Ask me any question about relationships

[anjerika]

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can anybody please lift the mute from SD? we need him back in this show. thanks

[histrionic0311]

I think there is something wrong with the way you think about life.

You put too much importance on finding the right person for you.
The other person is nothing but an extension.
Enjoy life alone with family and friends first.

I think you should find yourself first.
I think you have a lot of things to do to find yourself.
If you found yourself,
then it would be easy for that person to find you too.

yea very true, and now that i have found her,. my life's challenge just keeps on adding, but we can do this.. thanks sis

[Peenut]

I think there is something wrong with the way you think about life.

You put too much importance on finding the right person for you.
The other person is nothing but an extension.
Enjoy life alone with family and friends first.

I think you should find yourself first.
I think you have a lot of things to do to find yourself.
If you found yourself,
then it would be easy for that person to find you too.

I think this also goes by....

"Don't let anyone be your priority while letting yourself to be just an option."

[Ginalyn]

Yes she can.
But she could have more help if she want to find it right away.
Join speed dating. Enter dating forum. Make some effort. Life is short they say.

Don't be too shy.
You must make yourself shine for men to notice you.
It's ok to brag about your accomplishment in your work.
It's ok to show your intelligence.
Start by writing about yourself here.

There are a lot of available men here in this forum.
I know they will PM you after this post.

But you should not look desperate---
that will scare men away.

Make a lot of effort yet look calm and easy.

[affascinare16]

i never imagined i'll be asking this question... but what if you like someone who obviously doesn't like you? what will you do? what if you can't resist it? would you tell that person that you like him?

[Ginalyn]

i never imagined i'll be asking this question... but what if you like someone who obviously doesn't like you? what will you do? what if you can't resist it? would you tell that person that you like him?

It depends on what is important to you.
If your pride is important to you then you should keep your feelings to yourself.

If you are a man then that's ok to tell, not much consequence there.
But if you are a woman, that's another story.

It also depends on what outcome you expect from telling that person.
Pain comes when you get the outcome
that is totally different
from what you expected.

[anjerika]

It depends on what is important to you.
If your pride is important to you then you should keep your feelings to yourself.

If you are a man then that's ok to tell, not much consequence there.
But if you are a woman, that's another story.

It also depends on what outcome you expect from telling that person.
Pain comes when you get the outcome
that is totally different
from what you expected.

ka agi ko ani sauna da. hehehe thanks to SD, i had the courage to detach myself from my past "feelings" hehe easier na dayon mag attract og new love. char

[kolot182]

question doc. hows ur lovelyf?

[Ginalyn]

question doc. hows ur lovelyf?

I'm 44 going to 45.
I have a grandchild now.
Im sure you will understand that lovelife has a different meaning at my situation.
We have our share of ups and down.
married for 23 years and counting.

S.e.xlife is also at the backseat.
Were too crowded in our house now.
two businesses to run. my partner works on weekdays in manila.
its a crazy life.
but i cant complain.
at the end of the day,
all the stress will be gone
once your grandchild meet you with that innocent smile.

[kolot182]

I'm 44 going to 45.
I have a grandchild now.
Im sure you will understand that lovelife has a different meaning at my situation.
We have our share of ups and down.
married for 23 years and counting.

S.e.xlife is also at the backseat.
Were too crowded in our house now.
two businesses to run. my partner works on weekdays in manila.
its a crazy life.
but i cant complain.
at the end of the day,
all the stress will be gone
once your grandchild meet you with that innocent smile.

ahhh... karapatdapat ka nga maging soul doctor. hehehe...

naa na sd ko lain question. ive been single for 3 yrs now. do u think drs sumthng wrong w/ me?
naa ko gipanguyaban pero ni stop ko ky naa ko nakita sa iya batasan na dili ko ganahn. dn naa sd nagkagusto nako pero wala sd ko ni patol ky dili mn sd ko ganahan niya. ingon ako mga brkada pilian ra kaayo. pero mkaingon ko dili. gs2 lang jd ko na ang ako mauyab seryoso. sa past nko nga mga nauyab seryoso ko nila pero sila lang jd makasala nako so ako mkgbuwag. nganong ang akong gipangita nga seryoso mahulog mn nuon sa walai klaro.