Priorities and Importance

[jowee-chan]

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para nko, you've placed yourself in an unhealthy situation wherein cya nlng halos imong whole world.. dli naka malingaw kung dli cya ang kuyog? you can't stand a single day nga dli mo magkita? imong gisalikway imong relatives para lng niya? i think you need a wake-up call.. whether kamo jud ba mgkadayon sa future or not, it's not good to give too much in any relationship to the point nga you end up with nothing.. maskin pa gani ug married namo, you still need time apart from each other.. you still need to give each other space.. remember that overfamiliarity leads to contempt.. you're both still in college i presume, and a lot can happen between now and forever.. who will you run to if things between you two don't turn out so great? what else would be there left to do if nothing else gives you happiness?

anyway, maskin naa cya sa layo, you still have means of maintaining an open communication with him.. pwde mgtxt, mg-email, pwde gani mgbinisitahay mo on weekends.. dli man cguro ana kalayo ang ormoc.. daghan man gni couples mu-survive maskin nasa abroad pa ilang partner.. natural ra man jud nang mingawon, but don't let it take over your life.. learn to deal with it and take time to enjoy other things and people in your life!

***yeah that's true. it seems nga nagtuyok na akong kalibutan niya. i know that it's not good to give too much in our relationship but for the past relationships that i had, i was not able to give my best shot. that's why i had regrets. and now i had a change of heart. kung ihatag man nimo tanan na makaya nimo in a relationship, by the time na magbuwag mo you wont feel any remorse or regrets since wa ka nagkuwang right? and it wouldnt be my loss. kai wa ko nagkuwang niya. though it would hurt, its normal. because if you wont feel any hurt, then dili nah xa love right? anyway, that's your POV. and i respect that.

that's true that we need some time apart. that's why i just agreed with him that he would stay there. ang ako lang is d man good mi, err, somewhat mutual sa feelings though layu mi. and i've figure out that we both dont need to have equal feelings man dei. kai i keep on comparing myself man good na ako lagi ingani ko nganu man xa ingana man.. i think nitukar nalang pood akong pagka immature that's why nag rigor pood ko. but everything's fine already.

the idea of seeing each other on weekends.. he doesnt like it. d xa ganahan na muadto ko ngadto kai mubuhat man gd cla ngadto ug household chores ngadto, he doesnt want me to do any daw. so dili nalang nako xa pugson. but he plans on bringing me there. unya nalang daw sa saktong panahon. and i believe on what he says. kai he has already done that before and i know he will do it.

thanks sa imong POV. i realize a lot through that.

[reginakrys]

***yeah that's true. it seems nga nagtuyok na akong kalibutan niya. i know that it's not good to give too much in our relationship but for the past relationships that i had, i was not able to give my best shot. that's why i had regrets. and now i had a change of heart. kung ihatag man nimo tanan na makaya nimo in a relationship, by the time na magbuwag mo you wont feel any remorse or regrets since wa ka nagkuwang right? and it wouldnt be my loss. kai wa ko nagkuwang niya. though it would hurt, its normal. because if you wont feel any hurt, then dili nah xa love right? anyway, that's your POV. and i respect that.

that's true that we need some time apart. that's why i just agreed with him that he would stay there. ang ako lang is d man good mi, err, somewhat mutual sa feelings though layu mi. and i've figure out that we both dont need to have equal feelings man dei. kai i keep on comparing myself man good na ako lagi ingani ko nganu man xa ingana man.. i think nitukar nalang pood akong pagka immature that's why nag rigor pood ko. but everything's fine already.

the idea of seeing each other on weekends.. he doesnt like it. d xa ganahan na muadto ko ngadto kai mubuhat man gd cla ngadto ug household chores ngadto, he doesnt want me to do any daw. so dili nalang nako xa pugson. but he plans on bringing me there. unya nalang daw sa saktong panahon. and i believe on what he says. kai he has already done that before and i know he will do it.

thanks sa imong POV. i realize a lot through that.

hehe.. i see where your decisions come from.. but you can still give a lot without giving up your friends, family, or your hobbies and interests.. you don't have to replace any of these for him.. you need to balance lng sad jud.. lisod na kaau if ma-lose nimo ang tanan2x kay lisod na kaau ug bangon once you lose him.. if cya ra imong whole world, your whole world will fall apart if wala na cya.. i speak from experience hehehe =D

[precyfloor]

hehe.. i see where your decisions come from.. but you can still give a lot without giving up your friends, family, or your hobbies and interests.. you don't have to replace any of these for him.. you need to balance lng sad jud.. lisod na kaau if ma-lose nimo ang tanan2x kay lisod na kaau ug bangon once you lose him.. if cya ra imong whole world, your whole world will fall apart if wala na cya.. i speak from experience hehehe =D

i agree with reginakrys sis...

there's nothing wrong with being sooo inlove with ur bf sis. ang maka-wrong lang ani kung imu jud i-give tanan tanan sa iyaha, halos wala nakay gi-bilin para sa imung self. usahay raba, dili tanan, mugara ning mga lalaki..kesyu ay, "in love kaayo ning girl nako ay, ok rani mag ingun ani ko" etc. wala nay paki sa imung feelings kung nag rigor na diay ka etc.Then, yes mingawun lagi nimu, pero sa unsa nga way? gimingaw sa big S**? pero wala ko ni-ingun nga nag ingun ani mo ha..ang ako lang, kung gihatag nman gud nimu tanan, murag ang tendency, ikaw na lang mag gukod sa guy, then mingawun siya nimu tungod na lang pud sa ingun ana...naka gets ka nako sis? pero, on the other side of the coin, murag career oriented lang jud na imung bf, suportahi lang sya sis, then ayaw kaayo ipakita nga in love kaayo ka niya. POV lang..peace!!