u have to feel pain and get hurt before u can tell that its indeed love. ang pagka martyr okay lang, kana kay tungod mahal nimo ang taw. mawala man gani siya, dili siya mag mahay kay gihimo nimo ang tanan. dili tanan girl is capable of doing that. if in the future, matunong siya sa girl nga totally opposite nimo, thats the time he will look back and think, d gyud diay tanan girl parehas ni kuan (ur name)