Pls. Advice me!!i dont understand my attitude..will i need a guidance counsel?

[cptn_star]

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if you aknowledged those problems by yourself, then you know that you have a problem...and if you know you have a problem with yourself, cguro, makaformulate na ka og way to address to that problem...it's just a matter of self awareness..

[ain]

pls don't be offended. Just giving out my opinion on ur thread..

being maldita is still unconciously hurting somebody. If you say its normal, then you call urself tactless, or better yet outspoken.

(1) being jealous/being insecure - remember god created us through his image and likeness. So practically we are all the same. And we got nothing to be insecure about. You have so much things on ur mind sis, just focus on one thing ----you, are you! and you cannot change that. But what you can do is luv urself, be confident about urself. Cos once you don't, then you end up getting jealous of other people, whom at the end you'd realize that they are not even worth to be jealous with. And remember, he is just a guy. Let him be, but when it comes to the point where you think he is really flirting with someone else, then there you get the right to really say something.

(2) impatient - its not being impatient u r talking about. Being impatient is different. It pertains to have to wait for something. ---- what you really mean is, anger management issues. you are too shallow. You really need to control yourself, indulge yourself to hobbies or activities, or even exercise. Just to take your mind of anything, and to keep you busy also.

(3) nagger - so you talk a lot. Here you become tactless. this results from loss of confidence, not loving urself, and poor anger management.

(4) back to maldita - you are insecure, tactless, unconfident, not loving oneself and has anger management issues.

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above all.... You still have your bf right?

But.... You really need to change your lifestyle. Make this your resolution for the next year. You don't need counseling. You just need to discipline urself. determination of wanting to change your attitude is the key factor to help you go through this.

(1)first thing you got to do, take a break!! (does not mean you should leave ur bf. Just reserve a time to be with yourself. He will understand cos he's been with you after all those negative things.) you should not decide of anything serious at this moment. Never. Just concentrate on taking a break.

(2)next, do some activities you love. Or try something new. Something to keep you busy with yourself. Cos being with yourself, will make you realize what you are missing.

(3) after the time you've spent with yourself.. go out with your closest friends! those friends that have been with you through the years, that has never let go on any obstacles... It will help on letting you remember what life is all about. Just being happy with the people you love the most.

Or. you can spend some time with your family. Be with them.

(4)apologize to those whom you have or might have hurted. Forgive those who had or might have hurted you.

(5) last, love urself. Be confident!!

you really don't need counseling! Just motivate urself. U can do it :d

thanks a lot sis... U really give me a good advice... I think this is what i need... Thanks for the encouragement..... I owe u a lot...god bless

[RainDrizzle07]

sistero!! na daun mag VuDu na daun tah... ^_^

pero bitaw.. bsag unsa pa ka nindot ang gpang hatag na advice sa imoha
ug ikaw mismo wlay buhaton, wla jud outcome.. ^_^

magpabilin ra ka sa imong sitwasyon.. ^_^

[ain]

sistero!! na daun mag VuDu na daun tah... ^_^

pero bitaw.. bsag unsa pa ka nindot ang gpang hatag na advice sa imoha
ug ikaw mismo wlay buhaton, wla jud outcome.. ^_^

magpabilin ra ka sa imong sitwasyon.. ^_^

Hahahahaa.> Sistero Rain... Ikaw nsad... Nahan Jud ka VUDU ha... Mustamos na? OK naman ko Sis Kow... Sakto judka.. naa rajud nko ang tanan.. Pero right nw kay Nghinay2x nko Og LIHOK on my OWN.... Naghinay2x nko og USAB.. Hehehehee..... KAy KpoY kayu ako STYLE... Musta..

[jodoyz]

@ain: no prob. hehe. i got a friend who has the same problem as yours man gud before. now, okay najud au cya. and she loves herself even more.