tabang! 1 week nako wala txc

[cp103]

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wow! amazing naka survive ka four years of that sh1t? hehehehe!
grabe ha. bow nako nimo sis!

naa ko tpad ron na guy na naka read sa situation mo.
what he has to say:
"about his pagka "nice guy", you're making that sort of a reason to yourself na d jud na sya that kind of bad guy. hmmmm think bout it this way daw. when he's being mean to you like that, he's not exactly good guy and just showing his true colors. ay kalisod e- explain. it's like who are you trying to kid? yourself? that's what he's doing to you, yet you say he is a nice guy. nice basta good mood sya, nice basta nice ka niya and good girl ka, nice sya kng wlay problema."

bitaw sis, i think my friend is right. we put up with our partner's crap sometimes k:
#1 (and most impt) - we love him/her
#2 - we keep denying that he's gonna change eventually
#3 - hard to let go

karon na uyab palng mo, he's like that na. putting you through so much pain. imagine kng married na kmu later on and living in one house, does that mean he'll just leave you whenever he feels like it, k nag away mo? unya in the middle of the night while you are taking care of the baby cge pa jud ka worry kng asa na sya, etc etc etc...
think about that...

@ blackjelly: bilib jud ko nimo mu.advice sis, bow jud ko everytime... seriously...

@ts: ka.relate jud ko both you and your bf's situation sis. I've been in both your shoes. Believe it or not, i used to be very much emotionally dependent on my partner. adto nga time, ako pirmi ang naa sayup, ako pirmi ang gagukod, ako pirmi ang g.sorry, even if dili ako ang naa sala. I was practically being a human doormat, that was until i grew tired of my situation that i decided that i should change. Change i did, but the thing is, na.reverse ang situation,ako na pud ang ma.pride, ako na pud ang dili mudawat sa sayop,nya i.palabas pa jud nga ang girl na ang naa sala, it would have been a good thing if only it was on the same girl,pra at least ma.feel pud niya unsa ako na feel all that time nga ako iya g.daog2x. Unfortunately, i did it on a different girl, coz by the time nga nag.change ko, buwag nman mi ad2 na girl, i guess the situation called for it nga mag.buwag mi ad2 niya pra mag.change jud ko, kay if wala pa, i wouldn't have been able to free myself from that cycle nga ako pirmi mag.pahiubos ug masakitan.

Both situations we're hellish for me, and i wouldn't want to be back to being either a human doormat or a jackass (forgive the expression, no pun intended). Just felt like sharing my experience lang sis.

Basta sis, advice lang nako. Learn to be more emotionally independent. I know it's hard, but you have to, kay ikaw jud ang louy. Kay if padayunon na nimo nga dependent ka sa guy, mudako lang jud pirmi iyang ulo, ang you will just make yourself more miserable. If it comes to worse nga mag.bulag jud mo, ayaw pag.think nga sayang inyong 4 years. Instead, realize that at least 4 years ra nasayang sa imo, and not the rest of your life. Imagine nlng kung kamo mag.kadayun. What guarantees do you have nga mausab xa. It's natural raba jud nga ayha mugawas ang tanang baho sa 1 ka tao if married na mo. For sure,musamot lang ka.grabe imong kalbaryo ana sis. I know there are no guarantees in life, but at least make sure that you will have a good and happy future. Another thing you should remember that there should be harmony in any relationship, particularly the intimate kind, coz how can you stand living under one roof if there is no harmony? I'll end it here lang sa kay taas na jud au ako reply dah.

[Blackjellybean27]

@ blackjelly: bilib jud ko nimo mu.advice sis, bow jud ko everytime... seriously...

@ts: ka.relate jud ko both you and your bf's situation sis. I've been in both your shoes. Believe it or not, i used to be very much emotionally dependent on my partner. adto nga time, ako pirmi ang naa sayup, ako pirmi ang gagukod, ako pirmi ang g.sorry, even if dili ako ang naa sala. I was practically being a human doormat, that was until i grew tired of my situation that i decided that i should change. Change i did, but the thing is, na.reverse ang situation,ako na pud ang ma.pride, ako na pud ang dili mudawat sa sayop,nya i.palabas pa jud nga ang girl na ang naa sala, it would have been a good thing if only it was on the same girl,pra at least ma.feel pud niya unsa ako na feel all that time nga ako iya g.daog2x. Unfortunately, i did it on a different girl, coz by the time nga nag.change ko, buwag nman mi ad2 na girl, i guess the situation called for it nga mag.buwag mi ad2 niya pra mag.change jud ko, kay if wala pa, i wouldn't have been able to free myself from that cycle nga ako pirmi mag.pahiubos ug masakitan.

Both situations we're hellish for me, and i wouldn't want to be back to being either a human doormat or a jackass (forgive the expression, no pun intended). Just felt like sharing my experience lang sis.

Basta sis, advice lang nako. Learn to be more emotionally independent. I know it's hard, but you have to, kay ikaw jud ang louy. Kay if padayunon na nimo nga dependent ka sa guy, mudako lang jud pirmi iyang ulo, ang you will just make yourself more miserable. If it comes to worse nga mag.bulag jud mo, ayaw pag.think nga sayang inyong 4 years. Instead, realize that at least 4 years ra nasayang sa imo, and not the rest of your life. Imagine nlng kung kamo mag.kadayun. What guarantees do you have nga mausab xa. It's natural raba jud nga ayha mugawas ang tanang baho sa 1 ka tao if married na mo. For sure,musamot lang ka.grabe imong kalbaryo ana sis. I know there are no guarantees in life, but at least make sure that you will have a good and happy future. Another thing you should remember that there should be harmony in any relationship, particularly the intimate kind, coz how can you stand living under one roof if there is no harmony? I'll end it here lang sa kay taas na jud au ako reply dah.

thanks cp103. experience teaches us to be like that i guess.
like what happened to you. at least na realize mo na it's hard being a doormat noh. good for you, bad lang for that other girl. hehehe. but all in all, you are right. nobody, man or woman, deserves to be trampled on. it's not good being too much of an a$$ either. it's all just a matter of knowing when enuf is enuf.

[inna-iks]

Whew. Tag-asa sa mga replies uy. Hehe. ;] Hmmm... Na-nsa naman ? Nagkacommu namo?

[cuteCandy]

I always have this saying, "If you don't like, then don't. I won't push it." So if he doesn't text or call for a week for example, Kevs nlng pud. I just do my own thing.
Dli lng jud cguro ko martyr when it comes to relationships. Bhala na wala. If dli ka, di ayaw! Bleh! hehe

But then... i don't know... he always comes back and now he's my BF na.
A loyal one.

[LL COOL J]

bootan maning tawhana pero kung masuko cya oposit kaau sa iyang pagka bootan. 1 week nako wala txtc. ang rason ra sa amo away ky GAMAY ra kaau pero iya gipadako. imbis cya ang nasayop murag iya gipasa nako ang sayop. pirmi naman ni. kung mag away mi, bisag dili akong sayop kay kahinganlan jud ako mo txt ug una. kahinganlan jud ako ang mo Sorry. babay man ko. dili man angay ing-anaon ang babay diba? ako pud tawn nga tanga2 mo txt pd ko ug mo sorry ky kani laging d pd ko ka agwanta nga d ko texan. emotional man gud ko pagka taw. gusto ko ma ok dayon kay kung dili mi ma ok, dili ko magka tunong sa akong pag trabaho kay sige ra hilak. nya kay dependent napud kaau ko niya.
Karon, gikapoy nako sa style nga ako ang mo sorry, nga ako ang mo txt ug una. ako gi tupungan iyang pride. ang problema ani karon, gikapoy napud ko ug huwat sa iyang text. nindot na kaayo cya textan ug HOY! TEXTC NAKO!. gusto nako ma ok nami ky d jd lalim ako na feel karon. bisan pa siguro ug ma ligsan ko, or ma disgracia ba ron, wala jud siguro cyay paki nako. kay ingana cya ka grabe masuko. tabangi ko ninyo.

feel nako nana to lain katxt. hehehhe

the best thing you do is call him.. dont txt.. just call.

[CaseyR.]

Sis, kibaw nko ngano. Wa toy load. Pasahi daw. hehehe

[Maikeru]

bootan maning tawhana pero kung masuko cya oposit kaau sa iyang pagka bootan. 1 week nako wala txtc. ang rason ra sa amo away ky GAMAY ra kaau pero iya gipadako. imbis cya ang nasayop murag iya gipasa nako ang sayop. pirmi naman ni. kung mag away mi, bisag dili akong sayop kay kahinganlan jud ako mo txt ug una. kahinganlan jud ako ang mo Sorry. babay man ko. dili man angay ing-anaon ang babay diba? ako pud tawn nga tanga2 mo txt pd ko ug mo sorry ky kani laging d pd ko ka agwanta nga d ko texan. emotional man gud ko pagka taw. gusto ko ma ok dayon kay kung dili mi ma ok, dili ko magka tunong sa akong pag trabaho kay sige ra hilak. nya kay dependent napud kaau ko niya.
Karon, gikapoy nako sa style nga ako ang mo sorry, nga ako ang mo txt ug una. ako gi tupungan iyang pride. ang problema ani karon, gikapoy napud ko ug huwat sa iyang text. nindot na kaayo cya textan ug HOY! TEXTC NAKO!. gusto nako ma ok nami ky d jd lalim ako na feel karon. bisan pa siguro ug ma ligsan ko, or ma disgracia ba ron, wala jud siguro cyay paki nako. kay ingana cya ka grabe masuko. tabangi ko ninyo.

bootan maning tawhana pero kung masuko cya oposit kaau sa iyang pagka bootan
You should know that everybody has their weakness. If nahan raka og tao nga bootan rajud pirmi, murag kuyaw ka mahimong tiguwang dalaga ana. hekhek.

babay man ko. dili man angay ing-anaon ang babay diba?
It is true, nga nice jud i-treat ang bae with the best. But please, don't get caught up with imagination and expectations. This might cause trouble in the future.

Ako maAdvice
Unhi lang sa og text sa pagka karon. Unya nalang sa nang "topong2x sa pride". Wala mo'y padulngan ana. Text him and try to settle things up. And talk about ani nga situation. Open up sa iyaha about the things you like and you dislike about him. But keep in mind that change takes time, it doesn't happen instantly. Paminawa pud xa, ask him unsa iya ganahan sa imo and what he doesn't like about you. Remember, communication is a powerful tool in a relationship, so use it.

[louiese]

feel nako nana to lain katxt. hehehhe

the best thing you do is call him.. dont txt.. just call.

ok nami kron. wla xa ka txt lain oi. salig ko a2 nga dli na nya mabuhat. mao rana ang pina ka dako nga sala nya nko kanang d motxt. pero kanang mo txt2 ug lain, khbaw ko dli na mahitabo.

[louiese]

bootan maning tawhana pero kung masuko cya oposit kaau sa iyang pagka bootan
You should know that everybody has their weakness. If nahan raka og tao nga bootan rajud pirmi, murag kuyaw ka mahimong tiguwang dalaga ana. hekhek.

bsag ako maldita mn ko pro dli lng unta cla magpalabi ug baws bah ahh bsta ang importante ky OK nami kaau kron

babay man ko. dili man angay ing-anaon ang babay diba?
It is true, nga nice jud i-treat ang bae with the best. But please, don't get caught up with imagination and expectations. This might cause trouble in the future.

nosebleed ko ani.

Ako maAdvice
Unhi lang sa og text sa pagka karon. Unya nalang sa nang "topong2x sa pride". Wala mo'y padulngan ana. Text him and try to settle things up. And talk about ani nga situation. Open up sa iyaha about the things you like and you dislike about him. But keep in mind that change takes time, it doesn't happen instantly. Paminawa pud xa, ask him unsa iya ganahan sa imo and what he doesn't like about you. Remember, communication is a powerful tool in a relationship, so use it.

cge nami sturya ani pro mabuhat lng ghapon nya. PERO, kron ni ingon cya nga i-try nya iya best nga dli na nya usbon. nya ako na daun to gi timan-an.. bsta ky migo nami kron. OK NAMI kaau. salamat sa advice

[louiese]

Sis, kibaw nko ngano. Wa toy load. Pasahi daw. hehehe

unli txt for 1 week mn mi nya naay libre 1 hour call. Sun cellular. HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA advertisement. sa mga nag uyab2 dha! pag sun namo! dako kaau ug tabang ang sun namo ky migo nami rn. migo at the same tym uyab. :P suya mo? hahahahhaha