Tambagi daw ko..my gf posted a msg to her ex sa facebook.

[Hat Trick]

for me its best that you listen her side of the story, dont rush into making any hasty decisions bro..timbanga sa pros and cons, kung mu give up ka mura ra ka nagpa pildi iya ex.

but if naa pa man jud gani cya feelings adto iya ex then kana lisud na..

[reginakrys]

at least open cya to you about sa iyang gpambuhat.. if ani ang scenario as you said..

f mangumusta mo diay sa inyong past..Do u hav ro be so blatant to hav ur current bf see u nga nangumusta ka sa imong x bf?? Cant u just or perhaps do it nga maski kaw lng usa.. Like going online alone? D kuyog imong bf?

don't you think mu-react ka differently? won't you be suspecting her hinuon nga nagtwo-time cya?

sakto ang ilang gpang-ingon.. people do things differently.. and some people perceive it differently.. if para nimo, taboo nang makigsturya ug ex, for some it's perfectly fine.. yes, even if gi-two time cya before.. she already explained to you nga wala ra to para niya.. that's what matters, nga it meant nothing to her..

you said diba nga kapila na cya ni-apologize nmo? that should make you feel secure enough nga she's not willing to let go of you that easily..

both of you should make adjustments jud if you want your relationship to work.. you should tone down your possessiveness.. please don't try to tell her what she should or shouldn't do.. tao mana imong gf, naa cyay iyahang pangutok, capable cya of weighing her decisions.. i think she should be more sensitive to your feelings..

[xiaomai]

this is very normal and ur over reacting..get over it talk it over with her, set boundaries not to call, txt, fbooking ur x's para ma clear inyo boundaries nga dmo kapasakit.. murag its the insecurity talking..its jst a minor thing of course sometimes girls likes to communite with x's sppecially to know if they are okey or have moved on..emotionally OA bya ning mga babaye.. and dont be paranoid.. be glad u have her and not him.. instead of letting it go win her more so she would stop misbehaving over facebook..sala gyud ni sa facebook..

and for god sake ..one mistake and then u receive tons of sorry calls or text.. that proves lang that she is over her x.. and the musta part is just wala lang..im bored kinda stuff lang nga gbuhat niya..besides.. be man enough to handle simple situations like this..dont be paranoid..

[vin123]

obvious ra kaayo iya gebuhat,,,ngita nalang lain bai,,,kamo cge nag uban pero iya huna2x naa ra d i
gehapon sa iya x,,,ayaw ilara imo kaugalingon,,,gud luck

[lowel]

Its ok raman cguro naa commu sa EX as long as di lang mgkitakita...
try it the other way round... Say you towards your EX?...

[jeff_bonz59]

i dont commu with my ex.. bsag naa pa koy fb nya or cp# nya.. i dont rightly add her up or txt her...for me.. the bridge has been burn long time ago.. i dont like to build it again...what blows the top off me is that why she can rightly add her ex and send a message to him at my expense of seeing it... murag g.take for granted ta ka as if your presence is not even there....

[jeff_bonz59]

its easy for others to have your hubby see your exes... but at least.. your his wife na.. your TIE the KNOT already... gf/bf..? there's a thin thread only linking that can be loosen or tighten depende sa situation... and that situation is the one im presenting here...im just worried her ex might respond to her 'Musta' mssg... and a whole other conversation might ensue between them na.. w/o my knowledge anymore...mura btaw ug kawatan nga nasakpan.. sa sunod.. d na na magpasakop na jud... THAT worries me more..

[dropdeadgorgeous]

on a girl's point of view, what your gf did was for me not right at all... ^_^ naa gud xai uyab nga tarung which is ikaw, dili unta xa dapat mobuhat ug things that could make you feel bad... (especially things nga related sa iyang ex...)

[Moongoddess28]

i think its fine.
in my pt of view.
i occasionally miss my ex, pero missing is just a feeling na pwede nko m-feel with other friends,
its not as strong as missing my bf. ana ba?
Ani ni xa migu, u cant control a person, nor can she control you.
If gnhan kag nothing-with-exes na relationship, then pg.sabot mo ana..
kung d xa, ay pugsa..but then most of the time, musabot mn jd na xa,
like me, mu-open up jd ko kung unsay gusto nkos relationship or unsay wa nko gnahi,
i cant bring a grudge nor want to experience pent-up pain jst because wala mi tarung na exchange of ideas sa akong bf.. because for me.. it takes two to tango, and u learn from each other..as much as u learn from urself.,
ang nkanindot mn gud kung open jd mo bro is controlado ninyo ang dagan sa inyong emotions.
And you understnd each other better (part n pd nis getting to know MORE sa usag-usa..) coz dba? getting to know somebody wont take overnight, it goes along with time...
she's not really anything connected with her x bro,..naa mn jd gd nas dugo sa mga babae ba? na nosy kaau for updates, specially sa ilang exes, just because--- =)

U need not to worry, she's submitted herself to you, and that alone is a reason for you to hold on.^^

[jeff_bonz59]

@moon..oh we're open man w/ each other's thoughts and actions sis.. it's just from time to time mo ligoy jud cya...like when I asked her why she would always blurt out to me 'SAWAL IMAL' to another guy's body.. when magkuyog mi and naa mi maagian nga tipo nya.. .. d man na mka ubos sa imong self confidence as a guy??i ask her why.. she says.. its just nothing.. just admiring that guy's body.. mao ra...for me as a guy good.. murag d man gud use ko ana nga muingon ang girl harap harapan nako.. bsag almost 2 years nami and i keep telling her not to.. she always does it man gud... Personally wala jud ko ka encounter ani sa akong mga prev gfs.... sya ra.. Ako lang gganahan cya kay she's thoughtful enough and she cries like a baby whenever she has problems.... and very emotional jud and cry and says sorry all the time, sometimes up to the point of asking her before why she has to keep on apologizing over this and that.....im just fed up of her saying sorry to me all the time.. yet she keeps on doing it again and again over and over....