Tambagi daw ko..my gf posted a msg to her ex sa facebook.

[redhot777]

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wa panay bo-ut imong uyab brad... nurture for it to grow.. kong gahi gyud og ulo... biya.e oi..

[nirdle_phogi]

advice lang nako sa imo TS noh? ayaw ihatag tanan sa imo GF, especially love. kalma2 ra gud.. kay kun moabot ang time nga mawala na sya sa imo, mas sakit pa ang mahitabo sa imo kesa imong na-feel karon..

[Herzensbrecher]

even if imo pa i-consider nga gipasaylo na sa girl ang ex nya, lain gihapon..

duha ra pasabot ana:
1. wala sya self-respect (if wala sya self-respect, how can she respect the TS nga iyang uyab karon). bisan pa gipasaylo na sa girl ang iyang ex, she should atleast show some self-respect nga di sya mo una ug communicate sa iyang ex.. cheating is cheating..

2. she still has a "thing" with her ex..

you consider saying "hi" to an ex as cheating haha! kay kesyo bae ang miuna, naa pa xa "thing" with her ex, but if guy na, swear moingon ra lagi mo na "friends ra na" hahahaha!

at my age, i don't consider saying "hi" to an ex as not a sign of self-respect...

i never said anything about saying "hi" to an ex bf/gf is cheating.. if you read the TS's previous post, her gf's ex-BF is a two-timing SOB.. that's what i meant about "cheating is cheating"..

saying "hi" to an ex is doesnt mean that you dont have self-respect.. no argument about it..

but in this scenario, the ex-bf cheated and yet she initiated a communication with her ex..

personally, it would only mean one thing:
wala sya self-respect or she still has a "thing" with her ex..

[jimmy128]

#1 you are paranoid
#2 you are insecure

not all people do things exactly the same as you.. nangumusta ra jud siya.. bawal ba mag kumusta? if any other message would cause any concern for you is "i really miss you".. you are only creating stories in your head which in turn is effecting your current relationship.. there is a huge difference with rekindling the flames of past loves and asking someone how they are...

[Herzensbrecher]

ani na lang TS, libog pa man ka noh? wat f mag onlyn mo balik, den harap harapan e add imoha ex den send ug msg pod, tan-awa iyaha reaction f masuko xa or wat.. f masuko xa, den tel her mao pd na gibati nimo ug d lalim.. f dli, so meaning, confident xa nimo and naa xa salig jd sa n u relationship... hehehehe! dha jud makita an katag baH!

IMO, this will only complicate the current situation..

like i said:

making another mistake will never correct/justify a previous mistake..

[kleah]

wala ra to jud guro ra imo gf sir kay ngano ako gani naa japon sa ym nako ako ex.mangumusta man japon ko pero wala ra sa ako...dili buot pasabot na nahan pako niya..(married na ko ron with one child)mura ra gud ug mahulog nga nangumusta sa usa ka kaila nimo nga dugay na nimo wa naistorya..
hatagi ug chance..

[jeff_bonz59]

f mangumusta mo diay sa inyong past..Do u hav ro be so blatant to hav ur current bf see u nga nangumusta ka sa imong x bf?? Cant u just or perhaps do it nga maski kaw lng usa.. Like going online alone? D kuyog imong bf?

Do u really hav to let ur bf see it jud? i know lain lain man tag utok on how we perceive things.. Proper decorum and etiquette nalng ta iyang ghatag sa akoa.. Wala nalng ta cya ni buhat ato in the infront of my eyes.. Its different wen u see ur love ones initiating or communicating their past demons back.

f am insecure.. It's because she made me feel one...

[Herzensbrecher]

f mangumusta mo diay sa inyong past..Do u hav ro be so blatant to hav ur current bf see u nga nangumusta ka sa imong x bf?? Cant u just or perhaps do it nga maski kaw lng usa.. Like going online alone? D kuyog imong bf?

Do u really hav to let ur bf see it jud? i know lain lain man tag utok on how we perceive things.. Proper decorum and etiquette nalng ta iyang ghatag sa akoa.. Wala nalng ta cya ni buhat ato in the infront of my eyes.. Its different wen u see ur love ones initiating or communicating their past demons back.

f am insecure.. It's because she made me feel one...

well said sir..

Its different wen u see ur love ones initiating or communicating their past demons back.

i agree with this.. specially kung kato nga ex kay nang binoang..

[jeff_bonz59]

thanks for all the advices u gave mga people..

I welcome all inputs as there are no wrong or good advices here other than the one taken,digested and learn from it jud...

[pretty_jasmine]

so lagi mas gusto nimo na mag inana xa behind ur back? and it doesnt matter naman cguro if gabinoang ang ex oi since naka move on na ang girl and as TS said, hapi and contented naman sad ang girl sa iyaha.. i tell you, if wa pa naka move on ang girl, dli na xa mangumusta, naa pa ghapon na xa kalagot sa iyaha ex f naa pa jud xay na feel.. this s my point of view, pov sa usa ka babaye.. kay ako f naa pa ko "thing" sa akoa ex, i wont dare to communicate with him, ma ungkat ra noon ang old wounds na wa pa jud mi heal.. but if wala na gyud ko, as in totally naka move on nko, so no big deal na if mangumusta nko nya..