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they're in a solid exclusive relationship right now" and then "
the guy keeps on texting other girls and still chatting on irc", isn't it ironic?
i think it a "gas" and not "solid".
here's my answer:
* If he really loves her, why does he keep on doing that?
Based on your given info, the guy is bored. That's all we know.
* Does that mean that it's okay for the girl to chat and text other guys as well?
When you say chat and text other guys, does it mean to have an affair with them?
What the motives?
The girl is not happy when the guy do those things. What is it for the guy? to feel the same way? not unless the guy doesn't care.
If she wants to do those things, I think it's better she breaks up with the guy first.
Why? because it's considered cheating. (if i'm correct with the "affair")
As they say, an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.
ako-a, Revenge is only for the weak....
* What must she do for him to stop texting and chatting, aside from "banning" him from doing those things? she doesnt want to tell him to stop, because she wants him to stop on his own...
Pung pa sa uban, kung unsay ginadili maoy lami.
So why ban him?
The only way I can think of for the guy to stop, is to break up with him.
(and when he stops doing it, let her come back. - hell no!)