Question for the ladies

[a_girl]

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at first i think i would be grateful, would be happy to know that a guy is like that. but thinking bout long term, it would get boring. mapul-an ko i think....
plus it would create friction between us, i bet.
for one thing, once in a while i like to go out with my friends, mag night life, mag inum...
for sure if d sya ganahan ana, then he'll probably dont want me to go as well and won't understand why i have to go out with my friends.

Ur so right sis, ako bf is a techie but not boring at all coz although dili cya laagan as in, naa sad time na gusto ne cya mg night life or just spend some time in the malls, ang nka nindot pa jud kay he likes to do it with me and with our 1 yr old son, not with his barkadas (although occasionally wla cya mahimo coz mo respect lang cya if iyang mga ka officemates ang mag b-day). He also likes night life some times esp stressed cya sa work, but he always wants me to be with him, bisan kuyog cya sa iyang mga ka officemates iya kong pa kuyogon kay iya sad mga offcmates dala pud ilang mga uyab. So Ok rna sis laagan ka or imong uyab as long as kuyog mo or you also spend quality time with each other (nightlife).

Ang naka bati gud if ang osa gusto mo laag then dli gosto kuyogon ka, and not just some times, but always kay kono adto ra cya koyog sa iyang barkada. Nindot jud na close ka sa iyang barkadas aron they will repect you and will not do something na mka cause og away ninyo (vices, introducing 3rd parties, other hidden agendas).

[a_girl]

Mao nay ge ingon na drink moderately! Tanan basta masobraan dli maau. Bisan masobraan ka kabuoton ma abuse ka dili sad maau. Ok ra man ng mo inom or mag night life panagsa, pa unwind lang esp stressed ka sa work. But kanang panigarilyo likaye lang kung mahimo kay mka tartar na sa teeth nya baho au imong mouth. Basta kabaw lang ka mo balance og kbaw ka mo control (pareha nako, patodlo mo?.. knang dili ka mu yaka sa dalan og dili mag suka2) ok ra na. Nya kong mo laag ka sa imong barkada nga dili koyog imong uyab, dapat text mate mo during that time aron wlay ka duda2 sa imong ge pang buhat. Kana relief na na au niya at least ng think ghapon ka niya while enjoying urself.

But if himoon na na nimog habbit or bisyo... kana maayo nakang e gaid or e bitay sa tambis likod sa inyong balay, pabantayan og iring.

[jo_ella]

Naa gyud ni tanan nga characteristic sa kong husband. Actually opposite me before, when i was single ganahan au ko ug nightlife, inom panagsa but dli ko mo smoke. At first, ni adjust cya nko sometimes kuyog cya nko ug laag and same also with me ni adjust sad ko nya. Until natakdan nko nya kay lain man pud kaau nga mo inom ug molaag ko dn akong husband dli, dba?

For me, i don't find it boring cuz if love nimo ang person you're willing to adjust for him. Although dli mo-inom, smoke or dli ganahan ug nightlife ang person, there are still other ways nga dli ma boring ang relationship. Depende ra sad na unsaon ka pagda sa guy.

[camille_16]

uu ni exist pa jd akong bf

mao na pd ka point lisod pd wala bisyo sa duha pero ang bisyo babaye
bhala hilig sya chix,naa nman pd sya chix,ako!
and basta dli lng pd sa laki sya mahilig disaster jd ni!

well then, all i can say is that you're lucky to have him..
maau kay nakakita pa jud ka og mga ingon aning klaseng taw despite sa pagka-modern sa atong panahon ron...

[RainDrizzle07]

at first i think i would be grateful, would be happy to know that a guy is like that. but thinking bout long term, it would get boring. mapul-an ko i think....
plus it would create friction between us, i bet.
for one thing, once in a while i like to go out with my friends, mag night life, mag inum...
for sure if d sya ganahan ana, then he'll probably dont want me to go as well and won't understand why i have to go out with my friends.

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Hi sistero!! musta na ka? anyway just want to comment lang sa imong post..

Ang relationship is mag depende ra jud cguro na ninyo sis noh? coz me and my bf is opposite pag abot anang butanga, though we both don't smoke, I drink na karon and I do have nightlife as well, I don't like nightlife pero in my work nightlife is a must and its okey nalang sad kay I am with people who I really love to hang out with so mura ra ko ug nag duwa2x..

Anyway goin back sa imong post, as of the "friction" thing me and my bf doesnt have that coz I tell him man if ever I go out with my friends, specially now na I am a bit addicted na to billiards ang importante lang sa iyaha is that he knows where I am goin and who I am with and I text him from time to time.. ana lang.. sometimes dli xa mo sugot molakaw ko.. but then again I have a mind of my own man..so molakaw ghapon ko.. ako lang xa ingnon, " I am not asking for permission I am just letting you know what I will be doing and where I am going" anah.. ^_^

And if ever masuko xa and magyawyaw.. ako lang sad xa ingnon.. well you don't like to do this stuff and right now I am bored with playin pc games.. so... iya iya sa ta ron.. ^_^ dli nlng na xa mo tingog.. lolz..

[rhonich]

do you find guys na dili mo-inom, dili manigarilyu and doesn't like nightlife, Boring?, and dili nice na ma-bf?

igo ko.. waaaaaaa T_T

[Talkative101]

dli man siguro boring..

dli man ko mo inom
dli ko mo smoke..
ganahan noun ko nightlife pero kanang laag2 lang gud... then ako mga kaila kasabot man sila og nano wala koy vices especially akong uyab pud

pero ok raman...lingaw man sad akong uyab nako karon

[PipayNove]

well then, all i can say is that you're lucky to have him..
maau kay nakakita pa jud ka og mga ingon aning klaseng taw despite sa pagka-modern sa atong panahon ron...

yeah definitely,thanks sis

dli man siguro boring..

dli man ko mo inom
dli ko mo smoke..
ganahan noun ko nightlife pero kanang laag2 lang gud... then ako mga kaila kasabot man sila og nano wala koy vices especially akong uyab pud

pero ok raman...lingaw man sad akong uyab nako karon

lingaw jd noh?haha
btaw tinsa ingon boring?
btaw stay good para good girl pd imo gf

[Talkative101]

lingaw jd noh?haha
btaw tinsa ingon boring?
btaw stay good para good girl pd imo gf

lingaw ka ayo :P
wala may nag ingon boring.. kay asta ka laagan man sad.. waheheheh
good boy man ko

[ladyaries]

panagsa nlng guro nga laki kron nga ingon ana..pero para nako ayos man bsta nice lang pod og attitude...