Tambagi daw ko..my gf posted a msg to her ex sa facebook.

[nardz]

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more more hehehehe....
dear kuya ate....
unsa kaha ending ani

[nardz]

calling noy monrose tambagi na ang TS basin maghikug na ni...sakit na kaayo iya bout...peace ninyo tanan

[richmack27]

kasabot jud ko sa imong feelings krun ai.. ky ang ako sad uyab nag in ana sad message2x pa cla ila mga pics... maka malagot.. may ka nka sulti ka nya ana na nalain ka.. pero ako wla jud ko kasulti nya... girl man gud ko ma hadlok ko iya ko awayon... ang account mani ako uyab ako gigamit...

[monix]

pagka letch sa imu gf pare.......ngpasabot na nna jd cyay feelings pra sa iya laki....

[nice_work]

let it pass lang kay total past is past naman sad...
ok ra na oi nga mangumusta, at least ba to be sport sad ba...
abi nimo geng, dinha hinuon ma-test inyo trust for each other, so just trust each other gud.

[aozora]

i haven't read any replies yet para dli ma influence akong tubag.

first things first, before ka ni sugot or cya ni sugot sa inyong relationship,
you could have set and agreed some "rules". like "no communications with the exs" and
"no contacts with potential boyfriends". (but just set rules if you know what type of girl u have)
and if she breaks the rules... adios,sayonara,etc...

yup, for you, past is past but for your gf, it is not. she can still go back to her ex anytime soon if you do wrong things with her from now on. sayon ra kaayo pagbiya raba.

now, you made another mistake texting her. makita ba nimo iyang reaction when you txt her?
samot pa nga ur asking for a cool off. sa text pa jud? are you serious
how will you know that she's sincere when she replies?
maybe ni katawa ra cya when she replied that you're just too paranoid. hahaha
or maybe she thinks you're just joking.

next time kung nahan ka makigstorya, ayaw sa cellphone kay imong gf dli cellphone.
get it?

it's funny when she gave you that answer when you asked her why she sent the msg.
of course we knew well that she sent a message to her ex that means "hey, im still here..."
samot na nga ang ex dumped your gf. maybe, your gf is dying to comeback to her ex. we don't know.

Should i let her go or let it just go.... What should i do

hinay2x nlng ka daan ug pamutos.
for the benefit of the doubt, bantay bantayi lang sa from now what unfolds. (abangan ang susunod na kabanata). and start finding potentials para dli ka masakitan simbako.
if you see her misbehaving, then time to walk away and never come back.

leave and don't tell her why. why? because she will just give reasons that you would like to hear.

maybe you will feel that this is harsh, i say, that is reality. reality bites.

[baning]

maybe i am lang tingali..

But do u girls talk to ur bf how u admire guys wen magkuyog mong duha? Maka paranoid man tingali wen ur gf would tell u nga lami nag lawas lakiha den kuyog mo ug naay niagi nga guy sa tungod ninyo and utters something lyk 'sawal imal' w/c is a gay lingo for u know..

Im bit paranoid and insecure why she has to say those things.. its not easy sometimes wen ur gf/bf would say she yearns to sleep w/ someone that she ****ing likes.. Like the man of her dreams..actors..etc..

It makes me insecure and paranoid why she has to talk lyk dat...

ot : my ex bf would prohibit me to do this in front of him... mag away jud mi ana... i want to keep the relationship so i obeyed him... now he is my husband...

ts : ikaw bro sa imo side.. do you think love ka sa girl? do you think healthy ang inyong relationship... ikaw ray makatubag ana bro... hopefully ma resolve ra na ninyo na issue

[tamse]

dear ts,


hmmm.. my xbf (my last bf) actually pmed me in ym december 2009. and since i forgave him nman sa iyang gpangbuhat nko, ok ra nko nga chat2x mi, friends mi sa friendster mag cam to cam man gani mi nya and sometimes naa iya current gf... everything is cool lang sa amo.. ako man gani mismo mag lagot kay sometimes he call man gud... and he always talk about our past.. he miss me daw and churva.. and for me, i just wanna be friends with my x.. kay di ko gnhan mag tanim ug galit sa ako heart..char! btaw... wa ra man nko...

but in your case, ang girl naa na bf (w/c is ikaw)... ako wala well, i think as long as you know nga friendship ra jd ang apas sa girl... cool ra man guro.... hmmmm...

you know what.. since kamong duha ang naa sa relationship, why talk it out... ask her.. "unsa man na? unsa man naa pa kay feelings aning tawhana? igna lang ko sa tinuod pra di ko mag mukhang tanga.."
coz you see, if you're going to keep it by yourself, wa jd na klaro..so clarify it to her, not to us.. but to her... owkie? klaroha lang jud..

a relationship is not just about being together, nga love ninyo each other, churva2x.. its also about working things out together... owkie!? so pag heart to heart talk.. in person, not text, not call.. and look into her eyes... if she can talk to you looking right to your eyes then everythings fine... if she cant.. oh well...

[jeff_bonz59]

thanks for all the inputs..we're still in hibernate mode... though i stil cant think clearly my next course of action...i can understand why most girls here would side with my gf... as they say its perfectly fine to chat or send PM to an ex.. anyway past is past na bitaw na.. and i should be thankful wala cya ni underground ug communicate sa iyang ex.. w/o my knowledge.. it's easier when you have that attitude man gud.. trusting that someone and believing that someone are two different entities... i maybe can believe that she is sincere nga wala ra jud to nya.. but trusting her not to PM her ex anymore next time (bisag ingnon pa nako balik nga ayaw) would only put more strain on our very shaky relationship...if i would set rules back again to her.. mugawas na nuon ko as someone who is demanding and overly possessive.. w/c in reality i am not so.. (well maybe gamay lang). I never like to impose rules to someone or somebody.. that would just create more negative actions on that person na nuon and would tantamount to her/him to rebel against your 'so called rules'Im planning to talk to her this weekend.. kaapan man gud.. we had a nasty fight before.. and it ended up her crying, and so naluoy ko balik nya and I just consoled and ask her to stop crying na...I don't want her to use that back again to me.. she might use that as her tool or defense knowing that is my weakest point.. I hate to see a girl crying infront of me man gud... that's wat worries me if magkita mi karon weekend..

[entz_fire]

baliki na bro, give her a chance to prove nga love ka niya.