.. human uyab... diba? depende sa lalaki kung ingon ana cya mo tan-aw sa babaye... dili man dapat e descriminate ang babaye maskin mao pay manguyab sa lalaki.. who cares man pud kung manguyab ang babaye sa lalaki.. at least she's strong enough to admit her feelings sa lalaki.. para nako... nindot kaayo na nga babaye.. basta oi.. mao nana..... don't descriminate pud ang mga girls... diba? lol.. but-ana nako oi... yoooohhhhhoooooooooo

[missingyouso]

i told him i love him, he seemed flattered, didnt say he loved me though, then he broke my heart. we were intimate kay mga tiguwang na man mi. bogo lang gyud kaayo ko, sign na tong wa sya mo-tubag. pero of course pag-panguyab nag-lab u/lab-u na, gi-uto ra diay ko ato. sakit kaayo

[curiousone]

(-.-)! there's nothing wrong in telling the person how you feel TS.. just don't expect anything in return... enjoy your friendship lang gud... sakit man jud nang unrequited love but it's more blissful coz u get to feel for someone

...this happened to me a couple of months back.. i told someone i like him -- i was crushed when he can't return the feelings and offered me friendship instead.. i let go and let myself heal... then i came back and took his friendship... better than nothing.. now i'm happier

bitaw......bhala na mag.kondinar iyang kalag inkahuman nimo confess....hahaha

[Peenut]

this is half truth. Peenut is a male, and he is telling a girl not to confess to him?

can you tell this to your partner? : don't confess to me coz I might take you for granted and you'll end up being hurt.

it doesn't feel right!!

Yes it is tentative truth.
I don't like a girl to confess to me because I am afraid that I won't met the girls expectation from me and I won't let that girl to get hurt.





When a girl confess to a guy, the guy seems to be insulted as a "man" in the fact that the guy do lacks self confidence.

It is really hard to handle this kind of a situation.
Like girls, guys are also careful in their decision in order avoid getting someone hurt.
Yes, everyone of us don't like to hurt others feeling.

[mystes]

Yes it is tentative truth.
I don't like a girl to confess to me because I am afraid that I won't met the girls expectation from me and I won't let that girl to get hurt.





When a girl confess to a guy, the guy seems to be insulted as a "man" in the fact that the guy do lacks self confidence.

It is really hard to handle this kind of a situation.
Like girls, guys are also careful in their decision in order avoid getting someone hurt.
Yes, everyone of us don't like to hurt others feeling.

Why does it hard to be a girl? we are sincere man pod

[thyrz]

Actually , pain--- comes from our frustrations that expectations were not met.
The reason you told him your feelings---- is because you expect him, in a way, that he will reciprocate those feelings.
And when things turn out differently than what is expected, then we start to feel the pain.
But pain is a good thing.
It teaches us lessons in life.
It tells us that there is something wrong with the way we think about love.

Because if you love unconditionally---
meaning no expectation whatsoever.
Then love becomes painless.

very well said...agree jud ko ani sis.

[lovelygirl]

It hurts falling for that person who can't even catch your fall.

For me sis,

It's a matter of decision whether you confess to a guy or not.
Yea, it is really hard because you are a girl.
But at least you let her know.

It is inappropriate that a girl confess first because the guy might take you for granted.
And after that, you might get hurt, or as we say, you'll end up hurt and forsaken.


The next time you invest....
Be sure that he is worth your emotions/feeling.



And it is not the end for everything.
Don't raise your white flag, as long as you are here and breathing..
Despite the pain you are suffering, there is still that little spark of hope inside.

maayoha nimu mo advice oi..bilib na jud ko nimu..hehehe..tig advice pod ka sa akong mga thread..

[mystes]

Can you please close this thread...

I am done with this thing. Thanks

[yiennahs]

Why man ing ane kalisod ma babae?Naa ko na ganahan na lalaki.
After 3 months of knowing him, I confessed to him the 3 little words sincerely.
And another months had passed I let go because its already painFUL.

Wala ko nagmahay ni sulti sa words pero dili na jud kow mo usab atong sitwasyuna

Sakita mo invest ug feelings jud na walay kasiguroan.
Amin ko we do things na couple did. (It means kissing2, holding hands, act like u sincerely care for him na dili na ordinary as friends)
BUT we ddnt do *** coz i declined for that thing.
Did he played my fragile heart? Maybe yes, maYbe no.!
Pero one thing for sure, i Am already at hurt. too much hurt that I dd let go.
Nana siyay uyab, ako nag pabilin pa ayu sa sakit. dah MIRISI nakoh!

Sayupppppppp ba mo confess?

Sincere man ko oie?
Huwat na lang ko oie naa mo confess na ko if na ako ma char2
ug dili nako invest2 ug emotions na way klaru.
suicide jud ang show sauna.
dili nako..

i sowww like it sis
im proud of you!

[devilsburger]

It hurts falling for that person who can't even catch your fall.

For me sis,

It's a matter of decision whether you confess to a guy or not.
Yea, it is really hard because you are a girl.
But at least you let her know.

It is inappropriate that a girl confess first because the guy might take you for granted.
And after that, you might get hurt, or as we say, you'll end up hurt and forsaken.


The next time you invest....
Be sure that he is worth your emotions/feeling.

And it is not the end for everything.
Don't raise your white flag, as long as you are here and breathing..
Despite the pain you are suffering, there is still that little spark of hope inside.

@peenut very well said brad..i admired your words of wisdom out of it..

@topic the next time you get into a relationship sis make sure its the guy who said those words and not you in the first place kay if a guy really loves you he will do his best to say those words to you sincerely man dba?God knows everything man jud in this world so let it be nalang gud..maybe he's not the one destined for you..