What to do with my GF who still talks with her Ex-?

[Tirong-say]

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5 years is an ample time for a good relation to be established. Mao tingale nga niana sila ka close. They and there family became friends and I guess there is nothing wrong if they are friends and still clinging on it. Friends siya with her X but you are her special someone. Just make sure that you have that strong relationship with your GF, and to get rid of your worries you could discuss it with her.

[Maikeru]

Sabi mo buotan imong uyab, basin she and her family are just too kind kaya they were still friendly and hospitable to the ex- and his family.

I understand you bro, it's like you're being set aside and that you don't matter to her. Even if you're just six months together, this is still an awkward situation.

Ani lang, please consider this as a minor irritation. It's not a problem unless you want to make it a problem. Rise above it, be patient and understanding. Please give it time and see if things become better.

Like rambutan advised, you should talk to your girlfriend though, gently explain that you find the situation with her ex's family a bit too weird and you're uncomfortable with it.

How she reacts to your feelings, either she reassures you that she sees you (AVATAR rocks) and only you or she shrugs your feelings off, can help you decide if she's the girl you'd want to be with and your relationship is the real deal.

This advice really makes sense. +1

[canister_sa_puwet]

nagpasabot na nga inutil ka nga pagkauyab sa iyaa

[kurt_ian]

Ang akoa gf karon kay naa ghapon communication sa parents sa iyaha ex..then ang mom sa akoa gf kay cge lng ghapon communicate sa ilaha..then kung mu ari sa cebu parents sa iyaha ex kay sa ilaha balay matulog apil iyaha ex...
5 years cla mg uyab...kami 6 mos pa lng..iya gbuwagan iyaha ex kay manukmag man...
sa fb kay open ghapon iyaha communication sa parents sa iyaha ex...although wala na cla communications sa iyaha ex.....

I DONT KNOW Y I FEEL BAD ABOUT THIS>>I HOPE MA PATCH UP NI...

I NEED SOME SERIOUS ADVICE HERE

I Agree to the most advice....na...You need to talk to your GF First...kaysa imo iluum imo feelings until mapunu naka unya anha pa nimo isulti na worst na ang situation...

Communication is the best way man gud sa relationship...You need to let your partner on what you feel exactly, Whats going on sa imo self...para masabutan ninyu kong unsa ang dapat na itambal sa situation..

If you find the situation na wala gyud padulngan then kahibaw naka unsa imo padulngan....

I found sa imo situation na Lain sad sa imoha..If ako sa imo side maka ana sad ko na...Mag unsa man kaha sila sa iya Ex while gabie na?

Naka relate mansad gud ko ani na situation sa ako Xgf sa una...while nagka kami pa..she still talk to her xbf...and i did ask her to stop the communication between to her Xbf...

[doom_angel]

for me dli man ayo ni problema kay gf/bf pa man nyo relationship. pakiramdaman pa man ni na phase, so kung dli madala so magbuwag, kung masakitan jud aw buwag. Kung minyo pa noun mo, issue jud ni.

for 5 years na friendship/ relation sa family dli man cguro mawala lang tungod kay nagbulag na ang mag uyab, what if ang family maoy gnahan kay family friend. Kung inyo pahinuon ni panimalay or balay ni personal sa imo gf mura dli sad maayo.

pro agree sad ko sa uban na storyahan jud nimo imo gf sa imo feelings, from there you will decide whether to continue or not.

[Hangin]

Bai dukla ragud na palihug imung uyab, bisan pa ug uyab pamu lain gihapon paminawon oe, kamu nagud ang uyab unya ang imung gf cge ghapon ug communicate sa parents sa iyahang ex murag wala mana xa respect sa imuha bai, masakitan jud ka ana dba? Kung manukmag ang iyahang ex sumbaga xd, hahaha joke..

[lecter]

nagpasabot na nga inutil ka nga pagkauyab sa iyaa

what made u say this?

[lecter]

theyre both chinese families..........
ngka friend ra both fam. bcause uyab cla..its not that theyre already family friends before...

[kath81]

You better talk 2 ur gf regarding ur feelings og para sad makahibalo sad ka sa side sa imo gf ngano ni act cya ing ani..

[floppy]

Ang akoa gf karon kay naa ghapon communication sa parents sa iyaha ex..then ang mom sa akoa gf kay cge lng ghapon communicate sa ilaha..then kung mu ari sa cebu parents sa iyaha ex kay sa ilaha balay matulog apil iyaha ex...
5 years cla mg uyab...kami 6 mos pa lng..iya gbuwagan iyaha ex kay manukmag man...
sa fb kay open ghapon iyaha communication sa parents sa iyaha ex...although wala na cla communications sa iyaha ex.....

I DONT KNOW Y I FEEL BAD ABOUT THIS>>I HOPE MA PATCH UP NI...

I NEED SOME SERIOUS ADVICE HERE

sakita ani bai oi.

Di ko ka last ani na relationship. Confront ur gf, tell her na nasakitan ka.
If i really like the girl, i would even go and talk to ex's parents and tell them about how i feel.

And the fact na u feel bad only means that u dont have enough assurance sa love sa imong partner.
I mean di man siguro ka magselos if walay dapat kaselosan diba?

last thing, bagaa sad sa nawng sa ex oi.