to my boyfriend

[FUNAFUTI]

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to my phantom boyfriend:
mag-bangga na unta ta
...and get this over with
Haha.

[Blackjellybean27]

you can't be saying womanizing is the lesser evil!

let's ask the men out there: Okay ra inyu inyu gf/asawa kay lalakero? mas okay nalang na kaysa mag casino, mamugno, mo inum? do you also consider that the lesser evil?

uhmmm that's my opinion kaha. i was just making it clear why i said im happy despite that.
that for me is lesser evil.
example, i wouldnt want my kids na ma hungry because wla na mi e spend sa food k gi sugal na sa guy.
i wouldnt want to go anywhere in this sweltering heat wearing long sleeves and turtle neck na shirts because naa ko mga bruises.
i certainly don't want to be around someone who talks to me like im some kind of dirty person and as if im some kind of dog lang.

and yes i stand my ground na mas ok nlng nako na inana ang guy.
i just need something to help me withstand this kind of thing. what he's doing is something that is common among men which is cheating on their partners.
what's not common is a guy who punches you, gambles all your money away, and gets drunk, then physically abuses you again.

i've been in a physically abusive relationship sis. you wouldnt understand unless you went through that before.

anyway, kanya kanyang opinion. if you dont think thats the lesser evil then so be it, dba?
but thanks for your views anyway.

[vahnhelsing]

awoooooo..... hay naku... nagpadala sa tama...

hinay hinay lang sa gugma
basin unya ikaw mag puasa
makapangutana unsa ning tamaa
bisan nasakitan nagsige pag higugma....

ang lalaki nga tarong
sa mga gipanumpa mounong
sa gipangga magahandum
sa mga buhat ligdong...

sa selos dili magpasulabi
mga kagahapon kalimti
maayong butang ipadayon
pagpinanggaay mahinungdanon..

[Sol_Itaire]

luod pd kau kng lalakero ang bae oi maot ug dungog, ok ra kmi boys babaero ky nature namn. mo abot ramn pd ang tym na mapulan nmi ug png babae

when did it ever become okay? kamo ra may gi okayhan ana. wala man gud ninyu gi konsider ang feelings sa inyu gf/asawa maong okay nalang hahaha

kanus-a kaha mapul-an ning babaero? si estrada nanigulang nalang babaero gihapon...si lizel ug robin padilla na-divorce nalang (murag ni surrender na guro si lizel who once was the poster child of martyrdom?)

[Blackjellybean27]

luod pd kau kng lalakero ang bae oi maot ug dungog, ok ra kmi boys babaero ky nature namn. mo abot ramn pd ang tym na mapulan nmi ug png babae

exactly. it's in ur nature to do that.
call of nature k temptation sets in man gyud. hahaha.
wa naman ta ma hems ana
how women deal with it lang. ana lng ang question ko.

[Sol_Itaire]

^sis, by comparing to the 'greater evils', you have come to lower your standards. you are saying you will just put up with the womanizing.

you are just blinded by love, that's why.

[vahnhelsing]

hala kadaghan sa galinya sa ubos
motambag sakit sa dughan molapos...
ang topic dri makapahiubos
si inday sa gugma gaantos
si dodong, sa lain team modula
nagpabilin nagbuhat ug sala
nganong dili man mounong ni inday
siya ba may pagkulang karon nagmahay?
sa kasinatian ko sa gugma gugma
kung magbinoang mangita jud ikaduha
pero kung ugaling tinarong na gani gibati
bisan ni kinsang chicks dili na molingi...

[Blackjellybean27]

^sis, by comparing to the 'greater evils', you have come to lower your standards. you are saying you will just put up with the womanizing.

you are just blinded by love, that's why.

i understand your stand on this issue as well sis.
im not saying im condoning womanizing.
i just cant have the perfect guy, so ill settle nlng for this kind of guy.
im happy with the other aspects.
nangita nlng ko ways on how to handle this kind of thing.
as of the moment, separation is not an option for me.
honestly, gikan nako sa guy na gi abuse jud ko ug maau. i would have bruises sa arms ko, sa legs...
and thats not all, but lets not get into that k sakit na ibalik kad2 na time.
gikan pod ko sa guy who was so loose with his money, even my savings na wa nlang..
so i hope you would understand why i choose to stay with this guy.
chat, text, occasional meets i guess..
nagpa gawas lang ko sa feelings ko as of the moment.

[bungot25]

hala kadaghan sa galinya sa ubos
motambag sakit sa dughan molapos...
ang topic dri makapahiubos
si inday sa gugma gaantos
si dodong, sa lain team modula
nagpabilin nagbuhat ug sala
nganong dili man mounong ni inday
siya ba may pagkulang karon nagmahay?
sa kasinatian ko sa gugma gugma
kung magbinoang mangita jud ikaduha
pero kung ugaling tinarong na gani gibati
bisan ni kinsang chicks dili na molingi...

this is worth a phrase! lols

[Sol_Itaire]

i understand your stand on this issue as well sis.
im not saying im condoning womanizing.
i just cant have the perfect guy, so ill settle nlng for this kind of guy.
im happy with the other aspects.
nangita nlng ko ways on how to handle this kind of thing.
as of the moment, separation is not an option for me.
honestly, gikan nako sa guy na gi abuse jud ko ug maau. i would have bruises sa arms ko, sa legs...
and thats not all, but lets not get into that k sakit na ibalik kad2 na time.
gikan pod ko sa guy who was so loose with his money, even my savings na wa nlang..
so i hope you would understand why i choose to stay with this guy.
chat, text, occasional meets i guess..
nagpa gawas lang ko sa feelings ko as of the moment.

I can understand where you are coming from.

just remember sis, that if love blinds you, test yourself with this: If your very own daughter comes to you with the same problem, would you tell her to bear it all? That what he's doing to her is acceptable? (society says it's acceptable and to me that's OLD BS.)

mao lang na sis. I know you have your own pace of dealing with things. I wish you wisdom and courage.