AFTERMATH of a BREAK-UP

[annerhexian]

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after sa sakit... ahahahhaha ok ra dili uyab duh sa? ahhahahhahaha

bsta after sakit..........

nag kat un kog web designing....! nyahaahahaha!
nag kat un kog pamper sa ako self..! nyahaahhahaha
nag kat un kog unwind2 out of town kung magkalisod
nag kat un kog dawat trabahu left and right mao daghn g save!
nag kat un kog sport na lawn tennis...
nag kat un kog g train na libre para sa akong linya na work or more over.. hahaahha
nag kat un kog tambay sa istorya.. lelz.. hahahhahahaha
nag kat un kog get used sa feeling na mag inusara...

[ondoy]

in life mangud sheet always happens n u shud learn to accpt nga it happend n htn movd on.
kung mahadlok ka ug adto sa mall pangeta ug brief nga bulingit din dal-a, pagkita nimu saimu ex e labay saiyang nawong ug igna " nara imong brief imong gi bilin sa balay"

[emjee17]

In your case, iStoryans, does your break-up changed you positively or have you become a cynic in the end?

at the first few weeks and months I've been really bitter but then I diverted my attention into positive ways.

[ChuMMaMards]

break up can or change my life

[prince_achilles]

since i tried nga kadaghan nag buwag sa mga past relationship, ni bato na akong feelings,...

murag easy na para nako nga i-let go..labi na kung dli ako ang nibuwag..problema lang kay

what's my life after the break up?

kung buot huna-hunaon, sayun ra man gani unta mangita ug lain..problema is lisudan ko kay dili ko kabaw mo diskarte...

[motchkatt]

seeing me right now, my being cynical about some things, partly is caused by my past relationship nga di ko kadawat nga in-ato ang nahitabo nako...betrayed as in iniwan sa ere w/o even having the guts to break up with me

[ellehcim]

it was a rough time for me. The first thing i did was to cry, felt the pain(it took me 3-5 mos).During the crying period, i multi-tasked. I managed to let go of the feelingsfor my ex thinking that he will never coming back. next i took care of myself- i became productive, had fun with my friends. ultimately, i'm healed. i'm very happy now

[james_chaw]

you binge eat then get overweight....

[beyee]

after sa sakit... ahahahhaha ok ra dili uyab duh sa? ahhahahhahaha

bsta after sakit..........

nag kat un kog web designing....! nyahaahahaha!
nag kat un kog pamper sa ako self..! nyahaahhahaha
nag kat un kog unwind2 out of town kung magkalisod
nag kat un kog dawat trabahu left and right mao daghn g save!
nag kat un kog sport na lawn tennis...
nag kat un kog g train na libre para sa akong linya na work or more over.. hahaahha
nag kat un kog tambay sa istorya.. lelz.. hahahhahahaha
nag kat un kog get used sa feeling na mag inusara...

happy for you sis you have utilized your pains into something worthwhile. keep it up

in life mangud sheet always happens n u shud learn to accpt nga it happend n htn movd on.
kung mahadlok ka ug adto sa mall pangeta ug brief nga bulingit din dal-a, pagkita nimu saimu ex e labay saiyang nawong ug igna " nara imong brief imong gi bilin sa balay"

hahaha... nice one bro.. but i doubt that i would do such thing hehehe.. thnx for the tip though

In your case, iStoryans, does your break-up changed you positively or have you become a cynic in the end?

at the first few weeks and months I've been really bitter but then I diverted my attention into positive ways.

same here sis, i've had those moments of bitterness for my ex right after the break-up that i ended up giving out "word-vomits" of how he treated me for years but it stopped after a half year.. then it slowly changed to dark moments of melancholy that no matter how much i amuse myself with activities, work, family and friends -- i feel sad and empty... maybe the break-up took a toll on me that i was never the same again.

[missingyouso]

i'm yoyo dieting.

immediately after the breakup, i told myself i need to get in slimmer shape (im shapely but chubby, not fat), it's his loss, he's gonna regret this for the rest of his life, i told myself that if he doesnt want me, some other man will. so i dieted, exercised, and took diet pills. i slimmed up, and some men noticed (mostly younger, i think), but i just couldnt bring myself to encourage them. i cant meet their eyes or even smile. i got more depressed, i cried every night, but i worked harder during the day. i went out more. i even went on out-of-town trips with my co-workers, which i normally didnt do.

now, almost 4months after the breakup, im still depressed. i regained whatever pound i lost, and gained new pounds too, but i learned to hide my feelings. to the whole world, im happy coz i smile and laugh a lot, but inside its a different matter. i guess i just need more time to get my act together, and i think i need to slim up again.