Is loving loving a person really hurt?

[nomadz]

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there is one person that i really love that we even planned that two years from now we will settle down..and everything just snapped she left me and her reason was she has a change of heart sakit gud au paminawon kay naghinangat pa ang pasko nag plano pa gani mi unsa amo buhaton kay adto me spend ug christmas sa iya family but everything was blown away....sakit gud au...tabangin intawn ko...tnx

[halcyon_blade]

wow... sakit jud, but in that case, you have to move on bro. maybe, se have reasons, have you asked her? have you ask her why she have change of heart? but whatever reason that is, you must respect it, and you must move on. and remember always, love and hurt is a package.

The ocean is too big, there's a lot of big fish out there.

[annerhexian]

Some instances and situations are really hard to control when it is slipping in our fingers...

Just like my close friend - i called him "kuya" - they were 6 years running and next year they were planning to get married but all of a sudden there was a 3rd party on the moves.. The girl left him for another guy, her office mate. The guy attempt the suicide act (maygani habol ang knife). But then, those past relationship - the guy become sooooo faithful to the girl but then some things happen for a reason. Right now, the guy is still on shock and without a doubt, his life is a mess and chaotic because of what have happen. I have been a witness to the 2 of them, the love that blooms like a flower, died like a flower. I can say or if biases things ruled unto me - the girL is stupid coz she left kuya because of that reason but then I, myself cant judge people and what was happening to them. Some things are not meant lang jud.. Wether, no matter how long or short is your relationship is to that person.


To answer your question - Is loving loving a person really hurt? - the answer will be "yes" but then in loving them - at the same time it is our happiness. It is not how we measured what we felt but it is cherishing things just at that moment. Things are unpredictable and people are too. So in every consequences we encounter - all we have to do is survive after it.

Its not easy to do it in moving on but then it is A MUST and not just stay at the past..

Just be a better person and not a bitter one. And learned things in the hard way..

We never know - along the way - U can find someone who genuinely deserves your heart.

[beyee]

to put it simply, CHANGE is inevitable in life and love

no matter how you analyze things, the part who made a mistake along the loving process, it will always go back to the idea that one will surely outgrow the love you used to share for each other... what hurts is the other person can't understand and see that his/her partner had moved on that he/she chose to dwell on what used to be and could've been...

simply embrace the new challenge and move on

[bhadz85]

lami man pud nang mahurt ta tungod sa love.. that's human nature nga masakitan ta spices na xa sa atong life.. when your happy for the one you love.. maignore ra na nimu ang hurts.

[esotericlove]

nah perti jud na kasakit tawn.. ako suggestion mag talk jud mo to clear things out and kung unsa problem.. basin napa mahimo solution.. but if wala na jud dawaton jud kay ana jud na life.. usahay gusto man nato na naa lang sila gihapon and ato sila for the rest sa ato life peru lahi man ila.. mao na be strong ang try jud mu accept and move on.. okay lang mag emote but not for life.. you still have your own life and you can still find the right one for you.

[nomadz]

we tried to talk iya decison final na daw murag iya pang gi pili ang other one..haay paeta gud bitaw pagkasit nman gud ..i know i have to move on but i wont be that easy.......It's very hard to let go if your mind is already set that she's the one ..yeah i can say she's the one the one who shattered my world..and life must go on.......

[WEI?]

Sakit jud nang in-ana bro ui...i feel your pain.
Akong opinion basin she was just pretending to love you...para nako lang!
If she really love you then why did she leave you all alone?
Just move on nalang bro...it will take long time to recover but thats the best thing you can do as for now! Just be strong..it will just pass by and learn from your experience.

-WEI?

[doom_angel]

. . . she left me and her reason was she has a change of heart . . .

you should be thankful, imagine if she've done this when you're married!
your consolation is YOU ARE SINGLE & FREE !

[clickmenow]

there is one person that i really love that we even planned that two years from now we will settle down..and everything just snapped she left me and her reason was she has a change of heart sakit gud au paminawon kay naghinangat pa ang pasko nag plano pa gani mi unsa amo buhaton kay adto me spend ug christmas sa iya family but everything was blown away....sakit gud au...tabangin intawn ko...tnx

Bro dawata na lang na and learn to move on..