Reasons People Cheat?

[LennosHills]

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1. ran out of love
2. needs more contentment
3. has made comparisons
4. immaturity
5. wants to experience more
6. gusto lang jud lain-lain ug yayabs
7. kiatan ug bigaon

[aLohaBby]

dili lang jud contented mao ng mangita jud ug lain..

[jirurie]

i've done it during my high school days..kay nagcheat mn pud xa nakoh..just teaching him a lesson

[yvonne6]

i dont think there is ever a justification or enough reason to cheat on someone one. ug unsa pa man gani na ang reason dinha sa uban, para nako, its not enough. if u r coming from a bad relationship, what u needed to do is get out of that relationship. kung free naka, u can do whatever u wish for minus the guilt minus the other person getting hurt along the way. ambot lang sa uban but for me, there is really no reason for anyone or anybody to cheat, no reason at all

[jbo]

wala jud btw dapat reason mucheat maski dili satisfied sa ilang relationship. f dili ka satisfied then buwag sa dili kay buhaton wyl in a relationship

[tinkzz]

why? its pretty obvious the he/she wla ni respectar ug ni love sa iyang partner

[treize]

The main reason is "NAGTUO TINGALI DILI MASAKPAN" mao nang ni cheat

[esotericlove]

The main reason is "NAGTUO TINGALI DILI MASAKPAN" mao nang ni cheat

WAHhahahah mao na bro, wlay aso na makomkom daw hehehhe sakpan jud permi sa madugay ug sa madali.. hehehhe

[Hellblazer 2.1]

gipul-an na tingali sa sud-an ug gusto mo-tilaw ug laing sud-an.

[kurdapia.nikki]

So, are cheaters born cheaters, or do certain situations cause people to cheat? Probably a little bit of both. Here are some situations that make people cheat:

1. Bored
I'd say this is the most common reason that people cheat.It's tough to keep that edge throughout a relationship. Things start off grand and then level off and then you both realize that it's still real life. When you meet someone else, that inaugural excitement of a new relationship kicks back in.

2. Dependence
At first glance, cheating seems like independent behavior. It could be interpreted as doing what you want, when you want. But I would argue that cheating is a dependent behavior. A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person.

3. Confusion
Sometimes life or a particular situation can get to you. When the perfect storm of confusion is going on in your head, you make mistakes.

4. Because They Let You
If any girl ever cheated on me, I'd break up with her immediately. Forgiving a cheater is putting up with it, and starts a vicious cycle. That person who cheated may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat-because they know they can get away with it, because you'll continue to take them back.

5. Nurturing
If someone is mistreating you, then your first instinct is to get away from him or her. But sometimes it's not that simple-maybe you are raising kids together. If you feel trapped in a bad relationship, it's only natural that you will run to the open arms of a person who treats you well.

6. Revenge
This is quite simple- an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. If they continuously hurt you or abuse you in some way, you do it to get them back.

7. Confirmation of Attractiveness
Sometimes when you're in a long relationship, or if your significant other is taking you for granted, you begin to wonder if you're still attractive. Perhaps, because you were out on the dating circuit, you felt more attractive when you were single. If you have an affair, you've proven that a new person can be attracted to you.

8. The Thrill
Some people just enjoy the thrill of cheating: running around secretly, risking getting caught, andcreating thrilling moments with a forbidden romance.

9. They Don't Consider It Cheating, Even Though You Might
Relationships have that grey area, usually right before you become exclusive. He thinks date #4 is when you're "together," and you think date #2 is when you're "together." If you haven't talked about exclusivity, someone may think they are well within their rights to see other people, even though the other person in the relationship may not.

I don't understand why people don't break up as soon as they have an urge to cheat. Is it natural to have temptation, or is temptation a sign that the relationship is losing its fire? What reasons would you add to this list, and do you disagree with any? If you've ever cheated, why did you do it? Could you forgive a cheater? If you are single, but seeing a person who is in a committed relationship, does that make you a cheater?