MY FRIEND's DILEMMA: His 1st Love & Morality Issues

[heavenknws]

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well kung ako ang first love (the exgf), the mere fact na nangita ko sa guy on fb meaning nag-long pa jud ko nya... maybe i still have feelings for him first love never dies baya. agreeing on being the other woman or ikaduha, choice pud na nako... as long as nalipay ko, lipay ang guy and i know asa ra kutob ang akoa pagka-third party. i am not going back for him to marry him but to bring the old times (i think) and make up for the lost time but with different circumstances this time around.

kung ako ang imong friend, well lalaki ko, first love nako ... i still do have feelings for her to think na i still communicate pa ko nya and come to the point na ingon ko nya unsa ako status og makig discreet gane ko aw kabalo pud ang ako ex sa situation... mura og no strings attached. legally speaking single ko, i have a live-in partner so i am free to do what i want without the fear of being sued by my live-in partner. at least makatilaw sad ko sa ko ex sauna na wala nako natilawan. sya bitaw ne offer, aw grasya na na.

kung ako ang live-in partner sa mo ha friend, kung makabalo ko asa gud tawn ibutang ako espirito mang-hasi jud ka ba. to think ngano mabuhat nya na nako. but the mere fact na mo sud or ne sud sya ana butanga meaning naa pud koy pgkukulang nya. kay kung secured sya sa akoa love bisan pla pa ka babaye mglaray diha, if sila tanan first love nya, and he is with me di jud sya mo tukob... or maybe mas strong iyaha feelings sa ex kay sa kadugay ato panahon pagcommunicate nila balik mura man nibalik tanan. ambot unsa ako buhaton, the least i can do is set him free... i don't want to be with a guy who is trapped in his past...

kung ako ikaw, well i will just keep my mouth shut... kay bisan unsa mo buhaton di na sya maminaw... labi na talking about morality, awareness, gaba, karma etc... he is already an adult and knows what are the consequences are. basta whatever happens you will be there to comfort him as a friend... kung unsa ang padulngan sa yaha gibuhat...

In my own opinion bilang ako, the three of them are all adults... they think for themselves and responsible enough. they know unsa ang consequences... kung unsa mahitabo as long as ready sila and know what to do and be strong about that's what it is... love is plainly stupid! people do stupid things when they are in love, as they all say first love never dies... naa japon na spark sila duha bisan dugay nato first love baya.

nice, bitaw sakto jud imong friend ra makatubag ana tanan. they are all adult. and i think 1nystand raman. butangan lang jud ug timline.

[ondoy]

usa ray e advise saiya, always fasten your seatbelt when u do it kay lisod na basin dilira kadtong hapon and natira adtong ex-gf niya......safety first before pleasure

[unique]

true love is really difficult to achieve....

why pa man cya nag live-in cla if love niya ang iyang present GF, ngano pa man pasakitan niya iya GF by hiding something like this bisag lust lang ang iya intention.

everybody goes through first love situations.....

doing the right thing is more difficult than doing the wrong ones

[anjerika]

single ray iyang excuse para makatilaw siya sa iyang 1st love? duh. saon. it's tantamount to having *** with another girl while still on a relationship. tilaw ra juy apas. biga. saon. bitaw, ang imong friend dako na na. he knows the consequences. and as for you who is concerned about him, unta ang sakto ang imong i suggest. unsay mas gusto nya, mabusog or makatilaw og lain laing flavors?


thing is, nangatol ra to imong friend for his first love, kay lagi maoy nauna, nya ang babae nag offer sad sa iyang self sa lake. but dugay na nga panahon ang nilabay, daghan na ang nausab.

[annerhexian]

mmm.. thanks sa advices ninyu.. My friend is reading this and let his decision be in the right term even it is wrong for some or let it be wronged to him but right for us in terms of perception.
Ka gets mo? hahhahaha!



they are already adults by nature.. and so they choice to live what life brings them..
makita ra btaw ang katag ana.. after all, there is always an after - effect ..

[john_skoo]

mabutang r nuon na na gamiton ra nya ang gurl.. ryt? even though mkita rapd sa iya gpang.ingon na seryos pd ang girl nya.. nagmahay xa sa hapon, daun padung pjud magmahay sa imo friend,,,,

[exequtor]

kalami ana oi! patilawa lng imo friend gud. unsa man naa ana. ka-OA ba anang magpa-limpyo2x dha. laki btaw na. walay mawala ana. imoral na kung imoral.

[Blacksheep666]

Mao jud OA kaayo... kabaw ko kung kamo pa to, motilaw sad mo...

[annerhexian]

mabutang r nuon na na gamiton ra nya ang gurl.. ryt? even though mkita rapd sa iya gpang.ingon na seryos pd ang girl nya.. nagmahay xa sa hapon, daun padung pjud magmahay sa imo friend,,,,

ing ana jud.. gamiton nea.. "use"
but then regrets are inevitable
if u think only emotions and no longer scale what is reality.

ila sad na brad..
and frankly speaking,
daku na cla..

respect is all from them..

[annerhexian]

Mao jud OA kaayo... kabaw ko kung kamo pa to, motilaw sad mo...

kalami ana oi! patilawa lng imo friend gud. unsa man naa ana. ka-OA ba anang magpa-limpyo2x dha. laki btaw na. walay mawala ana. imoral na kung imoral.

mmmm laki jud mow.. mao sad na g ingon sa akong migo as he read the comments..
but then i think i understand those comments..

They advise what is right and not the wrong ones.
dili man sa nag pa limpio cla or nag pa OA.
they just see the unfair and fair of its effect..


pero kabalo ko. if naa mo sa sitwasyun na pabor kaayu ninyu..
aw taw ra mo para mo pili ani : BIRA or DILI.

its still on choices..

ambot sa akong migo. silay mag igo ana.
ila ng life. amen!