I did the 1st confession to a GUY then I let go.

[Ginalyn]

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Why man ing ane kalisod ma babae?Naa ko na ganahan na lalaki.
After 3 months of knowing him, I confessed to him the 3 little words sincerely.
And another months had passed I let go because its already painFUL.

Wala ko nagmahay ni sulti sa words pero dili na jud kow mo usab atong sitwasyuna

Sakita mo invest ug feelings jud na walay kasiguroan.
Amin ko we do things na couple did.
Did he played my fragile heart? Maybe yes, maYbe no.!
Pero one thing for sure, i Am already at hurt. too much hurt that I dd let go.
Nana siyay uyab, ako nag pabilin pa ayu sa sakit. dah MIRISI nakoh!

Sayupppppppp ba mo confess?
Sincere man ko oie?
Huwat na lang ko oie naa mo confess na ko if na ako ma char2
ug dili nako invest2 ug emotions na way klaru.
suicide jud ang show sauna.
dili nako..

normal ra na kung ang imong edad 17 and below

[Chedot]

Why man ing ane kalisod ma babae?Naa ko na ganahan na lalaki.
After 3 months of knowing him, I confessed to him the 3 little words sincerely.
And another months had passed I let go because its already painFUL.

Wala ko nagmahay ni sulti sa words pero dili na jud kow mo usab atong sitwasyuna

Sakita mo invest ug feelings jud na walay kasiguroan.
Amin ko we do things na couple did.
Did he played my fragile heart? Maybe yes, maYbe no.!
Pero one thing for sure, i Am already at hurt. too much hurt that I dd let go.
Nana siyay uyab, ako nag pabilin pa ayu sa sakit. dah MIRISI nakoh!

Sayupppppppp ba mo confess?
Sincere man ko oie?
Huwat na lang ko oie naa mo confess na ko if na ako ma char2
ug dili nako invest2 ug emotions na way klaru.
suicide jud ang show sauna.
dili nako..

I am stuck by this sentences. I presume you mean both of you nag live in na or doing the deed already na.

Sakit man jud mo invest ug feelings then mahulog na lugi. Somewhat similar sa nag invest ka ug money sa negosyo tapos wala maasenso ug nahugno.

It's a risk. And in taking a risk, we must accept what might be the outcome depending on how we handle the situation/risk.

Dili man sayop mo confess. Wrong timing lang jud kay ang imo gicompisalan dili pari. Aw, hehehe. I mean you invest your feelings to the person not capable of reciprocating it.

Regards,

[Ginalyn]

(-.-)! there's nothing wrong in telling the person how you feel TS.. just don't expect anything in return... enjoy your friendship lang gud... sakit man jud nang unrequited love but it's more blissful coz u get to feel for someone

...this happened to me a couple of months back.. i told someone i like him -- i was crushed when he can't return the feelings and offered me friendship instead.. i let go and let myself heal... then i came back and took his friendship... better than nothing.. now i'm happier

Actually , pain--- comes from our frustrations that expectations were not met.
The reason you told him your feelings---- is because you expect him, in a way, that he will reciprocate those feelings.
And when things turn out differently than what is expected, then we start to feel the pain.
But pain is a good thing.
It teaches us lessons in life.
It tells us that there is something wrong with the way we think about love.

Because if you love unconditionally---
meaning no expectation whatsoever.
Then love becomes painless.

[granz]

Why man ing ane kalisod ma babae?Naa ko na ganahan na lalaki.
After 3 months of knowing him, I confessed to him the 3 little words sincerely.
And another months had passed I let go because its already painFUL.

Wala ko nagmahay ni sulti sa words pero dili na jud kow mo usab atong sitwasyuna

Sakita mo invest ug feelings jud na walay kasiguroan.
Amin ko we do things na couple did.
Did he played my fragile heart? Maybe yes, maYbe no.!
Pero one thing for sure, i Am already at hurt. too much hurt that I dd let go.
Nana siyay uyab, ako nag pabilin pa ayu sa sakit. dah MIRISI nakoh!

Sayupppppppp ba mo confess?
Sincere man ko oie?
Huwat na lang ko oie naa mo confess na ko if na ako ma char2
ug dili nako invest2 ug emotions na way klaru.
suicide jud ang show sauna.
dili nako..

- y nka hilak ko sa imong confession sis

- dli man sayop na ni confess ka sis jst like dli sayop ang mo love ug taw.

[emow]

@ ts: Rejection is often a hurtful event in anybody's life. But, that is important to be able to grow further emotionally.You now know how a guys feels being rejected. Our culture is a conservative one and it despises the act of a woman making the first move towards a man. You were simply falling for a guy who didn't share what you felt. Cheer up, you're not the only one in that situation. Its better to have loved and failed than to never have loved at all.

[mystes]

Peenut :
"The next time you invest....
Be sure that he is worth your emotions/feeling."

I wish I can do that in the near future when I am already healed.
Na trauma man gud kow. Sorry but the term is "trauma" jud.

coco_psy-co:
"i admire ur courage sis! those are pearls..i think i wud hav to say no more..[basaha nlng ng lyrics..hehehe] "

I hope that is courage to be honest but Id learned what is truth in the hard way


beyee:
"(-.-)! there's nothing wrong in telling the person how you feel TS.. just don't expect anything in return... enjoy your friendship lang gud... sakit man jud nang unrequited love but it's more blissful coz u get to feel for someone "

There's nothing wrong indeed but once you told to someone,
Its a chance of risk and a risk of hurt is much more a 100% giveN.
Too bad for expectation and reality.

annerhexian:
but whos worthy or not?
"It is inappropriate that a girl confess first because the guy might take you for granted."
-take for granted jud.. mao nay pinaka sakit.
hey girl, be strong..unya ko sumpay..duka mode na

Yes, the word is taken for granted jud to the feeling but not the attention he give to me.
We dated but then I dated a stonehearted man and not a real man for that matter.
Strong jud, wala ko mahimo ani.
What is Done is done.

[mystes]

aozora:
check yourself before you wreck yourself!

dli man cguro sayop mo confess TS! heck! you're telling the truth, what's wrong with that?! huh? hihihih... what makes it sayop kay ang person you are confessing with. dapat sa pari ka mag confess. .... joke. btaw seriously, tanawa ayaw paminawa kung love ba jud ka niya. oks?

Ive done the checking and its wrecking my nerve systeM.
Its no good when depression is attacking my life when I know NO one would do to help me.
Dili sayup ang confession but then mostly they told me,
its Inappropriate for us GIRLS to do the cONFESSIon
for a reason that I will be took advantage of the later part of the story and ended broken.
But i Did confessed coz I felt and genuine to what I felt.
I dont do a kiss thing to a guy, and dates Only to him for a long time na just for fun.
If someone trampled my black book of rules then least I can do is be HONEST to him.
But then maybe its a never ending consequences of the action was taken.


jimmy128:
dunno unsa na ni ka dugay na thread.. pero i think same raman jud ni kung sa guy ug sa girl..

mostly guys are also afraid to confess their feelings because we have fears of being busted or fears na we might just be making fools out of ourselves.. i guess the same goes for girls.. afraid to let yourselves be vulnerable because of your own fears as well... all is fair in love and war..

normally when a guy does confess his feelings.. it may be after countless pep talks from our fellow species lol (sigi go for it! hehehe)

Karon pa ni na post, April 9,2010.
Yah your ryt! "Vulnerbaility" is my weakest point when some feelings are to be open whose not worthy to the so called "love"


-shinobi-
"grabe nimu og guts sis. bilib ko nimu! pero ayaw lang tagae og chance ang laki nga motake advantage na siya nimu ky love nimu siya.. "

GUts ba jud na ing ana sis.. I think my pride and as a woman who thinks logicaly has already fading when I confessed to him

Ginalyn:
normal ra na kung ang imong edad 17 and below

I am already at my age of early 20's to be exact 22 coming to 23.

[mystes]

Chedot:
I am stuck by this sentences. I presume you mean both of you nag live in na or doing the deed already na.

Sakit man jud mo invest ug feelings then mahulog na lugi. Somewhat similar sa nag invest ka ug money sa negosyo tapos wala maasenso ug nahugno.

It's a risk. And in taking a risk, we must accept what might be the outcome depending on how we handle the situation/risk.

Dili man sayop mo confess. Wrong timing lang jud kay ang imo gicompisalan dili pari. Aw, hehehe. I mean you invest your feelings to the person not capable of reciprocating it.

Regards,

Dont be stuck, i will pull you out.
We never do the live in thing sir coz I dont do that thing.
When I said - "Amin ko we do things na couple did."
it means, we kissed, we touched. A gf/bf relationship.
So mahulog na FLing2 ug dili friends with benefits
kay never sad ko mag pagasto nea and goes with hiM.
I just take care, love him, and be with him in my own way of understanding the situation we had.
Sakit jud cea coz in the end, I got hurt.
Rebounds,

granz:
y nka hilak ko sa imong confession sis

dli man sayop na ni confess ka sis jst like dli sayop ang mo love ug taw.

Maka hilak ko sis, ug mo hilak ko coz sakit jud cea.
Its not the confession thing but the feeling I had for him
Way sayup ang duha, mora ako jud ang sayup.


emow:
@ ts: Rejection is often a hurtful event in anybody's life. But, that is important to be able to grow further emotionally.You now know how a guys feels being rejected. Our culture is a conservative one and it despises the act of a woman making the first move towards a man. You were simply falling for a guy who didn't share what you felt. Cheer up, you're not the only one in that situation. Its better to have loved and failed than to never have loved at all.

Thank you. I did my best or was it my best, but Yes. I did tell him and after the longest painful observation and the situation I was into, I decide to Let go no matter how I "like" or "love" the person. And Yes, I was being rejected as well.

[heavenknws]

yaw nalang ug asa ana sis. just move on lang gud enjoy life. unsaon man nang imong gipangayo nga di man puede ma imo.

[emow]

the fact that you have opened up means you are in the process of healing. No worries, you're gonna be better....and a bit bitter perhaps? lol