to my boyfriend

[ellakylamarie]

Yes, you're right. i am with him, for better or for worse.. d pa gani mi married noh. mao na diri nalng ko nag pagawas sa feelings ko k i have talked about these before to him. true, there's been some changes for the better in him pero naa jud mga instances (which i won't say nlng ha...) na di jud ma wala. i have to admit i am in love, but not madly in love na i am so blind to everything else.
about me, believe me i am trying to be as close to perfect as i can be. of course nobody is perfect, but still i want to be someone na d na sya magka problem. i made a lot of changes sis. i'm usually close sa mga boys, platonic lang ha. unya they would text me before. but i changed my number na gani so no texting na jud sa boys. d naman ko mag reply sa mga msgs sa friendster if naa mag ask ug number, and the likes. in ader words, i do everything to assure him it's him and only him lng jud.
i guess there was also a time in our relationship na nag jealous and possessive ko. after i found out something. so i guess that time justified pod ang possessiveness ko. but guess what after a few months, i changed again.
sa pgka maldita (because i'm naturally maldita) d pd ko maldita with him. as in. lahi jud ang treatment nako with hm compared sa past boyfriends ko.
i hope that answers your question....

naa gyod guy sis nga seloso nga kon mahimo i isolate naka hapit sa mga male species, but if sa imo case nga di naka happy unsa man sad ang purpose kon inyo ipadayon, each one of us in this world sis, i believed, deserves to be happy, ayaw pagpaka martry....if you can afford it, pag cool off sa mo, give yourselves time alone, after some time of isolation pwede mo mag meet again kana kon willing pa siya then anaha na mo mag desisyon kon stop na ba or go, shud u decide nga stop na , give it proper closure para, para mas faster ang healing, kon sa wound pa, ipatahi aron dali maayo.....remember...there's more for life than what we have now....

[jntio]

parison lge mo ni "nikirig" sis oposit mog probz. byae na sis oi sayang lng ka gwapa nmo pg mg antos ka

[Blackjellybean27]

guys and gals for the record lang ha. i'm happy with him. and i believe he is happy with me.
he cooks for me, he does a looooot of things for me. love man niya ko.
like i said sa first post ko, naa lang jud sya something na d nya ma avoid: women! gi kapoy lang ko dealing with that aspect of our relationship
i don't understand jud unsa pa kulang sa akoa. d man ko boring, d man ko ugly. he has the best d*mn experience in bed with me (sorry if that's a bit graphic).
i guess d na jud ma wa ang women sa relationship namo.
now question, how do i deal with this? mgpa blind2x nlng ko? d pod ko ganahn cge yaw2x. im not a nagger jud.
i want him, and i want to stay with him. but tell me how do i deal with his being sucha flirt?
if you tell me to talk to him about it, done na!
if you tell me to cheat on him as well, i just cant. d kaya ng consensya ko.
libog noh?


p.s. thanks sa tanan na advices. i know you mean well, but i'm sorry to say as of the moment, i just can't leave him.

[Sol_Itaire]

how can you be happy with 'putting up with all this BS?'

libog

[Blackjellybean27]

WOHOOO

pytera aning TS oi....

sakto jd ka...hehehe...

it's 2010...it's time for a change...

i hope one of these days you will stop putting up with his BS and walk away from him..and start a new life...


good luck TS...

when men are guilty they tend to become possessive, obsessive and overly jealous....

defensive ika-nga

true defensive ang lolo. hehehe.
pero sis, d pako payter oi. but karon lang jud ko d payter. i always leave boys who did this to me.
i dont know whats in him that makes me just want to stick.
if ths is what they call crazy love, then fine. LOL.

[cheldan_chryss]

Go for the GOLD! GO for the first place...

[Blackjellybean27]

how can you be happy with 'putting up with all this BS?'

libog

like i said that's just one aspect of the relationship.
kng ang other guys naa problems with drinking, gambling, smoking, mine doesnt.
so mao na ma happy ko. k wla ko problema sa mga inana.
he doesnt abuse me physically nor is he emotionally abusive (some guys treat their gf's like sh!t talking to them like trash.) so happy ko..
thats why even though the situation is like this, i'd rather stick with this kind of man.
than to have some other guy who will make me his punching bag.
think of it this way, girl... that's the lesser evil.
libog pa gihapon??
i hope i made it just a lil bit clearer for you girl...

[bungot25]

why man sad nagpailad ka Miga there must be a valid reason

[Sol_Itaire]

like i said that's just one aspect of the relationship.
kng ang other guys naa problems with drinking, gambling, smoking, mine doesnt.
so mao na ma happy ko. k wla ko problema sa mga inana.
he doesnt abuse me physically nor is he emotionally abusive (some guys treat their gf's like sh!t talking to them like trash.) so happy ko..
thats why even though the situation is like this, i'd rather stick with this kind of man.
than to have some other guy who will make me his punching bag.
think of it this way, girl... that's the lesser evil.
libog pa gihapon??
i hope i made it just a lil bit clearer for you girl...

you can't be saying womanizing is the lesser evil!

let's ask the men out there: Okay ra inyu inyu gf/asawa kay lalakero? mas okay nalang na kaysa mag casino, mamugno, mo inum? do you also consider that the lesser evil?

[jntio]

luod pd kau kng lalakero ang bae oi maot ug dungog, ok ra kmi boys babaero ky nature namn. mo abot ramn pd ang tym na mapulan nmi ug png babae