Is closure needed for both of us?

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Nganong dili man angay, hadlok ka masakitan?, please eleborate..........

Ani man gud n cea - Siya mismo tell nako na makalimot cea na friend ra ko nea, ma tempt jud cea nako pero wala baya ko gibuhat..

Dili btaw angay bro ako na feel kay for almost a year na ing ani amo trabaho - sakit na jud. Mora kog iro na way nakatag iya.. hahayst...
Hadlok ko masakitan... Nasakitan na ko bro.. He knows na unsa jud na feel nako nya.. mao btaw na mugna tong - if magkita morag uyab pero dili -kay dili. Pero in fairness nea.... maayu jud cea nako bro. Wala ako masabi kundi kani ra - INLOVE pa siya sa iyang pinalanggang ex pero dili na cea nahan makig balik sa iyang ex.. UG ako - mora kog meantime girl sa iyang planeta.. Sa suma sa amo koyog2 - sa soma sad sa kasakit..

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Ani man gud n cea - Siya mismo tell nako na makalimot cea na friend ra ko nea, ma tempt jud cea nako pero wala baya ko gibuhat..

Dili btaw angay bro ako na feel kay for almost a year na ing ani amo trabaho - sakit na jud. Mora kog iro na way nakatag iya.. hahayst...
Hadlok ko masakitan... Nasakitan na ko bro.. He knows na unsa jud na feel nako nya.. mao btaw na mugna tong - if magkita morag uyab pero dili -kay dili. Pero in fairness nea.... maayu jud cea nako bro. Wala ako masabi kundi kani ra - INLOVE pa siya sa iyang pinalanggang ex pero dili na cea nahan makig balik sa iyang ex.. UG ako - mora kog meantime girl sa iyang planeta.. Sa suma sa amo koyog2 - sa soma sad sa kasakit..

Okay thanks Sis, nakasabot na ko, do not close the friendship for I think he needs you(as a friend), but you can close your heart for him, then reduce your time of contact with him to get rid of that feelings you have, and wait for that special someone that you can call "really yours".......

[clickmenow]

Okay thanks Sis, nakasabot na ko, do not close the friendship for I think he needs you(as a friend), but you can close your heart for him, then reduce your time of contact with him to get rid of that feelings you have, and wait for that special someone that you can call "really yours".......

I can be his friend bro - no matter what. But then, manta sabot cea sa akong gipangbuhat karon na dili parehas sauna.. I have to save my self man pod.. coz if i keep doing it - its a pure misery na guru and I dont want na mahulog ceag obsession jud coz that aint love- its pure obssesion if mahitabo na. And its a heLL for both of us.

thanks sa nice input bro. I need that wisdom from here. Bless u.

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hmmm mao sad lagi.. sakto sad ka sis.. dili baya jud m uyab even thu naa sa point na if magkoyog m kay morag uyab... bitaw sa, dili na closure.. we both dont need it ( well sa ako na part, nahan ta ko mag tok m but then sa iyaha kaha na part sa, will is it impt to him? - feel nako DILI Na guru sa)

get lost myself nako ani.. pero mao baya nay truth.. nganu n enter..

Just keep yourself busy lang jud para di ka kahunahuna sa iyaha pirme sis...lisod man gud kung ikaw ra mo initiate pirme coz we don't know what's really on his mind. if you're important to his life he will find ways to talk with you and iron things out. smile lang sis

[esotericlove]

friends lang usa girl, take it slow kay di lalim na masakitan kung magdahum nata hehehe.. kasulay ko ana.. mas maayo pa friend mas enjoy pa noon..

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

sis f nahan najud ka mo move on, y wait until such time na magka talk mo?for wat purpose na mkgstorya pa ka nya?usually wen u say closure, pra mana sa mga tao nga naay involvement sa each other nya sort of nagka misunderstanding nya knahanglan ug clarifications to iron things out, pra after sa talk no hard feelings na and go on with their separate lives...self-control nana nmo sis...if gusto najud ka mostop ug kita nya den learn to control urself...f mkgkta xa find excuses or alibis pra makabalibad ka nya...naa ra jud na nmo sis...f maghuwat pa ka sa tym na magkastorya mo ug tarong, wen pa kaha na mahitabo?ikaw na baya mismo niingon na f magkta mo makalimot naka sa reason nganong nagkita mo which is makgtalk nya...and besides, to start with kabalo man ka na frendship ra jud iya mahatag sa imo...so isnt dat clear enuf for u?ayaw nlng pagwait na mgkastorya mo ky unsa pa man nyo storyaan nga klaro nmn na nga frends ra mo...kng gusto jud ka makabalo xa sa imong gibati, y not write him a letter instead nya ddto nmo ipabuhagay imong mga kasakit ug uban pa nga gusto nmo isulti sa iya...dba?mas maau pa ky wa kay makalimtan ug storya rather than mgkta mo nya mas lisod baya estorya sa personal about sa imong gibati nya naa kay makalimtan ug sulti so magrigor nasad imong utok whereas sa letter ky naa na ddto tanan, dba?...bsta sis, f its already hurting u, y stay in such situation?as the saying goes, its better to move on than to get stuck and stranded broken...start picking up the pieces of ur lyf...undanga nana imong pagka martyr...u deserve to be loved...and most of all, u deserve to be happy...

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Just keep yourself busy lang jud para di ka kahunahuna sa iyaha pirme sis...lisod man gud kung ikaw ra mo initiate pirme coz we don't know what's really on his mind. if you're important to his life he will find ways to talk with you and iron things out. smile lang sis

thats what i am doing sis.. keeping my life busy and having a healthy life coz for the past months.. nag sakit2 ko coz of depression.. and its kinnda bad jud di ai.. It blows hard that lisod ibangon... hahayst.. smile jud sis.. wala ko mahims.. but accept2 sa tanan facts na naa sa ako atubangan...


thanks sis for that advise.

[clickmenow]

friends lang usa girl, take it slow kay di lalim na masakitan kung magdahum nata hehehe.. kasulay ko ana.. mas maayo pa friend mas enjoy pa noon..

hehehe, nasakitan nako sis coz for the past month.. honestly. I did expect na dili baya dapat.. hahayst.. human jud ko.. OA ra kaau.. but now im slowly learning jud... coz once the heart is given, its really hard to take it back. especially if serious jud ka sa taw.. hahayst.. c rH na lang ako true lab ani oi..

[clickmenow]

sis f nahan najud ka mo move on, y wait until such time na magka talk mo?for wat purpose na mkgstorya pa ka nya?usually wen u say closure, pra mana sa mga tao nga naay involvement sa each other nya sort of nagka misunderstanding nya knahanglan ug clarifications to iron things out, pra after sa talk no hard feelings na and go on with their separate lives...self-control nana nmo sis...if gusto najud ka mostop ug kita nya den learn to control urself...f mkgkta xa find excuses or alibis pra makabalibad ka nya...naa ra jud na nmo sis...f maghuwat pa ka sa tym na magkastorya mo ug tarong, wen pa kaha na mahitabo?ikaw na baya mismo niingon na f magkta mo makalimot naka sa reason nganong nagkita mo which is makgtalk nya...and besides, to start with kabalo man ka na frendship ra jud iya mahatag sa imo...so isnt dat clear enuf for u?ayaw nlng pagwait na mgkastorya mo ky unsa pa man nyo storyaan nga klaro nmn na nga frends ra mo...kng gusto jud ka makabalo xa sa imong gibati, y not write him a letter instead nya ddto nmo ipabuhagay imong mga kasakit ug uban pa nga gusto nmo isulti sa iya...dba?mas maau pa ky wa kay makalimtan ug storya rather than mgkta mo nya mas lisod baya estorya sa personal about sa imong gibati nya naa kay makalimtan ug sulti so magrigor nasad imong utok whereas sa letter ky naa na ddto tanan, dba?...bsta sis, f its already hurting u, y stay in such situation?as the saying goes, its better to move on than to get stuck and stranded broken...start picking up the pieces of ur lyf...undanga nana imong pagka martyr...u deserve to be loved...and most of all, u deserve to be happy...

for wat purpose na mkgstorya pa ka nya? - to know what he is really thinking sis.. he is given me mixed signals mn gud or i am assuming to much. I dont know.. but then, what ever is my purpose. i think daghn jud mo ana nako na no closure sis coz dili m uyab sa laki.. no matter is the issues.. WALA jud ko rights mo demand og talk nea.. dibah?

Thanks sa idea sis.. maybe I would like to write a letter for him or not.. nag duha2 sad ko sis.. kay grabe na jud ako paga "cheap" jud when it comes to him.. pride I longer preserve is no longer here.. coz of the term that the guy is special with me.

pero sis, thanks sa words - this hit me now.. i will think about this too...

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

for wat purpose na mkgstorya pa ka nya? - to know what he is really thinking sis.. he is given me mixed signals mn gud or i am assuming to much. I dont know.. but then, what ever is my purpose. i think daghn jud mo ana nako na no closure sis coz dili m uyab sa laki.. no matter is the issues.. WALA jud ko rights mo demand og talk nea.. dibah?

Thanks sa idea sis.. maybe I would like to write a letter for him or not.. nag duha2 sad ko sis.. kay grabe na jud ako paga "cheap" jud when it comes to him.. pride I longer preserve is no longer here.. coz of the term that the guy is special with me.

pero sis, thanks sa words - this hit me now.. i will think about this too...

mixed signals---yeah bcoz he gets comfort from u everytym mingawon xa sa iyang ex ur there to fill in his emptiness...how long wud u want to be treated this way?dba u said mahug ra ka ug meantime girl?thats y maglibog ka ky f d xa magkinahanglan nmo cold xa bt f mgknahanglan xa nmo mangita xa nmo and ikaw sad, tungod lge ky love nmo xa, naa sad daun ka...bt sis, connect the dots...for me lng ha, gi take advantage nmn ka...wat else do u need to know?bt its up to u...watever ur decision is, suport ra mi nmo...

lets say u lost ur pride, now dignity is all u hav...get hold of it...never let anyone degrade urself...kaya mo yan sis...