Ngano mas pinangga sa ako mama ako maguwang?

[mcapon]

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guys just wanna share lang ha, i am self support student...
if naa ko kwarta, i feel ako mama maayu kaayu og treatment towards me if wala naku kwarta
adto siya sikit sa ako magulang unya iya ko padunggon wala koy nahatag niya, iya esagpa naku ako rang magulanag ang makatabang niya.

Ang sakot lang iya kung hadlokon sa GABA, and i feel sad if makasukol or dili naku mahatag iya gipangayu mura sad ko magabaan niya ambot if tinuod ba ni ako feelings?

Ang saki jud kaayu ron, kay naa giprenda ako lola na yuta side sa ako papa diri naku singut og luha ako gihimo para lang naa koy kwarta para maprenda ang yuta diri naku. Unya this time ingon ako mama wala daw koi katungod sa yuta kay prenda ra, unya iya gusto ako muguwang mag baboyan didto, wala daw koy karapatan bisag unsaon pa daw niya ang yuta....

Sakto bani akong inahan?
or ako ang sayup nga dili unta ko gusto gamiton ang yuta kay giprenda naman na diri naku sa una ni ask kog tabang nila wala silay gi tampo bisag piso, dili naku ipagami ang yuta kay naa koi plano nga gamiton.

PLS mga friend i need some advice...

[jntio]

dli kaha ka adopted sis? grabe pd ug inana ang trato sa ila nmo oi. layas nalng sis bacn mka realize cla na my pulos pd diay ka

[mcapon]

TNX BRO jntio

sometimes nakahuna-huna naku ana, pero akong gihuna-huna if wala ko unsaon man akong mama? nga diabetes baya siya... and i witness a thousand times na less og care akong maguwang niya. what if atakehon siyag balik kinsa may mag atiman sa iya medication?
but ako papa bro ok raman hilum-hilum lang kay powerless kaayu siya.
Sakita lagi bro huna-hunaon nga iyang gi pangandoy and kalamposan sa akong maguwang unya wala gyud siyay gikatampo sa akong school usahay kwentahon pajud ang bugas og sud-an....

HAHAY kalouy diay naku oi, 21 ako edad but murag 42 na ako mga problema sa life.

[treize]

pagka uplok sad ana imong inahan oi... ayaw na na siya tagai og kwarta...

[pollybusngiw]

papitli ug kwarta imo agtang bro..hehehe jok lng..btaw, ka nawng sd ug sapi ana imo ermats oi...

[nitwit]

It reminds me of my situation way back a long time ago, w/ my twin sissy. My mum pampered her as in spoilt her so much with expenssive clothes and etccc.... she used to drop her subjects and get drunk the whole time and when my mum found out, we thought she is gonnastop doing what she was doing yet instead, to our dismay..instead of cutting her extravagance she is pampering her more but with me (not to brag) i get good marks at school and sometimes i get recognition but none of them days that i can remember that my mum step a foot during my recognition day. She was nowhere to be found with those special events of my life for all she cares about is my sister.

It hurts alot to think about it that i even questioned myself many times why the treatment isnt fair. I get upset and devastated that i always make a way out of my friends. As i finished uni, i move out straight away (cant stand a nerve being with the same roof with my sister, so done with her childish b*llshit)... got a good job and my family's business got broke (mum couldn't afford to spoil my sister anymore)....

but with all those times, i've learnt one thing.. IGNORING is the best way. Everytime i see my mum buying things for her, i just pretended i didnt see anything that way i dont get hurt 'till i got used to it and my mum realized that due to my cold treatment towards her. I just always say YES the whole time as if i was paying attention to what she was saying.

NOW, i've got everything that a person of my age would be satisfied but im not, cause I can see that my mum loves my sister more than me and that terribly hurts.

I've got a good life and my sister is still depending with my mum (and her baby out of wedlock). Mum even does the "motherly"job for her baby cause shes always out dating.

For you...I know its gonna be hard but just try to do your best to excel on some things. Someday your mum is gonna see her mistakes and the things she've missed. Never ruin yourself just to get your mums attention cause that will never happen. She instead will hate you. Just do your best, learn to ignore for the meantime, the more that you ignore her...the quicker she sees her faults. goodluck

[lola_basyang]

It reminds me of my situation way back a long time ago, w/ my twin sissy. My mum pampered her as in spoilt her so much with expenssive clothes and etccc.... she used to drop her subjects and get drunk the whole time and when my mum found out, we thought she is gonnastop doing what she was doing yet instead, to our dismay..instead of cutting her extravagance she is pampering her more but with me (not to brag) i get good marks at school and sometimes i get recognition but none of them days that i can remember that my mum step a foot during my recognition day. She was nowhere to be found with those special events of my life for all she cares about is my sister.

It hurts alot to think about it that i even questioned myself many times why the treatment isnt fair. I get upset and devastated that i always make a way out of my friends. As i finished uni, i move out straight away (cant stand a nerve being with the same roof with my sister, so done with her childish b*llshit)... got a good job and my family's business got broke (mum couldn't afford to spoil my sister anymore)....

but with all those times, i've learnt one thing.. IGNORING is the best way. Everytime i see my mum buying things for her, i just pretended i didnt see anything that way i dont get hurt 'till i got used to it and my mum realized that due to my cold treatment towards her. I just always say YES the whole time as if i was paying attention to what she was saying.

NOW, i've got everything that a person of my age would be satisfied but im not, cause I can see that my mum loves my sister more than me and that terribly hurts.

I've got a good life and my sister is still depending with my mum (and her baby out of wedlock). Mum even does the "motherly"job for her baby cause shes always out dating.

For you...I know its gonna be hard but just try to do your best to excel on some things. Someday your mum is gonna see her mistakes and the things she've missed. Never ruin yourself just to get your mums attention cause that will never happen. She instead will hate you. Just do your best, learn to ignore for the meantime, the more that you ignore her...the quicker she sees her faults. goodluck

this is mad... but im glad to hear a good ending on your side...

[miramax]

It reminds me of my situation way back a long time ago, w/ my twin sissy. My mum pampered her as in spoilt her so much with expenssive clothes and etccc.... she used to drop her subjects and get drunk the whole time and when my mum found out, we thought she is gonnastop doing what she was doing yet instead, to our dismay..instead of cutting her extravagance she is pampering her more but with me (not to brag) i get good marks at school and sometimes i get recognition but none of them days that i can remember that my mum step a foot during my recognition day. She was nowhere to be found with those special events of my life for all she cares about is my sister.

It hurts alot to think about it that i even questioned myself many times why the treatment isnt fair. I get upset and devastated that i always make a way out of my friends. As i finished uni, i move out straight away (cant stand a nerve being with the same roof with my sister, so done with her childish b*llshit)... got a good job and my family's business got broke (mum couldn't afford to spoil my sister anymore)....

but with all those times, i've learnt one thing.. IGNORING is the best way. Everytime i see my mum buying things for her, i just pretended i didnt see anything that way i dont get hurt 'till i got used to it and my mum realized that due to my cold treatment towards her. I just always say YES the whole time as if i was paying attention to what she was saying.

NOW, i've got everything that a person of my age would be satisfied but im not, cause I can see that my mum loves my sister more than me and that terribly hurts.

I've got a good life and my sister is still depending with my mum (and her baby out of wedlock). Mum even does the "motherly"job for her baby cause shes always out dating.

For you...I know its gonna be hard but just try to do your best to excel on some things. Someday your mum is gonna see her mistakes and the things she've missed. Never ruin yourself just to get your mums attention cause that will never happen. She instead will hate you. Just do your best, learn to ignore for the meantime, the more that you ignore her...the quicker she sees her faults. goodluck

Halos pareho tanan sitwasyon nato bro, the only difference is that, ako maguwang is lalake.
Even my sister in law asks me , Dai, why Mama favors your Kuya nad has got more affections towards him knowing that you're only 2 siblings.
I replied toher, I'm also asking the same question and I still in quest for the answer.

[classicrock]

naka invi cguro ka mao dka matagad sa imu mama.. Hahaha..

[ryeaka]

hmmmmm.... same ta... nakafeel sad ko ana... modeny man akong mom... hihi... ambot nanu na...