Jude, relax lang .... there is always a solution to a problem if people truly want to get it fixed, and yes there are ways to say things to prove a point, share opinions and views without sounding on the edge.
Honestly, maybe you didn't mean to be straight forward but reading your response after first quote of Fin was a little to straight , you shouldn't have said right off the bat " study the whole bible " so on .... at times without knowing everyone may say things out of character, thats why we are human.
Heck Religious debates are tough to begin with ... so I say , lets call it a night and look at this as an experience ... seriously the stress isn't worth it
I'm sure both of you meant well ...
my 2 cents