HELP My Mom doesn't approve of my Boyfriend

[jforzado85]

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sis walay ika support ang imu bf kung mag ipon mu apil ang bata? kay murag mao2x tag na agi.an... wa pud ko ka gusto.e sa mama ako gf... mao 2 ni layas cya, ga ipon mi nya kapila na cya gi guyod pauli sa iya mama, pagka ugma naa napud cya dri amo... hantud gipul.an iya mama... after almost a year nangayog pasaylo iya mama ug gi dawat ko... this kind of strategy really worked for me,IMO... and to think studyante pako nya cya mana ug skwela... na kaya man namung duha... kay i think lang sad nga murag nakita sa iyang mama nga wa jud mi galisud, hayahay na cyag kabutang naku, murag naguol iya mama nga d na mulingi niya, iya mama nlng juy nakig balik... karun ok nami.... sa ako lang ni ha.....

regarding sa support sa baby, bsan ako mama naggasto nya, maghatagan mn sad ko ky naa mn ko work... aq bf ky naa pud xa kita... ahat xa work drive jeep ky dli xa gusto ingnun sa ako mama na nagpabuhi nko.

[aerown1901]

regarding sa support sa baby, bsan ako mama naggasto nya, maghatagan mn sad ko ky naa mn ko work... aq bf ky naa pud xa kita... ahat xa work drive jeep ky dli xa gusto ingnun sa ako mama na nagpabuhi nko.

at least naning kamot ang imu bf ug work.... pinangga sad sa imu bf ang imu baby? tagae lang nag panahon imu mama, maka dawat rana.... ma ok ra lagi na....

[treize]

try to stand on your own sa, try to raise your baby on your own without their support and that's the time, that you can make your own decisions, mao nang maglisod ka kay wa pa man kay ikabuga sa imong mama siya pa gani nagsupport sa imong baby, unyag mabuntis na sad ka ana imong uyab unya imong mama lang gihapon ang mosupporta sa imong 2nd baby...

try to think the way your mother is thinking, try to feel what she really feels right now, dont just think about how you feel... selfish ra kaayo ka... imo rang kaugalingong kalipay imong gihuna², looks like you haven't learn from your mistakes...

just my opinion to this kind of situation...

[maitoots]

you don't have to choose... try to understand your mothers' side pd. yes you love the bf and etc... but also try to remember that in the end, if everything doesn't work out well with you and the bf, wla jud ka lain katugpahan gwas sa imong family. remember nga ang family 1 ra na, ang bf naay daghan. talk to your mom.. ask him why dli cya gnahan ana imong bf karn and listen to her reasons. ask what will she do if in case magkadyun jud mo anang bf karn.. and bsan dli gnahan imong mama sa imong bf, paadto a na cya pirmi sa inyo, bhala d cya tagdon kay madugay if mka kita na imong mama sa sincerity sa imong bf malouy ra na cya...

[Maikeru]

First off, I'd say, you guys (ikaw og imo bf) should start standing on your own. Most likely, family na biya mo. So you better start doing that. As much as possible, be independent.

Mother's Acceptance
Lisod jud ni, ako ra jud maAdvice is, have patience and work it out. Dili lang kay ikaw ra. Asta na imong bf, let him try to find ways nga madawat xa. An impression doesn't always change overnight, some takes years.

[tamse]

sa kadaghan ni comment i dunno if you'll get interested with mine... we'll just to start, i would like to share this, i have an older sister, xa pnka badlongon, di xa mo tuo sa ako mama, mo tubag2x xa sa among parents, iya jud gusto nya matuman... my parents are not like your mom nga mamili... my point here is, even though my sister is like that, evertime she got sick, everytime she have no one to run to.. it us is she have.. you see sis, wa jud kay maipag palit sa imong family.. wa jud kay ika baylo sa imong mama, and i think you know that coz i can see na love sad jd nmo imo mama (di sad ka pareha ako ate).. on the other side, for me, we'll now i think its time sad nga ikaw nsad mo prove nga love nmo ang guy.. but not on the way nga you're making your mother be in pain... talk to your mom, have time with her, have a date with her, let her feel also what make the guy made you feel para ma feel nya unsa ka kalipay nga nagka kamo aning lakiha.. and for me sis, kita dagko na ta, bsag isulti nato 18 pa ka.. our parents are not getting any younger, for me better share your moment sa with your mom at the same time make her feel that you are happy also with the guy.. and the guy, igna lang gud nga gna lakad nmo xa mao na you need to give time to your mama.. pero ako sis, i dunno.. cguro kung ako nmo.. love can wait, if he loves me, hope he can wait.. anyway, kung kami, kami jud.. kung dili, aw dili.. unsaon ta man dbuh? you can have so many guys, yet i know usahay ra nang imong laki, ma ihap ra.. pero ako, i dunno, maybe i just love my mother this much..but good, she's not the type of parent nga mamili kinsa amo uyab, ang iya lang naa mi sa saktong dalan, we're wide awake when we're doing things.. good luck nmo TS!

[danilo69]

fight lang jud sis sa inyo relasyon soon ma accept rajud na... and u live happily ever after weeeeeeeeee

[jforzado85]

try to stand on your own sa, try to raise your baby on your own without their support and that's the time, that you can make your own decisions, mao nang maglisod ka kay wa pa man kay ikabuga sa imong mama siya pa gani nagsupport sa imong baby, unyag mabuntis na sad ka ana imong uyab unya imong mama lang gihapon ang mosupporta sa imong 2nd baby...

try to think the way your mother is thinking, try to feel what she really feels right now, dont just think about how you feel... selfish ra kaayo ka... imo rang kaugalingong kalipay imong gihuna², looks like you haven't learn from your mistakes...

just my opinion to this kind of situation...

ako mama nag support sa ako baby but halos tnan salary nko hatag nko sa iyaha... wla ra nko gikuha ako baby coz if kuhaon nko xa dli mn sugot ako mama... which is kasabot rasad ko ky xa na ngpadaku ni baby... if ako lng pasultion mka stand nman ko on my own coz i have a good & stable job.... dli lng sad nko ipugos pagkuha c baby coz if kuhaon nko xa im sure magguol ako mama ky wla na dayn xa kauban...

[jforzado85]

you don't have to choose... try to understand your mothers' side pd. yes you love the bf and etc... but also try to remember that in the end, if everything doesn't work out well with you and the bf, wla jud ka lain katugpahan gwas sa imong family. remember nga ang family 1 ra na, ang bf naay daghan. talk to your mom.. ask him why dli cya gnahan ana imong bf karn and listen to her reasons. ask what will she do if in case magkadyun jud mo anang bf karn.. and bsan dli gnahan imong mama sa imong bf, paadto a na cya pirmi sa inyo, bhala d cya tagdon kay madugay if mka kita na imong mama sa sincerity sa imong bf malouy ra na cya...

gitry nko xa dala sa blay many times na but ang ending sa plaza ra mag wait nko for 1 or 2 days... ky if naa xa blay even if naa mi mga bisita yawyawan xa mama... ako man sakitan mao ako nlng sad xa palakton..

[jforzado85]

sa kadaghan ni comment i dunno if you'll get interested with mine... we'll just to start, i would like to share this, i have an older sister, xa pnka badlongon, di xa mo tuo sa ako mama, mo tubag2x xa sa among parents, iya jud gusto nya matuman... my parents are not like your mom nga mamili... my point here is, even though my sister is like that, evertime she got sick, everytime she have no one to run to.. it us is she have.. you see sis, wa jud kay maipag palit sa imong family.. wa jud kay ika baylo sa imong mama, and i think you know that coz i can see na love sad jd nmo imo mama (di sad ka pareha ako ate).. on the other side, for me, we'll now i think its time sad nga ikaw nsad mo prove nga love nmo ang guy.. but not on the way nga you're making your mother be in pain... talk to your mom, have time with her, have a date with her, let her feel also what make the guy made you feel para ma feel nya unsa ka kalipay nga nagka kamo aning lakiha.. and for me sis, kita dagko na ta, bsag isulti nato 18 pa ka.. our parents are not getting any younger, for me better share your moment sa with your mom at the same time make her feel that you are happy also with the guy.. and the guy, igna lang gud nga gna lakad nmo xa mao na you need to give time to your mama.. pero ako sis, i dunno.. cguro kung ako nmo.. love can wait, if he loves me, hope he can wait.. anyway, kung kami, kami jud.. kung dili, aw dili.. unsaon ta man dbuh? you can have so many guys, yet i know usahay ra nang imong laki, ma ihap ra.. pero ako, i dunno, maybe i just love my mother this much..but good, she's not the type of parent nga mamili kinsa amo uyab, ang iya lang naa mi sa saktong dalan, we're wide awake when we're doing things.. good luck nmo TS!

thank you.. mao btw wla pko nagminyu ky dli ko gusto masakitan ako mama ky ug gustuon lng murag dugay nmi nagminyu sa ako bf ug dli lng tungod sa ako mama... hahayz... anyway, thank u so much sa imu opinion and just to let u know interested ko sa tnan nnyu msg pra nko... sakit or bati or nindot i really appreciate it.. thanks so much