
Originally Posted by
eeyorear17
if busy ang imo uyab sa iya work? then naa sa layo.. LDR japon long distance relationship pjud mo..
then usahay no communication kay walay time.. unsa inyo ma-feel?
Maybe, I'll feel a bit unsecured and worried,
but I will try to work things out. I don't think it is wise to just end up the relationship for that reason. I noticed, that when it comes to this things ang first jud nga madunggan ky
- "wala na xay time naq",
- "He/she is not looking for ways to communicate with me",
- "Iya giuna iya work than me".
How about we try to change those thoughts to this,
- "Did I find time to for him/her?"
- "Have I done something to make an opportunity for us to communicate?",
- "Ahh, I know he/she wants to communicate too, I know I'm important to him/her".
IMO, when you love it is always about giving. And not the other way around. Because when you give love, you will also receive it. Unfortunately, most of us thinks of receiving than giving.
- "This is what he/she can give me",
- "He/she must have done this",
- "He/she must have done an extra mile for us".
How about address that to yourself?
- "What can I give for him/her?",
- "I'm willing to do this for him/her",
- "I'm willing to give an extra mile for him/her".
Despite the distance(not exclusive to physical), there are ways of cutting the gap between you. And that is only possible if the heart is willing to understand, to trust, to love and to give.