How long do you want to be courted?

[floppy]

For the girls: How long do you want to be courted?
-Until when can say.... its time na. I think I know him better... and i know my answer now

For the boys: How long can you court a girl?
-Until when can u possible wait for a girl's answer?

Courtship:
- covers the time from which you confessed your feelings until you are officially a couple.

[mystes]

HOw long can I sense sincerity and maturity from a guy?

[floppy]

HOw long can I sense sincerity and maturity from a guy?

in your own experience.
when do you normally sense these things? Does it really vary a lot?
I mean... naka sulay naka na naa kay gisugot after 1 week of courting? and another after 6 months?

or is there like a threshold or an 'evaluation day". Where you stop and think how much the guy made an effort... how much u felt loved... etc.

[mikangTALAMBAN]

wala lagi 1day bro.. la naman na uso courtship oe... kuyog kuyog naman lang uso nya kun kakakita naa lain kuyog magsakit sakit dayun hahahahaha

[floppy]

wala lagi 1day bro.. la naman na uso courtship oe... kuyog kuyog naman lang uso nya kun kakakita naa lain kuyog magsakit sakit dayun hahahahaha

aw mao ba >.<

pero kanang "kuyog2" ninyo until when mana?
I mean until ma official na uyab na mo?

[7DMM]

i remember courting someone for three years then another person came and i got my "yes" on the same day i proposed and now she's my lovely wife and we've been together for 12 years. i guess "sincerity" here is not a factor since i was sincere when i propose to both ladies.but when i asked my wife why ni sugot siya right away, she answered that she had a BIG crush on me that's why she didn't wasted her time on "palugit" and what i like most is her 2nd reason kay if she doesn't say yes immediately, she might loose me to somebody else.

she also said that what is the use of holding back 2 days, three days, a week, couple of weeks, a month or even years if either sugton ba or dili.kung sugot then ok kung dili so tell the BITTER and PAINFUL truth.

[floppy]

i remember courting someone for three years then another person came and i got my "yes" on the same day i proposed and now she's my lovely wife and we've been together for 12 years. i guess "sincerity" here is not a factor since i was sincere when i propose to both ladies.but when i asked my wife why ni sugot siya right away, she answered that she had a BIG crush on me that's why she didn't wasted her time on "palugit" and what i like most is her 2nd reason kay if she doesn't say yes immediately, she might loose me to somebody else.

she also said that what is the use of holding back 2 days, three days, a week, couple of weeks, a month or even years if either sugton ba or dili.kung sugot then ok kung dili so tell the BITTER and PAINFUL truth.

i hope managhan ang lahi sa imong wife bai! hahaha

[kurt_ian]

Not sure ko ani kay wala ko kasuway na mag court gyud...but if ako...limit is 6 months kong dile gyud ko sugtun dile nako ipamugus oi....naa daghan nagsayal diha sa daplin.lol

[pankie101]

hahaha..wala'y 1 day??!

same as sa akong idol..i don't believe in courtship..
kay di mn mo-matter unsaon pag-court sa guy wui!
maski pila pa ka years siya nga ga-gukod nimu or
maski patukuran pa ka ug balay diha2x daun but di ka ganahan niya, walay pulos!
heheeh...and ngano i-delay pa mn gyud kung mao mn lang diay gihapon mo-ingon ra kag "O"!
dba??! maypa right away! hahaha..para wala'y ma-waste nga time..

[mystes]

in your own experience.
when do you normally sense these things? Does it really vary a lot?
I mean... naka sulay naka na naa kay gisugot after 1 week of courting? and another after 6 months?

or is there like a threshold or an 'evaluation day". Where you stop and think how much the guy made an effort... how much u felt loved... etc.

Hmm sori if u misunderstood me.. hehehe

but to tell u honestly, It depends on the situation.
Sori I dont believe in courtship but i believe in a serious relationship and fidelity and working things out to make the relationship worth to spend.

For me, how long can I sense sincerity - it doesnt mean sa courtship JUD but how the guy is so sincere kung kami ng duha. Coz I dont believe in court2, maybe my instinct told me and how factor Do I like the guy..

Nyways... I will cross the bridge when I get there.. Ug dinha na ko mo evaluate.. on how we are two in a so called "relationship" or not on a getting to know each other stage,

It takes a second to say a YES to a guy but it take a days, weeks, months, years and even a life time to make a relationship last with 2 individuals.. and I guess these things might work if 2 people are in love with each other, matured and knows how to compromises situations and differences..

MAo ra na ako POV.. manta dili mo malomos.. hahaahahahahaha