before i married my wife.. i was in a relationship of 8 years... i ended it because i dint want to cheat on her, i dint want our relationship to end because of a third party... i ended it because i could never see us getting old together... or having kids for that matter... it was hard for her but it would be harder if a third party got involved... i have no regrets.. and i bet she has no regrets either.... im happy now with my wife and kid and from waht i heard, she got married, had a son and lived happilly ever after...