Letter to your EX'es

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To the person whom I once called love,

Let me start of by saying that although we pretend that we're not, we are still young. Life has yet to teach us all the heartaches in the world. But I am glad that I have met you. Let's stop being adults here and remember that we are (were) kids.

First of all, I want to say, Im sorry. And if the fault had been on your end, I forgive you. Let us cast this unneeded hatred and learn to live as friends again. Do you remember? We were friends once, and we still are. Hate can only bring about so little things, but friendship, is there anything more precious in the world?

You may not think the same way, but I value the time we have spent together. Its been so long and yet, these memories make me smile. They make me remember life. Our lives. Remember that it wasn't all in vain. That is how life teaches us. And through you, it has taught me well.

Love is not a singular thing that can be given and then taken back. It cannot be broken as others presume. It cannot be stolen as others thought to believe. It is shared, taught through lessons and pain. And you were one of the greatest chapters of love. Know this, I still love you. And I will always do. Just as I know that you love me to, in your own way of course.

Does it not make you smile too? The cheesy moments we've had. Those silent whispers and awkward messages. And yet, we prevailed. Our love, WON... for a while. If you have forgotten, let me remind you, as any person who walks through life will;

the gentle nudges as we walk in public
the useless conversations we have
when you'd get sad when i spend more time with friends
the pointless jealousies
when I made lame jokes and you forced yourself to laugh
the awful *** that we'll always remember
when we told each other we'd be together forever
times when you tell me to stop smoking and i tell you to stop nagging
times when you've hit me hard
and time when I've hit you back
moments that seem to go on as we stare at each other
times when you've spoon fed me as have to you
when fight and make up and forget the reason why we fought
when things we've tried to keep secret to each other were revealed
when we made love on valentines
having to meet your friends and family as you had to meet mine
as we kissed passionately while watching Sunday morning cartoons


Everyday, you thought me new things. You made me understand life more and more each day as we spent forever together.

And we are still walking. Moving forward. To the next person who will whisper bold words into our ears. To the next person who hugs us in pride.

But know that I will not set you behind me as a person who was, but rather a person who still is. A person who taught me as no teacher has ever taught me before. Because this is LIFE. We meet people, and learn to love them. We are kids. We will always be kids. Never forget that. NEVER GROW OLD. Because old people resent, hate, keep grudges. And I don't hate you.

So I would rather say "How are you?" than "Goodbye". Say "Happy Birthday" than ignore the fact that it is. Say "I LOVE YOU" than "lets never talk to each other".

Because if you love your life. You will learn to love everyone. You may hide it, but I know that you love me. So in the end, I just want to remind you, as a friend of course;

I LOVE YOU

[annerhexian]

Post reply:

Some people cant be friends for a reason.
Be better to move on and dont look back in the past..
Coz once u look back.. u cant move on..


linger but doN't stay coz its hard to get hurt again with the same person
who hurt u..


time will tell.....

[wubby]

TO MY EX:

I’m sorry if you think that I am selfish. I hope you can see what is in my heart. I wish you could read my thoughts and my heart. But you can’t. You never have. I guess I keep calling you because I want to know that you’ve have moved on.I am sure that I don’t want us to get back together. The years we spent together was one of the defining moments on my life. It changed me in ways I can never fully grasp yet.

The girl you once knew and the girl who once loved you has grown up. I am not the same person that I used to be when I met you. I have changed. And I’d like to believe that I changed for the better partly because of you.

[T1CODE]

Post reply:

Some people cant be friends for a reason.
Be better to move on and dont look back in the past..
Coz once u look back.. u cant move on..


linger but doN't stay coz its hard to get hurt again with the same person
who hurt u..


time will tell.....

this one is very true
there are certain things that needs to be left in the past
i for one wouldn't want to look back as it just hurts me seeing the one i loved happy while i suffer...
bitter it may sound but its just the way it is.
so better to move on and forget everything than pretend you're already ok to be friends with him/her

[luke0917]

Post reply:

Some people cant be friends for a reason.
Be better to move on and dont look back in the past..
Coz once u look back.. u cant move on..


linger but doN't stay coz its hard to get hurt again with the same person
who hurt u..


time will tell.....

i agree on this. i am actually on the point now where i will be experiencing the same heartache again coz i choose to get hurt again with the same person who hurt me..

[kajo2]

It's hard to send a letter to my x gf. She was badly hurt and it's been 6mos when we broke up so i guess she already moved on. I don't wanna give her much pain again. I was the one who broke up with her tho she loved me so much for 4yrs and 4mos but then i couldn't take her temper(so nagger and throws things whatever she touches).

[pablingz]

It's hard to send a letter to my x gf. She was badly hurt and it's been 6mos when we broke up so i guess she already moved on. I don't wanna give her much pain again. I was the one who broke up with her tho she loved me so much for 4yrs and 4mos but then i couldn't take her temper(so nagger and throws things whatever she touches).

sorry bai ha but dapat lang sad imu gibuwagan ui, lisud na if iya magunitan kay drum ,di mabukol ka...hehehe...kidding aside , you made the right decision bai and i know that youre really happy with your present lovelife now.

[pablingz]

TO MY EX:

I’m sorry if you think that I am selfish. I hope you can see what is in my heart. I wish you could read my thoughts and my heart. But you can’t. You never have. I guess I keep calling you because I want to know that you’ve have moved on.I am sure that I don’t want us to get back together. The years we spent together was one of the defining moments on my life. It changed me in ways I can never fully grasp yet.

The girl you once knew and the girl who once loved you has grown up. I am not the same person that I used to be when I met you. I have changed. And I’d like to believe that I changed for the better partly because of you.

you have my respect maam. sakita ani sa dughan ui if makabasa ang ex ani...heheheh

[nice_work]

Thanks for making me a better person and a stronger one...

[darsmith13]

thank you for the experiences(all of it including the wild ones).. maybe if we were together at an older age we would have been a great couple, but we, well I was immature.. i took you for granted.. nevermind the lies that you always say, i screwed up, i am the one to blame, i destroyed us.. the time i was with you was the longest that ive been with someone, at least we tried to make it work(including the times we go to the attic when we're mad at each other).. i am sorry for physically hurting you, i hope you find true happiness without me..