Priorities and Importance

[ondoy]

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basin ga lantaw rato imong BF sa inyong ugma puhon, basin nakita niya nga mo improve/succeed siya didto(career wise/financially).u can talk with him(d best way before judging him).

[treize]

move on........................

[annerhexian]

hmm if COLLEGE STUD pa mo... dont dig deeper so much on expectation of one's reLationship and love..
crisis panahun ron... dapat stablize sa mo.. wakikikik.....

storya e - oo nice na..
padatu - mas nicer na kay gahunahuna ug UGMa.
stabLe - that a plus factor esp to a ONE PERSon.
love - this word will be fit if ur emotionally independent of one's individualism and as well in a relationship u going through to understand the real score between reality and the so called love and commitment.

Loving someone is giving him the best of both world but not to the extend of giving more that u cud no longer give.. hahahha libog sa..

Naa ceay priority jud sa kaugmaon... pero importante? that I dont know............. unless u have a heart to heart talk to end all the speculations in here.


Just talk to ur BF and you will just be in fine in time..

[jowee-chan]

basin nka kita to dd2 og girl mao ni sugot nlng pd sa offer....khbaw nka mga guys polygamus...dali ra madagit...

***OMG. pagsure.. T_T

pagtalk nalang jud mo og tarong ana.. and pahibaw-a cya sa imong na feel... and ... kung wa man gani cya magbinuang ngadto.... .. para nako... e accept nalang jud ang changes nga nahitabo.. sometimes man gud.. kung love nato ang taw... we have to undergo man gud sacrifices... sometimes lisod sabton but... wa tay mabuhat kundi sabton nalang.... and.... make sure nga ang imong sacrifice.. worth it pud.. basin maong na wili imong uyab ngadto kay basin naay laing putahe ngadto... aguy... (tag-anon nako naglatagaw na imong utok ron)

***mulang. galatagaw jood. dghan na kaau mga things na ni pop up sa akong head karon na di na magka connect2.. T_T

basin ga lantaw rato imong BF sa inyong ugma puhon, basin nakita niya nga mo improve/succeed siya didto(career wise/financially).u can talk with him(d best way before judging him).

***yeah, i hope i could talk to him personally jood kai d man good nako makit-an sa tingog alone (thru cellphone) ang sincerity.. ang ako lang question is.. kanus-a xa mu-uli so that we could talk properly...

hmm if COLLEGE STUD pa mo... dont dig deeper so much on expectation of one's reLationship and love..
crisis panahun ron... dapat stablize sa mo.. wakikikik.....

storya e - oo nice na..
padatu - mas nicer na kay gahunahuna ug UGMa.
stabLe - that a plus factor esp to a ONE PERSon.
love - this word will be fit if ur emotionally independent of one's individualism and as well in a relationship u going through to understand the real score between reality and the so called love and commitment.

Loving someone is giving him the best of both world but not to the extend of giving more that u cud no longer give.. hahahha libog sa..

Naa ceay priority jud sa kaugmaon... pero importante? that I dont know............. unless u have a heart to heart talk to end all the speculations in here.


Just talk to ur BF and you will just be in fine in time..

***i hope he thinks the way you're thinking right now. im really not quite sure kung unsa gani iyang motive of staying there.. it's either of the work he has or just because he's having fun there... if ever man unsa ang iyang "gikalingawan" ngadto, i hope it's not a girl.

[rr_sipat]

HAHAHA, Kung prioritize hisgutan im sure dili ikaw iyang gi prioritize ang work as of the moment kaysa nimo! naa cya lain buhaton nga wala pa niya mahuhat so pasagdi lang cya... ayaw lang pug-sa... Kung Importance hisgotan im sure di jud ka importante niya, kay importante paka niya mo uli na na oi kay mingwon sya nimo... pareha sa imong gi bati gud di ba grabeh ang kamingaw nimo niya kay importante gud cya...

Para lang nako ha naa tingali to nakit-an nga girl nga gusto niya sa qualities na wala nimo... Faets

[KASAAC]

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ingon ana sad ako huna2x ni rr... para lang nako ha kung priority lay hisgutan obviously dili jud ikaw, famiy and work ang iyang gi priority basing lang sa imung stories TS...

advise nako nmu noh...chillax lang gud ka i understand nga mingaw jud pero tagaan jud nmu siya ug time para sa iyang self uyab ra bya mo, dili bya mo minyo duha... so wala pa kai right na mu demand sa iyaha he still has the control of his own life... imagine yourself in his situation so that it will be easy for you to understand and accept kung nganung nag ingon ana siya...

naka stay ko sa mindanao nindut raba jud ang feeling, balay sa akong classmate pag highschool...halus dili gale ko nahan mo uli ahehehe pero dapat mu uli kay yataps tah ni mother basin dili na unya ko sugtan mu laag sunod...

bitaw sis... kung gusto jud ka i suggest imu siyang istoryahon ug tarong arun mag kasinabot mo

[eilrach]

dah.. huna2x rana nimo sis... mao hinoun na mahinungdan nga mag.away mo.. nya ang reason sa guy kung mag.buwag man gani mo puhon..."na touk na nimo".. mao dayun na reason... OK raman cguro na iya gibuhat.. atleast, gisultian ka niya... usahay raba sad, magdepende pud na imo panghuna2x sa attitude sa imo bf.. if chikboy gani imo bf nga naa cya ngari.. aws, prepare nalang ka daan kung naa cya sa layu...

pero, pag.talk jud mo.. ayaw pugong2x sa storya kung naa na cya sa imo front... sulti jud kung unsa nahan nimo e.sulti.. mas maau na para makabalo cya kung unsa imo gipamati.. basin nag.tou sad na imo bf nga ok ra kaau nimo bisan dili...

[granz]

I have a question fer ye..

My BF went to Ormoc last March 23 to have a vacation with his relatives since the last time he went there when he was still in grade school (and he's already in 2nd year college). He said that he wont be staying long there because he will enroll this summer. I just said yes since I can't say no to this man (I wish I could. haaaah~). Anyway, I thought he'll just be staying there for two weeks. After two weeks, he told me that he'll extend until April 16 since his cousin will be celebrating his birthday on the 15th. So nisugot ra ko. Hangtod nag April 16 na jood, the most awaited day came. kalit lang siya ni-ingon na dli xa kauli kai ghitagaan xa'g work sa iyang uncle and his kuya had already called him, telling him that he'll be taking the semestral classes.

nangutana ko niya nganung ingana man ang nahitabo.. ana xa na ganahan pa jood daw xa mustay didto. dee pa daw xa ganahan mu uli.

Guys, kung kahibaw lang mo pila ko ka gabii wai tarung tug tungod sa kamingaw. Wa ghapon pulos kung maglingaw2 ko kai dee japon ko ana malingaw.

My question here is... do you think he thinks na important ko niya? or apil ko sa iyang priorities? i mean, it's not that im comparing us to other couples ha, but dba kung naa kai uyab na love kaayo nimo, you cant stand even a single day na dee mo magkita? kung ako ang pangutan-on kung importante ba xa nako, i'd give my biggest YES. ako man gani gisalikway ang akong relatives para lang niya. I can say na I can sacrifice things for him, to the extent na wa nai mahibilin nako. I'm not exaggerating here. I'm just saying what I can do for him. haaaaaaaah~

what do you think guys?

for that kind of guy sis, ayaw nlng pag usik sa imong time. nka try nko ana sauna na mka question ka sa mga butang kng y ma antos ka niya na dli mo mag kita or ngano dli ka niya ma miss pero come to think of it, ikw ray nag skit2x sa imong kaugalingon ug cya hmmmmppp.. unsaon nlng.
if love gd ka sa taw dli gd na mka antos nimo... ana nlng sis, give him space nlng then f mo balik cya nimo then kamo gd. ayaw nlng sad pag asa sa iyaha.

[jowee-chan]

HAHAHA, Kung prioritize hisgutan im sure dili ikaw iyang gi prioritize ang work as of the moment kaysa nimo! naa cya lain buhaton nga wala pa niya mahuhat so pasagdi lang cya... ayaw lang pug-sa... Kung Importance hisgotan im sure di jud ka importante niya, kay importante paka niya mo uli na na oi kay mingwon sya nimo... pareha sa imong gi bati gud di ba grabeh ang kamingaw nimo niya kay importante gud cya...

Para lang nako ha naa tingali to nakit-an nga girl nga gusto niya sa qualities na wala nimo... Faets

***actually rr, he's going home for one day to see me. maskin one day lang nah, i know gimingaw xa nako. even though unsa xa ka busy ngadto, i know he'll find ways to see me. i was even surprised nga ni ana xa na, "mee, d nako kaantus. mu-uli ko diha para magkita ta. pero one day ra mee kai ang akong work ngari d nako pwede pood byaan." i think that alone would prove na i mean a lot to him, too.

kung third party ang hisgutan, i dont think he can do that. ang ingon sa iyang ig-agaw nako na d man gani xa mu-apil ug inom sa ilaha labi na kung naai mga chicks na kuyog. magcge ra daw ug tuplok2 sa celfone. and that means na he'd prefer communicating with me than having fun with his cousins and other girls.

i'm not applying any defense mechanism here. im just so proud na naa koi uyab parehas niya and what he did. i may not be important for him like the way he is to me, but that's love, 'ayt? give love and expect NOTHING in return.

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ingon ana sad ako huna2x ni rr... para lang nako ha kung priority lay hisgutan obviously dili jud ikaw, famiy and work ang iyang gi priority basing lang sa imung stories TS...

advise nako nmu noh...chillax lang gud ka i understand nga mingaw jud pero tagaan jud nmu siya ug time para sa iyang self uyab ra bya mo, dili bya mo minyo duha... so wala pa kai right na mu demand sa iyaha he still has the control of his own life... imagine yourself in his situation so that it will be easy for you to understand and accept kung nganung nag ingon ana siya...

naka stay ko sa mindanao nindut raba jud ang feeling, balay sa akong classmate pag highschool...halus dili gale ko nahan mo uli ahehehe pero dapat mu uli kay yataps tah ni mother basin dili na unya ko sugtan mu laag sunod...

bitaw sis... kung gusto jud ka i suggest imu siyang istoryahon ug tarong arun mag kasinabot mo

***yup magstorya mi dong, when he gets back on thursday.. ehehehe

i understand that you guys want to have so much fun in yer life na you wont regret doing. and i know that UYAB ra ko niya. i know man where i stand and should place myself. i just cant help compare US to other couples man good. and its good that i have come to think of this after all the things na nahitabo sa amoa.

thanks for your POV.

dah.. huna2x rana nimo sis... mao hinoun na mahinungdan nga mag.away mo.. nya ang reason sa guy kung mag.buwag man gani mo puhon..."na touk na nimo".. mao dayun na reason... OK raman cguro na iya gibuhat.. atleast, gisultian ka niya... usahay raba sad, magdepende pud na imo panghuna2x sa attitude sa imo bf.. if chikboy gani imo bf nga naa cya ngari.. aws, prepare nalang ka daan kung naa cya sa layu...

pero, pag.talk jud mo.. ayaw pugong2x sa storya kung naa na cya sa imo front... sulti jud kung unsa nahan nimo e.sulti.. mas maau na para makabalo cya kung unsa imo gipamati.. basin nag.tou sad na imo bf nga ok ra kaau nimo bisan dili...

***lage, sis. maybe i just think too much mao nah nagrigor ko'g tamans ginhawa. i fully understand him naman. and hadlok man xa na magbuwag mi. d gani xa ganhan na makadungog anang buwag na word. and ako pood. ehehe

d man pood xa chickboy, yadz. behave man nah xa diri. he's a home buddy man pood. and matud pa sa iyang cousin na magpuyo man xa ngadto. d gani mu apil ug tagay kung naai mga babae so wala na koi issue ana.

dili jood ko magpugong yadz kai ni ana xa na pwede ra daw nako xa kulatahun hangtod sa mabun-og xa kung kana lang daw mai makapawa sa kalagot nako niya. and no, i won't do that. never. ehehe

for that kind of guy sis, ayaw nlng pag usik sa imong time. nka try nko ana sauna na mka question ka sa mga butang kng y ma antos ka niya na dli mo mag kita or ngano dli ka niya ma miss pero come to think of it, ikw ray nag skit2x sa imong kaugalingon ug cya hmmmmppp.. unsaon nlng.
if love gd ka sa taw dli gd na mka antos nimo... ana nlng sis, give him space nlng then f mo balik cya nimo then kamo gd. ayaw nlng sad pag asa sa iyaha.

***kasabot naman ko sa tanan yadz. okay naman sa akoa. nice pood kai naa xai kaugalingong income ba. ehehe

[reginakrys]

I have a question fer ye..

My BF went to Ormoc last March 23 to have a vacation with his relatives since the last time he went there when he was still in grade school (and he's already in 2nd year college). He said that he wont be staying long there because he will enroll this summer. I just said yes since I can't say no to this man (I wish I could. haaaah~). Anyway, I thought he'll just be staying there for two weeks. After two weeks, he told me that he'll extend until April 16 since his cousin will be celebrating his birthday on the 15th. So nisugot ra ko. Hangtod nag April 16 na jood, the most awaited day came. kalit lang siya ni-ingon na dli xa kauli kai ghitagaan xa'g work sa iyang uncle and his kuya had already called him, telling him that he'll be taking the semestral classes.

nangutana ko niya nganung ingana man ang nahitabo.. ana xa na ganahan pa jood daw xa mustay didto. dee pa daw xa ganahan mu uli.

Guys, kung kahibaw lang mo pila ko ka gabii wai tarung tug tungod sa kamingaw. Wa ghapon pulos kung maglingaw2 ko kai dee japon ko ana malingaw.

My question here is... do you think he thinks na important ko niya? or apil ko sa iyang priorities? i mean, it's not that im comparing us to other couples ha, but dba kung naa kai uyab na love kaayo nimo, you cant stand even a single day na dee mo magkita? kung ako ang pangutan-on kung importante ba xa nako, i'd give my biggest YES. ako man gani gisalikway ang akong relatives para lang niya. I can say na I can sacrifice things for him, to the extent na wa nai mahibilin nako. I'm not exaggerating here. I'm just saying what I can do for him. haaaaaaaah~

what do you think guys?

para nko, you've placed yourself in an unhealthy situation wherein cya nlng halos imong whole world.. dli naka malingaw kung dli cya ang kuyog? you can't stand a single day nga dli mo magkita? imong gisalikway imong relatives para lng niya? i think you need a wake-up call.. whether kamo jud ba mgkadayon sa future or not, it's not good to give too much in any relationship to the point nga you end up with nothing.. maskin pa gani ug married namo, you still need time apart from each other.. you still need to give each other space.. remember that overfamiliarity leads to contempt.. you're both still in college i presume, and a lot can happen between now and forever.. who will you run to if things between you two don't turn out so great? what else would be there left to do if nothing else gives you happiness?

anyway, maskin naa cya sa layo, you still have means of maintaining an open communication with him.. pwde mgtxt, mg-email, pwde gani mgbinisitahay mo on weekends.. dli man cguro ana kalayo ang ormoc.. daghan man gni couples mu-survive maskin nasa abroad pa ilang partner.. natural ra man jud nang mingawon, but don't let it take over your life.. learn to deal with it and take time to enjoy other things and people in your life!