Buntis ko...

[jeff_bonz59]

y man mag paangkon daun...? sabot2x lang gud.. if buntis.. unsa man ang plano? pa-abort? if unsa iyang plans and d pa cxa ready..aw.. CGE GO!.. if padayunon nya.. aw atubangon ang social repercussions... parents, relatives namong duha..

I would say its me.. if AKO JUD.. but I would not be living with her sa.. I have my dreams and aspirations and financially I am not yet capable of rearing a family.. Supporta-an lang ang BATA..

BOW!

[elvandesantos]

d ako ang malipay. but for sure ako parents malipay gyud kay sge na sila dahum nga mka kugos ug bata

[RubySohoRedBalloons]

Sa mga babaye, please be safe even if ang inyung mka partner mu pasalig ug daghan nga mga butang like "dont worry blah blah kay base from my experience, basta naA namu sa scene nga nagtagamtam na sa lawasnung kalipay, makalimut raba dayun sa responsibility after sa pakighilawas. Mao nga daghan kaayu case ron sa mga unwanted pregnancy.

Kita pud mga choi! Dapat hinay hinay lang then bahalag lesser happiness (daw) ang ma bati' basta gamit lang jud ug condom pra safety on both sexes. Sa dili comfortable, make sure master ninyu ang withdraw2x, rythym method, etc. although dili jud 100% effective to prevent pregnancy, are you man enough to take full responsibility?

Usa pa, sa mga hilig mu buhat aning butanga mas maayu sa inyung paris o hinigugma pra willing kang manubag kon magkina-unsa or mas maayu kasal sa' una deposit den andam2x pra sa future para pud malambo-on ang ugma sa mga bag-ong himugso ug sa nasudnong kaayuhan! Hehehehe

*** has been claimed to produce health benefits as varied as improved sense of smell, weight loss, stress reduction, increased immunity,and decreased risk of prostate cancer. Okay Boys & girls? hehehehe

[Ironwood_Cebu]

First, what happened to this thread? I was merely asking for your opinion guys. FYI : I am not pregnant.
Though I wish I would be someday. But thank you for the wonderful replies. Some amused me and some bothered me. Lmao.



Of course I know I might get pregnant. Seriously, some girls are clueless about that? Tsk3. Poor poor girls. I guess the innocent ones. Lmao. I'm not blaming any guy. Not blaming my boyfriend whatnot. I'm not even pregnant. Haha. Read read read please. Thank you.

But thank you for all of your honest insights. Appreciate it. ^_^
For all of the guys out there who will take responsibility, that's good. I hope that there will be more RESPONSIBLE guys in the future.

Again, this thread's intention was just to ask why SOME guys don't take responsibility for their actions. I was just plainly curious too. I wasn't pointing fingers or saying that men are the only reason or the only ones to blame why women get pregnant accidentally. I know for a fact that it takes two to tango so yes, it's the responsibility of the man and the woman. Since they did the s3x part TOGETHER, why not take the responsibility of taking care of the child TOGETHER as well. I'm just stating an opinion.

Peace! ^_^

there was a prior question sis if your thread was intended for the single guys only or apil na kato mga married guys... you were asking man gud "why guys dont take responsibility"... one member was saying apil mga married men sa imu query while i believe you were referring solely to single guys nga wala ni take responsible sa consequence sa ila prior actions.

for clarification lang.

[inna-iks]

EDITED!
For clarification :

there was a prior question sis if your thread was intended for the single guys only or apil na kato mga married guys... you were asking man gud "why guys dont take responsibility"... one member was saying apil mga married men sa imu query while i believe you were referring solely to single guys nga wala ni take responsible sa consequence sa ila prior actions.

for clarification lang.

As I was typing this thread ang na jud sa akong mind kai --- solely to single guys nga wala ni take responsible sa consequence sa ila prior actions. But since you guys brought it up already. We can also talk about the married men sad. But it's obvious of course nga maglisod sila ug take responsibility because they're married. Right?

Oh and for the record : I am not pregnant. Hahaha. ;] Read the entire thread please to get a clear picture of my question. Thank you so much for answering guys. &_& I'm not blaming guys ha kai kbaw jud ko nga kato ako g ingon nga it takes two to tango, na pud responsibility ang girl but nganong biyaan man sa guy? Mao ra na akong question.

So for girls nga makarelate, nganong ipa-abort man sa uban? Di jud lagi na nako kaya ay. ;(

[RubySohoRedBalloons]

Daghana nato makat-unan sa tagsa-tagsa ka opinion sa mga taw noh?Hehehehe Apas pa mu mga pips, kato pud unta to mga nka experience na maka relate jud kaayu ani nga topic, pra naay idea ang mga mu view ani nga thread.. . .

[BackEdge]

EDITED!
For clarification :



As I was typing this thread ang na jud sa akong mind kai --- solely to single guys nga wala ni take responsible sa consequence sa ila prior actions. But since you guys brought it up already. We can also talk about the married men sad. But it's obvious of course nga maglisod sila ug take responsibility because they're married. Right?

Oh and for the record : I am not pregnant. Hahaha. ;] Read the entire thread please to get a clear picture of my question. Thank you so much for answering guys. &_& I'm not blaming guys ha kai kbaw jud ko nga kato ako g ingon nga it takes two to tango, na pud responsibility ang girl but nganong biyaan man sa guy? Mao ra na akong question.

So for girls nga makarelate, nganong ipa-abort man sa uban? Di jud lagi na nako kaya ay. ;(

Edited response for CLARITY: murag diamond hap!

After all that was said here, I was asking myself to the same question...WHY does a GUY dont want responsibility and biyaan dayun ang partner...? Does it make a difference if the GURL doesnt want resposibility too and biyaan sad niya ang GUY in any circumstance in a relationship? is this a question of being irresposible for GUYS only and not women? or basin ang girl lang mabuntis and ang guy dili. Alkansi kay nabuntis.Sooo... aggrevated factor? <---waaaaaaaaaa! Ang question now why man ka nabuntis or nag pabuntis na wala man diay kalro commitment? mabuntis kaha ka ug lalaki ra ang isa?

[treize]

ambot lang sad kaha.. wa pa man ko kasuway ani. suwayan nya nako para makabalo ko...

[shaddaf]

me... dawaton nako ang ako anak but i dnt know kng magpa kasal ba ko... its not best to settle down man gud ky tungod ky naa ang bata.. basin you will regret it, and dako gyud og posibility mahitabo...

[cp103]

What if ingnon mo ana sa inyong uyab? Or bisag di ninyo uyab gud. Unsa inyong buhaton? Obviously sa mga lake ra ni xa nga question unta. But girls are welcome to answer pud, if lake mo nsa inyong buhaton.

Honest answers please. Ayaw nang cliche kaayo sa tanan. :]

if makadungog ko ana from my gf, i guess i would have mixxed emotions. I guess i would be shocked but at the same time confused, be in doubt if i will be able to provide for my gf and the baby, at the same time, be determined to be a good provider. Bottomline is, result mana sa among binuhatan, so both of us should be responsible enough to face the consequences.

Nya another question. Nganong naa mai mga lake nga di ready to take responsibility? I mean. Nakig s3x baya cla sa girl nya of course naa jud nai mga consequences labi na if di cla safe or something. Nganong naa mai mga lake nga mu-runaway and di na magpakita ever?

Let's put it this way. Ang tao, ganahan mukaon ug lami na pag.kaon, pero dili xa ganahan mubayad bisag piso. Y do u think a lotta people ganahan mag.palibre. It's the same thing when it comes w/ *** and responsibility. Some guys like to have ***, but dont want to take responsibilty. Kay dili pud lalim ang mu.take ug responsibility. The person must be mature both mentally and emotionally, coz if naa gani aning duha mag.kulang, wala ghapon au, gubot lang ang agi ani.

Oh and for the record : I am not pregnant. Hahaha. ;] Read the entire thread please to get a clear picture of my question. Thank you so much for answering guys. &_& I'm not blaming guys ha kai kbaw jud ko nga kato ako g ingon nga it takes two to tango, na pud responsibility ang girl but nganong biyaan man sa guy? Mao ra na akong question.

So for girls nga makarelate, nganong ipa-abort man sa uban? Di jud lagi na nako kaya ay. ;( [/COLOR]

This is a classic case of running away from your responsibilty. It's a subtle way of saying "wa man koy labot ana, so dili ko dapat mag.apil2x", kini lang nga statement alone, it shows that the person doesn't want to have any social responsibility, how much more in the personal level.