Tambagi daw ko..my gf posted a msg to her ex sa facebook.

[Sol_Itaire]

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thanks for the advise bai...

Still now she's txcing me that wala ra daw to ug cya daw akong love jud.. And i shouldnt worry about anything... she loves me jud daw.. She even keeps calling our landline to apologize and again she's sorry but wala ra lagi jd to..

For her wala.. But for me... Sakit man gd

that's all that matters. she has realized how much she's hurt you and has now apologized.

wala ra to niya pero nasakitan man ka, so she has to consider your feelings. a good gf does that. a selfish one goes on with her ways.

[pretty_jasmine]

sometimes man gud TS, naa ta mabuhat na butang na para sa atoa pana-aw ok rA, but for those people we love, sakit na to.. so mao ra ni cguro nahitabo sa gf nmo.. maybe para nya wala ray dautan if mangumusta sa iyaha ex, which is for me, wala ra jd dautan.. but sa imoha glahi nmo ug sabot kay kesyo ikaw wa na ka communication sa imoha ex, gusto pod nimo na mag inana sya.. this is just a petty reason na mag cool off mo.. talk to her and tell her na d ka ganahan mag inana xa kay ikaw wala ka gainana, she will understand you. dont jump to conclusions, in the end ikaw ra ghapon mag basol..

kay based on experiences, i know some friends who are friends with their ex's.. and the friendship was revived after naka move on na ang both parties... im in good terms with my ex man pod and ok ra ni hubby nko since he knows naka move on na mi..

[nirdle_phogi]

Sakto imung gf bro. Paranoid rka.

[jeff_bonz59]

maybe i am lang tingali..

But do u girls talk to ur bf how u admire guys wen magkuyog mong duha? Maka paranoid man tingali wen ur gf would tell u nga lami nag lawas lakiha den kuyog mo ug naay niagi nga guy sa tungod ninyo and utters something lyk 'sawal imal' w/c is a gay lingo for u know..

Im bit paranoid and insecure why she has to say those things.. its not easy sometimes wen ur gf/bf would say she yearns to sleep w/ someone that she ****ing likes.. Like the man of her dreams..actors..etc..

It makes me insecure and paranoid why she has to talk lyk dat...

[leo_trams]

Wala ra gyud tingali to sa imong GF kadtong iyang FB message ug adding her ex as friend sa FB.
Wala ra to sa imong GF...pero sa iyang ex, tingalig big deal na to para niya. At the back of his mind, tingalig iyang sabton to nga gimingaw si girl...or he will think nga naa pa gihapon siya'y place in her heart..unya kuhiton lang gamay, bilangkad...este, yango dayun...hahaha

ingna imong GF nga delete her ex sa FB unya dili na siya mag send ug FB message, chat, or SMS ngadto sa iyang ex.

Normal ra na imo feeling nga insecure and paranoid ka.
Your GFs abnormal action made you react normally...hahaha.

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[rl]

@ts nope ur paranoid, this is the first step or first glance imong gf naa gyd intention or feelings pa imo ex.. in the first place she knows na gud na d ka ganhan makg commu mu pero g buhat ghapon nya, in the first place, respect is not there sa imo. mao lng ni tanaw nako bai,

i've been these kind of situations, and esp mag commu na gani, in the long run naa gyd mahitabo.. nindot na imo plan to cool down lng sa, and think sa mu duha

[andch81]

hmmm.. u know what ay ambot..hahaha.. sakto pud lisod gyud rba nang magkita ang x samot na nga ang usa naa pa feelings na grabe.. but..if u trust ur gf and the trust is there aw go for it.if kaya nimo then go.. asa man ka? mawa imo gf just bec of that or what... for me if she says wa ra to blive her lng gud.

[Sol_Itaire]

maybe i am lang tingali..

But do u girls talk to ur bf how u admire guys wen magkuyog mong duha? Maka paranoid man tingali wen ur gf would tell u nga lami nag lawas lakiha den kuyog mo ug naay niagi nga guy sa tungod ninyo and utters something lyk 'sawal imal' w/c is a gay lingo for u know..

Im bit paranoid and insecure why she has to say those things.. its not easy sometimes wen ur gf/bf would say she yearns to sleep w/ someone that she ****ing likes.. Like the man of her dreams..actors..etc..

It makes me insecure and paranoid why she has to talk lyk dat...

LOL. the girl doesn't keep a private thinking life eh? It's normal for each of us to have thoughts that just come to us, even evil and primitive ones. When someone makes me mad I do have thoughts of killing the person or wishing that a truck runs him over. We do have lustful thoughts. But saying them out loud, for what? Ang pangutana: unsa may intention nganong isulti pa jud.

Maybe she tells you those because she's comfortable with you enough. Or maybe gipasuya lang ka niya. Or maybe she's just plain tactless and unenlightened. pangutan-a nalang siya.

[The Good$!!!]

Your gf is a slut! To even say it aloud in your presence is plain tactless! It shows her carnal desires!

[filibustero]

kung ako nasa imo lugar, i'll ask her:

Unsa imo bation ug i add nako akong (mga) ex sa facebook and maintain communication?
Unsa man imo bation ug makakita kog gwapa ug sexy then in your presence mo ingon ko nga 'lamia/sexyha ato niya oi'?

by her answers maybe you can measure kung unsa siya ka committed sa inu relationship.

i dont think your paranoid, normal reaction lang na nimo kay committed man ka niya and you expect her to show the same commitment.