What Men Want from Women

[treize]

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Actually, it’s pretty simple. Deep inside the heart of every man is a secret wish to be trusted. How many times have men said to their wives, “If you would just trust me.” Many men wonder why it seems so difficult for their wives to do something so seemingly simple. The answer stems from the physiological differences between the sexes.

It begins at birth when little boys are given a distinct physical advantage over little girls by having higher levels of testosterone. With testosterone comes the physical strength to both defend themselves from danger and/or run away from a threat. Most little girls don’t have that ability. They don’t have the strength to defend themselves in a physically fight when they feel threatened.

If a boy trusts someone who in turn hurts them, they can always defend themselves physically (or try to). Little girls don’t have that physical option of power. Since a person can only trust from a position of strength, those same little girls will grow up into women who naturally have a more difficult time “trusting” when they feel vulnerable.

So men, when you ask the woman of your choice to simply “trust you,” it’s not that she can’t, she’s just more vulnerable than you. If you want her to trust you, she needs something that will help develop that trust. Perhaps even a tool or gesture that she can “count on ” until that trust with you is established. Thankfully this tool already exist and is known every woman. What cultivates trust in a woman is a man who consistently keeps his word. Making a promise is meaningless if there is no follow through.

A woman needs to SEE her man fulfill his promises because seeing is always more powerful than hearing. Allow me to illustrate. Imagine someone told you that I was the meanest person they had ever met. For months all you heard was how terrible I treated my family and friends. Then one day you met me and during the course of our meeting you begin to notice that I didn’t seem to be as horrible as you were led to believe. I actually appeared to be rather pleasant. Would you change your entire opinion about me from one visit? Probably not! However, if you saw me respond consistently with kindness and humility over a period of weeks, your opinion of me would begin to change. A paradox has just been established. The kindness you have seen in me for the last few weeks does not match what you have heard about me. All the rumors of how mean I am begin to fade into darkness because of my consistent actions. Over time what you see will replace most if not all of your concerns about my character.

Men, when the woman you love sees your words lining up with your actions, trust will naturally follow. When you don’t keep your word it causes your wife/girlfriend to become fearful. From her perspective, she has entrusted you with her Heart and WANTS to trust you. She simply needs your help in giving you what you want.

[desperada]

korek!!

ka serious na ba nimo ron dong oi??

[esprugodoys]

on top of it..... that women would be proud enough to show the world "thats my bf! and i love him."
kanang dili ka ika uwaw.....

wala mn pd cguroy laki nga ganahan ana nga kung kamo lng sa imong uyab kuyog, sweet kaayo pero kung sa atubangan sa katilingban nga dili mo mag kuyog mura ka ug wala mo exist niya. dili ka ilhon nga uyab especially kng naay mangutana nila nga "mao na imong uyab?"

[cptn_star]

on top of it..... that women would be proud enough to show the world "thats my bf! and i love him."
kanang dili ka ika uwaw.....

wala mn pd cguroy laki nga ganahan ana nga kung kamo lng sa imong uyab kuyog, sweet kaayo pero kung sa atubangan sa katilingban nga dili mo mag kuyog mura ka ug wala mo exist niya. dili ka ilhon nga uyab especially kng naay mangutana nila nga "mao na imong uyab?"

mao jd ni ako.......i also wish of knowing my worth to a girl...

[cjmagowan]

mao jd ni ako.......i also wish of knowing my worth to a girl...

ako sad...

[mariaClara]

this is true gyud!

but bali man ang title aning thread..

what women want from men unta ni .. dont ya think ?

[misnoodle]

this is true gyud!

but bali man ang title aning thread..

what women want from men unta ni .. dont ya think ?

may point ka girl! hopefully makit-an ni sa mga laki na mahilig magreklamo ngano dli sila masaligan..

[tamse]

on top of it..... that women would be proud enough to show the world "thats my bf! and i love him."
kanang dili ka ika uwaw.....

wala mn pd cguroy laki nga ganahan ana nga kung kamo lng sa imong uyab kuyog, sweet kaayo pero kung sa atubangan sa katilingban nga dili mo mag kuyog mura ka ug wala mo exist niya. dili ka ilhon nga uyab especially kng naay mangutana nila nga "mao na imong uyab?"

woooooooooooottt.. gi ingon ana ka esprug?

ako ngita sad ko ingon ani... di ko ika uwaw kay ako mismo na uwaw sa ako self hahaha.. btaw wui, kana btaw sad di itago..kapoy man tago.. aw..bf ako pangita ha.. gkapoy nkog tago, gpangitaan nko ako mama hahaha...abi pa lang tomboy ko... kay wa jd koy gi take home...hahaha... ahak!


btaw guys, ako reason ra man sauna nga ako gitago was hmmm... i was 18 back then... tapos lahi amo religion... mayra sad to wui! hahaha..kay gbnuangan ra man sad ko..lelx.. ma feel man sad namo nga bnuangan ra mi, then why ipa ila2x? aight?

daghan sad mi gnhan ipang display and shout mo mga dudes


@treize

--wooow..super sakto jud.. for example the guy told the girl na naa lang important na lakaw...w/c is actually iya gi lakaw kay date..so wa jud diay nag match iyang words..so why trust that person when he cant even tell the truth.. guys, there's a lot of effect to the girls when you lie, when you cant make us trust... gpa mukha mi ninyong tange (or maybe you thought we are).ouch sad bya na ai..and please dont treat us dumb nga di mi mka balo.. taas ra ba mi ug radar, naa lang jud uban nga martyr... w/c is i am not hahaha....

[dangelndisguise]

mao ba? hehehee

[deejjerjov]

....if only...if only..

ego nalang ta ane if only... pwo mabuhat man ne sha if mo open up lang ang concerned partner..pwo if de na gane mada bisag u exert effort to realize this thing...you better set him/her free..rather than staying in despair waiting for this to come in real....

yay ka...